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Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by property123: 6:39pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
ABINTUK: OP look for your true wife or you change your mentality. Case close 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by edoman2016: 6:48pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
I will advice you to break up with your fiancée. I think she does not have utmost respect for you. That's why she is refusing to serve you on dining table. Most of my female friends serve me on the dining table when I visit them or they visit me. It is not a big deal to Ladies of good upbringing. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by nwosunnanenye(m): 6:56pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
biacan:C'mon Shut Up Ur Mouth Jare How Does The Third Party Serving Food To His Man Complicate D Rlationship Whats Now Her Obligation Then As A Woman Under A Man's Roof Dont U Think Well Or U Write Cuz U R Od D Same Gender."go Ask Some Nigerian Men Dont Like Their Wives Serving Them Food When There R Around" U B Witch How U Take Dey See People Private Matters 4rm Ur House Lass U Better Grow Up With Ur Thinking Thank U 12 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by boliswitpassprik(m): 7:13pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
biacan: sometimes is wrong with you! I'm guessing your mother used to sit while your father serves him food? Nonsense! 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by boliswitpassprik(m): 7:15pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
MrBottle: Mr Man,sharrap there O so your mother used to serve your father when you were growing up? 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by jeff1607(m): 7:40pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Never marry a woman who sees you as an equal If only pastors can take out a Sunday and address the youths on family values and stuffs When we see our mothers kneel to serve our fathers don't tell me you didn't feel that pride that your father is a strong willed man? 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by MrRichmond: 7:44pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
The rise of this feminism bullsht is really destroying relationships. Our African women are gullible and easily influenced, they just copy anything they see on TV/internet even if it goes against their moral values. it's really sad! 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by Ishilove: 7:56pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
ABINTUK:You go still wash pant. Kwantinue. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by nanauju(f): 8:06pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Greatzeus: Don't mind many people on this forum. Most give out advices that they themselves can't follow and end up complicating things. OP, Communication is key in every relationship. Abeg you, try and talk to her in every subtle way as possible, don't make it look imposing. U say she's OK u to in every other thing. Just talk to her and I pray for changes that'd benefit you both |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by ABINTUK(m): 8:34pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
nanauju: Well, I have discussed with her a good number of times. For everytime I talk to her she begs endlessly. But after like a week or two, she continues her usual character. Lastnight, I told her to prepare noodles for me but she replied that she was tired, probably after eating her own meal. Well, I had to cook the noodles myself. I was extremely upset. So today I decided to disban every form of intimacy and proceeded in declaring a pararell relationship. That is to say "everyone to his/her self". I also warn her not to serve me food again till further notice. This very habit is really discouraging me. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
MrRichmond: sharap! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by UjuJoan2: 8:50pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
I personally don't see why she should object to cooking for you and yet expects you to cook for her. Something is wrong somewhere. Maybe she's the breadwinner, or she contributes as much as you do ![]() ![]() Men need to understand that when women starts shooting cash, the rules change. He who pays the Piper dictates the tune. That being said, she's way out of line! 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by KanwuliaExtra: 8:50pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
https://www.nairaland.com/901342/it-normal-wife-ignore-serving Another topic on the “serving” matter. ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
ABINTUK: Op, i am not sure you have asked this lady pertinent questions. It appears you dont know how to draw answers right from the heart of a woman. I am not 100% traditional in perspectives as a lady myself. But courtsey demands that when a man decides to cook, serving him food should not be a problem. She is not being appreciative of the sort of man you are. And i sense you have been too relaxed. To be honest, you will need to put that wedding on hold until you have both sorted this issue once and for all. I dont think this lady is meant for you. I even fear there are other issues about her you are yet to mention. Now that you have enforced a rule in creating a distance between you two, dont you think it is best you both dont live together? Couples living together before marriage is a no-no. Overfamiliarity breeds contempt especially when marriage is not in sight. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by realtalk19: 9:00pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
biacan: haba! this is not an excuse. whats wrong with serving ur husband food? hw many married nigerian men have um met dat dnt like their wife serving them food. u sound like a sidechick. 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by biacan(f): 9:03pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
realtalk19:Well done real chick...... 1 Like
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Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by realtalk19: 9:04pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
biacan: ar u sure u ar not the op fiance sister? try to understand the OP's question |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:05pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Hope it makes your BLOKOS STRRRRRRONGER every night! ![]() I “heard” that women “serving” men food ON THEIR KNEES helps to cure IMPOTENCE! ![]() 1 Like
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Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by ebig21(m): 9:05pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Oga postpone the Marriage for now, this is not a small issue as you see it, she will unleash her full character when you marry her, Just 4 months she is misbehaving, sit her down and tell her what you don't like in her behaviour, don't shout on her, discuss with her, tell her you are postponing the wedding because of this, she will sit up, if she's remorseful go ahead and marry her 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by biacan(f): 9:06pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
realtalk19:I'm the fiance ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by realtalk19: 9:06pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Greatzeus: lol. i was surprised at the response too. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by realtalk19: 9:08pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Vyolet: tank u my sister. some men love to be pampered and respected 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by lilmax(m): 9:14pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
all I see here is a marriage where there would be no respect for you.... the fact is she took advantage of you cooking that's why whoever said give a woman 2 she'll take 5 wasn't wrong trash it now or you regret it forever... imagine, someone trying to be at least modern taken for granted 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by dada01(m): 9:20pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
ABINTUK: I think there is a big problem here and every body seems to be cool with it. Am not trying to criticize neither am I righteous, but WHAT THE Bleep HAS HAPPENED TO SANCTITY IN MARRIAGE...... Thats the problem i see here, not married but living together and even proudly telling the world.... Hmmm*** SPITS*** 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by daryoor(m): 9:21pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
u need to wear d pants in your home. its not about food its about control. let her know you she is wrong. dont be soft. rules are established at the beginning of every relationship. |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by MrRichmond: 9:22pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:Oh! did I pull your tiny legs or hurt your fragile heart?? Alright... run along now and go hug a teddy bear. Daddy is busy now, he will cum take care of you later... |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by Oyindidi(f): 9:29pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
biacan:biacan!!! Mpia gi! A lady wey no fit go dish food for her husband-to-be that one serious for marriage? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by DBestDoc(f): 9:33pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
property123: I have already given him my honest advise, it's now his responsibility to put things to work. The answer to your question is a yes. People have real life issues and as far as i'm concerned, this should not be one. People should grow up before thinking of marriage, it will do all of us a lot of good 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by LordKO(m): 9:33pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
@OP You're rather seeing her negative attitude in this regard from the surface, the root issue is that she's a self-centered woman. And don't forget that major accompany vices of it are hypocrisy, ungratefulness and insatiableness - you may not be insightful to observe them now, but she'll surely begin to mete them out to you in the near future. If you're not ready to be subjugable to her for the rest of your life, kindly call her to order to embrace a change of ethical leanings - she can change for good if she volitionally wishes to, because where there's a will there's a way. However, if she refuses to change for good, consider to discard her. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by biacan(f): 9:35pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Aunty your nor as a young girl "which I am" all this things are stressful for me ![]() ![]() ![]() But why can't men serve themselves biko |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by MrBottle: 9:54pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
boliswitpassprik:I grew up in a balanced household where no man knows which chores is meant for man or a woman. Continue waiting to be serve and end up starving to death. Imagine relying on someone to feed myself....come suck breast join 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by Oyindidi(f): 9:57pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
biacan:They are not used to doing that. In this case, the man prepared the food and he asked her to serve him My dear, don't blame the op for getting angry. You better start learning now |
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