biacan:
She is in pain right now biko she might kill herself........ just carry her to your place for some time so she'll be under your watch you guys have come a long way....... biko nna meliya ebere

Bia warn yaself

Greatzeus:
She didn't love you period!! That other guy might be broke,but she loves him. Despite the fact that she hasn't seen you in months,yet you called her to meet you somewhere,she gave excuse,you went to her house,pick her up, lodge her in a hotel,yet she couldn't wait to leave c'mon guys be wise now. It's obvious,she didn't love you,she just want a financially stable man to get married to.

When someone doesn't truly love you, those little signs are always there, but most times we choose to ignore them. Love is not something you can fake 100%. People should learn to open their eyes and read the signs.
Also guys, never spend money to get a girl. You would pay for it dearly. Use your money to better your life and make yourself more attractive. Spending money on a girl would NEVER make her love you.

I am not saying this can't happen, but I wonder how someone will cook up this story and people are busy responding. This is total falacy. How could the parents have called their daughter to spend the night with her fiance at the hotel when in the first place the guy never told them they were going to a hotel. What warranted the call in the first place? There was never an argument between the young man and his would-be inlaws as to whether or not their daughter could spend their night together that very day. All the stories flying around in social media these days tend to portray our young girls in bad light when in the real sense, we know we men might not be better. Don't believe this bull shit!

If you are not married, you are not married.

humilitypays:
this is one great mistake guys make. We date down while ladies date up.

Seriously, I think guys ought to stop going for broke girls once they make it so their sense can come back.

But it won't happen sha cos guys think with their dick, sadly

Love is powerful, my brother. It can make a graduate fall in love with an illiterate orange seller. And it is not about the gender all the time. Women date down too. It is not a male thing. Michelle Obama dated Barack even though she was his senior at work at that time.

kaorama:
I am not saying this can't happen, but I wonder how someone will cook up this story and people are busy responding. This is total falacy. How could the parents have called their daughter to spend the night with her fiance at the hotel when in the first place the guy never told them they were going to a hotel. What warranted the call in the first place? There was never an argument between the young man and his would-be inlaws as to whether or not their daughter could spend their night together that very day. All the stories flying around in social media these days tend to portray our young girls in bad light when in the real sense, we know we men might not be better. Don't believe this bull shit!

Bro, read the story very well.

The OP said they were making arrangements for their wedding. That was the excuse the girl made to her parents before they allowed her go. There are no evidences that the parents agreed easily.

Next2Bezee:


You have now changed all to majority You no wan call your papa & your brothers hypocrites again?

Honestly, she's a disgrace to womanhood or do I say ladyhood because I feel shy that she's a lady.

Well,it's a prayer answered for you and for another lady praying against anything delaying her husband from showing up.

Just go ahead and thank God.

biacan:
No it's not like that I mean if you're having infidelity issues with her you should take her there cause she's a change woman she have learned her lesson trust me on this she will be forever submissive to you than before...... biko nna give a listening ear biko ehweyniwe nna biko orzugo

So you believed the Op? This guy is just craving for attention, nothing of such happened. He made up the story so that people will be commenting and he will be enjoying the attention he is getting. If you doubt me, go through his profile then you will discover he is known for this kind of fake story.

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wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

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My annoyance with you is not because you're an unrepentant attention seeker but because the majority of people believed your fake story! You know that this story is as fake as they come but you just love the attention you get when people comment on your fake story. You're only craving attention and you know it. Nawao people can do anything for the front page.

FemiEddy:

Stop quoting me Na, haba! Just because of my post, u hav quoted me several times nd even abused me, what's your problem lady.

I didn't know I will still get the moniker right. I have seen some very stupid post, I have made some too...but that one was in a league of its own.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This op think we are kids! So many unbelievable holes in this story

proves him wrong by identifying the holes. accept the fact that you girls not all are in this kind of attitude.
just pray say ds kind thing no happen to you

BiafranBushBoy:


Would you mind a pm?

I don't mind

After I got married in 2014, I realized a lot of beautiful girls still tale me, in fact some beautiful married women won't let me rest. Thank God for discipline and grace. Women are something else.

Oxster:
I always refer all gals as FISH HEAD ND DUMBBY

Including me eeeeh

Nawa this story really touched my heart.

Same old shit, just a different day

rebirthforgoody:





Including me eeeeh

Haba no nah

U ain't a gal

U r my fellow tycoon ni

BluntBoy:


Love is powerful, my brother. It can make a graduate fall in love with an illiterate orange seller. And it is not about the gender all the time. Women date down too. It is not a male thing. Michelle Obama dated Barack even though she was his senior at work at that time.

