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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Chiefly(m): 3:34pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
pocohantas: ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Chiefly:U rake of very low self esteem. Become a man first. 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Chiefly(m): 4:00pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Richy4: Hmm, very well said, tho kinda harsh but true all the same, guess that's the Red pill mans gotta swallow.. However, her place of birth isn't that big a deal and no one's hyping her cos of that.. Maybe if I told you she is a Harvard graduate then it'll be too much info, but here we talkin about the environment in which she was raised and how it might have contributed to this attitude subconsciously cos environmental factors shape behaviors.. True if she was born in Nigeria prolly the "Nonsense" wouldn't have been tolerated but then again she ain't, and one needs to ask questions about what he dosent understand. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Chiefly(m): 4:08pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
sassysure: Lol. Easy for you to say.. But like the African proverb goes.. when a tsetse fly perches on a man's scrotum, then he'll realise there's more than one way to resolve conflict... If you wanna help then provide more insight by what you mean, not some bogus comment.. Peace. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by crackhaus: 4:12pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Chiefly:How you just went from typing in first person in your OP to typing in third person now without even realizing it, is quite funny. 10 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Chiefly(m): 4:14pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
crackhaus: No no friend. I made it quite clear it was From a friend in the beginning right before I mentioned lalasticlala.. |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by crackhaus: 4:21pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Chiefly:I see. Tell your friend to get rid of that girl, she's toxic. There's no rationalizing that bullshiit attitude. Bottom line, she lacks respect for him. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Chiefly(m): 4:30pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Peachess: Blackhawk03: OMG, Yeah men that shi* happens all the time.. Going out with her is now an issue. Men arranged marriages are just f**ked up. But really what kinda guy would sit back and allow his woman get maltreated? It's a real dicey situation, and most people here don't realize that. Besides I forgot to mention her Old man is a B. General. The whole "allowing them beat her small" is not feasible man..... |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by crackhaus: 4:48pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Chiefly:You've mentioned it before, what are you trying to make us see by mentioning it again? 11 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Chiefly(m): 5:06pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
crackhaus: The persons I quoted suggested allowing her get manhandled and i was replying them directly. At the end of the day irrespective of whether she was right or wrong, the other party will pay dearly for it. |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by dhabrite(m): 5:37pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
You don enter am...ntorrr Shebi I warn you no gree, I tell you but you no hear Frankly speaking, at this age are there still arranged marriages? ![]() God forbid bad thing? This kind scene, na only for Nollywood movies ah dey see am o, you sure this not some script 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by farouk2much(m): 5:37pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Bring Us News About When Fuel Scarsity Would Be Over....... Jare 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Nasir123(m): 5:39pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
My advice. Take her back to UK. Nigeria maybe too hot for her. Or Contact your/her family for spiritual assistant. Or Better still,accept her the way she is,since she is OK in every other aspects of life. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Mrkumareze(m): 5:40pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Men never beat you before, until you go into a fight you can't finish then you 'll realize she's not worth keeping . Any person that likes trouble should be let alone cos associating with them creates alot of known and unknown enemies . 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by HeyCorleone(m): 5:42pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
When I see things like this I just weep. I think it's inappropriate to bring important things like this to NL. Why? Because the audience here is not specific. Okay now you posted a problem pertaining your fiancee and you're seeking solution meanwhile over 80% of the people replying your thread are not in a serious relationship. Some are even single. Some can't maintain a good relationship not to talk of getting to the stage you're in, yet they come to give bad advice, and you may unknowingly act by some of them. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Haykinsofficial(m): 5:42pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
[color=#990000][/color] After many failed attempts, I finally joined NL 2day! Oya epp me praise god of Marhaji!!
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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by safarigirl(f): 5:42pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Peachess:lol....make she talk say OP was not there for her? Girls like that, the day you fail to back them up, they will accuse you of everything from conspiring against them to treason. There is no winning 7 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Burger01(m): 5:43pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Peachess:Exactly. She needs to have her head reset to default by some dirty slaps. It always work ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by deavicky(m): 5:43pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
pocohantas:na wa for u oh. Is she the first person to love someone? How can she be picking fight for someone who is not ready to fight and u call that love. My bro back off the relationship let her go look for her type. I guess u are not her type. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by sirgalahad26(m): 5:44pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
guy u better run for ur life forget any benefit u may derive from the arranged marriage otherwise u may end up laying down ur life for the offence she committed! 'he dat has ears,let him hear'! |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by davinero1: 5:44pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Hmmm. She just subconsciously feels you are not being macho enough. so do this. Have an arrangement with a guy you know but doesn't know her and then out of the blue, start picking fights with them. Remember to do it continuosly and you'd definitely see improvements. She'll be too busy trying to stop you from picking fights and won't have enough time to pick fights herself. Best of Luck Bro. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by cybriz82(m): 5:44pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
pocohantas: What are you saying ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Uyeye(m): 5:46pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
The her Dad is a Brigadier General is funny to me..... But you will need her parent input on this.... They obviously didn't succeed at their parental duties..... You are bearing that cross for them now! 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by winkmart: 5:46pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Tell your parents to arrange another babe for yo. At least they have plenty rich friends 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Her pedigree is a major reason. Omo soldier mentality plus she may just be pissed off by by low IQ around here. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by idris4eva(m): 5:47pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
My ex was like that she picks up fight over everything from not finishing a sachet of water finish to not helping her out when she knows you are damn tired Dumped her after hbp raised Bros na dis world una both meet if you leave heaven will not shake Run And she's also a daughter of a policeman 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by aviationguy: 5:50pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Most arranged relationship are not always turn out smooth, she must have seen some turn off characters in you or she doesn't see you attractive for her kind of man. I will advise you sit her down and discuss extensively,ask her these following questions? 1.what do you admired about me. 2.what are you Fantasy in your kind of man. 3.Are still interested in our relationship to work. 4.Is there anythings I had failed to fix in this relationship. 5.I want you to tell me where I had wronged or hurt you in anyway am humbly ready to apologise and make our relationship worthwhile. If she is not ready to answer all these questions then know she is not interested in the relationship,because compatibility matters in relationships is better to have broken relationship than a broken marriage. take care cheers 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by dallyemmy: 5:51pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
DO NOT MARRY HER! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by amaks: 5:51pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Forget it. It's not worth it. She'll get you killed one day, or make you die young with worry and lack of rest of mind, over time. Classical drama queen. She was probably arranged and dumped on you cos no one else wanted to keep coping with her in a relationship. Your health, and specifically mental health is more important. She needs a very strong and tough man, who is ready to tolerate and control her baggage. 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by laiza(m): 5:52pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Gentleman I got only one advice for ya....take a walk, and keep walking. Obviously both of you are on different cruise. She wants you to man up, you want her to woman down. In short she's the man and all you want is a lady you'd want to defend, not actually have to defend in a fight. Na so one ex tried that shit with me, ogbeni I seat inside motor look drama tire. When she got the message nobody told her to behave. You aren't married yet you're already settling quarrel upandan, I just hope you guys don't stay in face me I face you after marriage....that's when you'd understand the full meaning of what Jesus said on the cross. IT IS FINISHED 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Just DUMP her now |
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Lumig: 5:54pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
pocohantas:is this the kind of advise you'll... |
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