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My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:20am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country. Here's the story I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself. Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me. Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself. Please, guys what do I do? She has never requested anything from me before. Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south? If yes how do I go about it? Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have.. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by emeijeh(m): 7:21am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Is it possible after leaving orientation camp? If yes, then redeploy 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by amnesty7: 7:28am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Mamma's boy! So if Chevron should employ you after service and post you to Rivers State, she will still be worried cos gunmen kill people there? 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:30am On Jan 07, 2018 |
emeijeh: It is possible but with money. All the people I am contacting said N50k. I only have 20 and there's the fear of being scammed I am just troubled. The online portal is still open but only security and marital options showing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:30am On Jan 07, 2018 |
amnesty7: Not like that bro. Na only 2 of us against the world 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 07, 2018 |
uzoclinton: Bro, I can't even sleep again. Though I lied to her that where I am is good, honestly to get even paracetamol you must travel to the next town. Na bush I dey 5 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:34am On Jan 07, 2018 |
NyscTroubled:Go back home before It is too late... Apply for relocation 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:39am On Jan 07, 2018 |
uzoclinton: And risk being queried and possibly service extension. Right now, I can't move till relocation is approved. The portal doesn't even option for health. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:50am On Jan 07, 2018 |
NyscTroubled:I didn't say you should Go awol.. just apply for relocation 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 8:05am On Jan 07, 2018 |
uzoclinton: That's what I want to do but there are only 2 options there. Security and marital. That's why I need to know whether if I pick security, is family pressure with the explanation above enough reason for me to relocate? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 8:07am On Jan 07, 2018 |
NyscTroubled:Figure that one out yourself..... ciao 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by middlebelter(m): 8:07am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Don't miss the experience of staying away from home on account of National Service for one. My humble suggestion, travel home, is to have a robust discussion with her, and let her know you are safe and also keep safe anyway. Promise to be calling her every day or two days, pray with her on phone in the morning before going out each day and you can be sure she will be comfortable with your stay in Kwara. I schooled in Kwara State and spent close to 10years years there, it is one of the safest states in this country. Be of good courage, it shall be well with you. 49 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 8:14am On Jan 07, 2018 |
middlebelter: Bro I have stayed away from home since 2010. Only went home to spend time with her before service. As for Kwara, you may have lived in a good place. Ppa doesn't even have a clinic.. tp to and fro where I can get basic drugs is roughly N500. Nothing here to enjoy. Besides If I were to redeploy, I would not redeploying to home but a neighboring state. Thanks anyways. 14 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by toogbasky(m): 9:08am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Only if u cud get sum1 genuine to help u run dis stuff,,,, it doesn't take more Dan one week and u wudnt need to apply online 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by onlyme07(m): 9:40am On Jan 07, 2018 |
NyscTroubled:That is the true cost bro. Just make sure it is someone that redeployed that link you up.. You're the only child...pity your Mum 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Kenzico(m): 9:59am On Jan 07, 2018 |
This is bad! I wonder why ur mom getting tensed up like this. Redeploy back to the south if that's what she wants. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by ishowdotgmail(m): 4:03pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Settle with your ppa and LGI and move back to kwara. You can always go for your monthly clearance cos of your mum. Believe me, she needs you around her 12 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Edge1(m): 4:03pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Pls hurry up, she needs to breast feed you 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Iyajelili(f): 4:05pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Firstly, OP nothing is gonna happen to you in God's name. Secondly, I want you to know mother's are over protective and when you are not close to where they can easily visit or see you they panic and become scared. I doubt if you can redeploy 3months into service, so the best bet is to try and explain things to her and give her a visit soon. Btw, don't bother giving anybody money to help you with redeployment except you follow normal process through NYSC Kwara . I am saying this because I served in Kwara. Lastly, I wish you a wonderful and peaceful service year. 7 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by blackbeau1(f): 4:05pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Then relocate home. Mothers have this 'thing'. I can't tell you how many times its happened to me. I end up regretting that I didn't listen 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by beautyhd: 4:06pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Redeploy ASAP, it's not easy being an a only child. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by asawanathegreat(m): 4:06pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
U be tatah wey mom dey feed? Nawa ooo |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by whitering: 4:06pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
If only there is guarantee in getting a good job. Na by force to serve your father land. Family first jare. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by SpecialAdviser(m): 4:07pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
What you need to do is to immediately fortify the two keys to life. The spiritual realm and the Physical realm. If u don't work on both, how are you sure you will be safe when you redeploy. You may even have accident God forbid on your way back home if you redeploy. Bad dreams can materialize any where and no place is peculiar. To fortify your spiritual realm do these; Fasting, Almsgiving, Thanksgiving and Fervent midnight prayers. To fortify your physical realm do these; Cut off much friends, don't go out at night , don't date much women, make sure u stay at a secured environment. In fact any human physical security conscious measures. Do these and you are fine. Explain same to your mother that coming home may not mean you are safe. Let her also say prayers for you. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by omololu2020(m): 4:09pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
NyscTroubled:which state and city are you from? And where in kwara are you serving? |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by babyfaceafrica: 4:10pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Where is your home? |
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Chiedu4Trump: 4:14pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
I cannot blame ur mum, so many corpers have been killed by Buhari's Fulani people. The NYSC must be stopped, it's simply a ploy to take our well educated children to the North to work cheaply. Since the North considers Eduction to be Haram, how come they want Southerners to come and work for them? The South of Nigeria needs to wakeup and see that we are being sucked dry. They take our oil and human resource in the guise of NYSC, all we get back from them is nothing but violence 1 Like |
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