OceanmorganTrix:
she is a backup wife in making

obitee69:
Shes a spoilt rude brat. I undrstand you totally cos im in ur shoes but hitched but ur not God save you if you end up making her a wife. Study her carefully if she isnt changing RUN FOR DEAR LIFE!

pocohantas:
1: Narcissism.

2: She loves you much and can't stand anyone annoying you in public. That's why a woman can call her man stupid and feel it's nothing. Let a third party try it and watch her bring White House Down . She always expects you to back her up, because she needs to prove she isn't fighting for someone who gives no fck.

pocohantas:
1: Narcissism.

2: She loves you much and can't stand anyone annoying you in public. That's why a woman can call her man stupid and feel it's nothing. Let a third party try it and watch her bring White House Down . She always expects you to back her up, because she needs to prove she isn't fighting for someone who gives no fck.

Blackhawk03:


Hahahaha

Babez! She picks fight with others unnecessarily, not because of him. She's just a stubborn goat. Who enjoys show of shame, anyways?

Op, don't stand up for her one day. She picked her fight, let her battle it out with the person. She needs to start taking responsibility for her childish acts, just walk out the moment she starts.

Blackhawk03:


Hahahaha

Babez! She picks fight with others unnecessarily, not because of him. She's just a stubborn goat. Who enjoys show of shame, anyways?

Op, don't stand up for her one day. She picked her fight, let her battle it out with the person. She needs to start taking responsibility for her childish acts, just walk out the moment she starts.

Chiefly:



Sorry, how do you mean?

pocohantas:


Yea, she could be picking those fights because she thinks it's an insult to her guy. People like that don't know how to let things go. They fail to realise how such physical confrontations can escalate quickly. OP, needs to identify the way she reels him into such fights and distance himself from it. When he makes her look stupid regularly, she'll slow down.


The surprising thing about people like this is, they are excellent lovers when the going is good.




To her, she is fighting for you both

Richy4:
Does her being born in UK got any thing to do with it? I just want to know why you feel that information is important.. as if being born in UK is a license to be mannerless

I might be wrong, you are holding her like a trophy and it's about time u Open your mouth wide and tell her to stop emberassing you.

Stop this UK thing and have a sincere relationship with her, a relationship where you can say your mind. There are millions of people all over the world that has manners.. Treat her like any other woman that u are in love with.with out holding her with (UK high esteem )..If u can't tolerate it, let her go..

Ilekokonit:


Actually most black women "raised" in the UK are mannerless as the UK society has little regard for the man. Its no suprise that the UK is the single parent capital of the world.

Their lack of manners or respect for men is the main reason Naija men abroad will continue going back home to look for women who haven't completely lost the African cultural value of respect for their men.

In the UK, women expect to treat men as foot mats and some men are actually happy to wear the skirt whilst the woman wears the trouser.

The poster needs to man up to his family and reject being pushed to his death by an arranged marriage to a nasty piece of work.

If she was in hot demand in the UK, her family will not be so keen in getting her a man from abroad.

Also, any woman who specialises in knocking 2 mens heads against one another will lead to the death of any man who marries her.

Don't just fall for any UK raised black woman because they look innocent. Quite a lot of them belonged to violent gangs and were the communal "babes" of gang members in their teens.

Just google the term honeytrap killing and you will realise that these UK raised black girls are not as innocent as they look. Some of them are as feral as wild animals.

For example, would you guess that the 18 year old UK raised Nigerian school girl below is a killer ?? But that is exactly what she is.

She is also known as 'Missy Maffia' and 'Bang Bang'.

She bought knives and used Facebook to plot a fatal mob attack on a boy.



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2108185/The-killer-schoolgirl-Facing-jail-weeping-dock-teenager-bought-knives-used-Facebook-plot-fatal-mob-attack-boy.html

OceanmorganTrix:




she is protecting who is dear to her
you see what she does as embarrassing
she see it as protection

do not call what she do as an embarrassment before her, just call it HURT
don't make her feel bad about what she do for you, convince her you have other measure put in place
(your measure must not be a measure of fighting back also, but should be cuddling her away telling her the good things about herself)
just make her understand


just tell her the only way she can protect you and make you happy is to stop those attitude she always have as a covering for you

tell her how strong she is, but let her know she is more stronger when she walk away from the trouble

tell her what she do only protect your body, but when she walk away without involving in those trouble she protect your body, heart, emotion, personality and soul

Chiefly:


Wow, never thought about it This way.. You mean she thinks she's fighting for two? ?.. Might be some truth in this cos there are no complains when she's out alone.

Chiefly:


I just felt her upbringing might have something to do with the attitude that was why I mentioned it, besides most ladies I know that grew up in the UK always have one attitude problem or the other. #fact. Infact the last gurl I dated myself was also from the UK, she's actually very rude and self centered, she never lives the island (feels she's too fly and stuff for the Mainland)
Can you imagine that? You'll have to agree with me that in this case her being a UK citizen was a determinant factor, no?

Back to the original topic.. The whole relationship is in line with some family arrangements, that makes it much more complicated.

Blackhawk03:


Hahahaha

Babez! She picks fight with others unnecessarily, not because of him. She's just a stubborn goat. Who enjoys show of shame, anyways?

Op, don't stand up for her one day. She picked her fight, let her battle it out with the person. She needs to start taking responsibility for her childish acts, just walk out the moment she starts.

Chiefly:


I just felt her upbringing might have something to do with the attitude that was why I mentioned it, besides most ladies I know that grew up in the UK always have one attitude problem or the other. #fact. Infact the last gurl I dated myself was also from the UK, she's actually very rude and self centered, she never lives the island (feels she's too fly and stuff for the Mainland)
Can you imagine that? You'll have to agree with me that in this case her being a UK citizen was a determinant factor, no?

Back to the original topic.. The whole relationship is in line with some family arrangements, that makes it much more complicated.

HeWrites:


Must you always be on every post


Seems you're jobless

Comman start blogging with me (no money o)

Blackhawk03:

I don't work for free.

HeWrites:



Really

Peachess:
You should allow them to beat her small, her head go correct. Trust me lol

Blackhawk03:


Yeah and if I'll be changing job, It must come with bigger pay. More than what I earn now, your offer still up?

HeWrites:


How much do you earn from your current job?

Blackhawk03:

Enough to cater for me and side attractions...

pocohantas:
1: Narcissism.

2: She loves you much and can't stand anyone annoying you in public. That's why a woman can call her man stupid and feel it's nothing. Let a third party try it and watch her bring White House Down . She always expects you to back her up, because she needs to prove she isn't fighting for someone who gives no fck.

Blackhawk03:


Gbam! My point exactly! I don't buy into this fighting for two thing, did the guy ask her to fight on his behalf? That's a fvckin red flag! Sit her arse down, speak senses into her head, give her conditions, she listens to him or find her way out. You can imagine being scared of going with your gf because you don't know who you might be fighting off her again...

Blackhawk03:


Gbam! My point exactly! I don't buy into this fighting for two thing, did the guy ask her to fight on his behalf? That's a fvckin red flag! Sit her arse down, speak senses into her head, give her conditions, she listens to him or find her way out. You can imagine being scared of going with your gf because you don't know who you might be fighting off her again...