Love is only powerful to poor and average guys!

How many rich men or rich kids do u see falling in love with broke ladies It only happens in movies

You can decide where to find love, if u love stupidly, women will deal with you stupidly, wise up, love is a fallacy

biacan:
Carry her to your place permanently nah she will agree to that.... please don't let her enemies laugh at her now biko be a man she will change.....you don't know her story

I hope it isn't what am thinking woman

wizod:
sharap dat girl is ur type.

God forbid. Back to sender

Realhommie:
What are you analysing bro? Why must she taste another preek before finally settling down?

And if he had done numbers 3 - 5 he would never have found out who she truly is.. You should be happy for the dude.

At times what you dont know is better not sort after..

Martin0:
My Ex cheated on me countless times but I still had something to do with her though her cheating was never a reason why we never got married!

But one thing is alway's common in a relationship!

But contribute to why she cheated!

Not Giving Them Love and Attention:

_________________________________________


Remember, women are emotional beings
right? So naturally if you don’t show love to
your woman, may be by not showering her
with gifts, giving her money with LOVE so she
can take good care of herself or just not
caring at all, my brother, you have risked
losing you woman to another man, because
women love attention, it makes them feel
special.

So always ensure you are showing her the
much needed love, care and affection so you
can make her happy, she will stick to you like
a glue.

If you are So TERRIBLE on Bed:
_________________________________


Truth be told, this is the MAJOR reason why
women cheat!

If you have a Micro Manhood & you don’t last
2 mins, brother, even if you if you protect
your woman like an egg, give her 1 Million
Dollars & show her love like you are “MR
ROMEO” but you are terrible on bed, you will
lose you woman!
I repeat, you will lose your woman!
So if you have a MICRO manhood or you are
a 2 mins man, sorry to say…there is fire on
the mountain for you!
You see…

Being terrible on bed is MAJOR turn off for
women, some will tell it to your face, but
many of them will NEVER tell you to your
face, because they feel it will make you
embarrassed and unmanly.
Which is actually true!
But when they get fed up…
They will cheat on you!


Op please ask her why she cheated on you?

U need to know why she cheated!

You no even get one like for this nonsensical epistle wey you write..anyway-i go dash you one..mumu

Jesus!


Am so shocked!

Total fucvk up!

What was she thinking?

jerrisonjeff:

Bro even the one staying in your house will cheat while living with u....it happened to me today.....rite now am made

It happened to you today? Tell me about it

olac21:

You no even get one like for this nonsensical epistle wey you write..anyway-i go dash you one..mumu

Hian! Na wa ooo!

So una nor dey fit see something waka pass?

Na wa ooo
Anyway I like ya expression!

Do u have anything else to add?

angels09:

You reminded someone of a restaurant and now it's chikeluba... Why not change this your moniker anyway?

Lol zzz.... The moniker has its purpose

OP,u shud be grateful to God the story ended that way. Reasons being that if the other guy had ulterior motives you wud be the person her parents will hold responsible. SARS no dey understand english.

sunbilor:
It can happen. Let me share an experience I had many years ago at a hotel in oyigbo, Rivers state. We ( my friend, his girlfriend and I) went to Rivers state for a business and booked rooms in a hotel there. We arrived around 4 pm. We notified another of our friend who was a Michelin staff then about our arrival. He told us he was coming to meet us later. In the evening around 6pm, we drove out to go see a business partner. We left the girl in one of the rooms.

Could you believe by the time we came back, our friend from Michelin had f^cked the babe we left behind? The girl denied at first until we asked her to explain what a used Condom was doing in the room. She had to start pleading. It wasn't a case of rape. She willing offered herself to a complete stranger in a hotel room paid for by her boyfriend!

Am sure that girl would have been dead by now..abi is she still Alive ni?

Martin0:


Sorry if I may ask?

I doubt you will move on if it was you!

You human's fail to look out on positives and negative instead it alway's one sided!

See if I had done like you advice my ex would have committed suicide!

U ladies are not alway's straight forward I don't know why!

She should commit suicide.

It's not your fault.
As she lay her bed, so she lies on it.

She should go ahead and kill herself, if it's that easy to take ones own life.

biacan:
I was only advising him on how to be a man nothing more

Tell me what you are among the two options below
1.A human being
2.A she-goat

olac21:

Am sure that girl would have been dead by now..abi is she still Alive ni?

I don't know. The last time I saw her, she was married. That was around 2009.