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Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by ubunja(m): 1:26pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:a child always forgives.no matter what.and many single mothers get pissed and take it like the child betrayed her but a child sees it all as her getting a father she ever had but always dreamt about.if you went thru it yourself you wouldnt be so dismissive. i have a distant cousin who's father left his mum when he was very young.the dad died before the kid grew.but once the guy was nearly 20 or so, the guy spent a lot of time and money trying to locate his dead father's grave. the craving to face that side of his life was that much. and he did locate the grave and paid his respects.to this day he takes good care of that grave children forgive.they really do.but dont let that as a woman worry you.its just nature. 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by mildflame: 1:27pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Stupid HE-Goat |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Amarabae(f): 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Forgive fuhari? Impossible |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by IYANGBALI: 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Useless girl, she just wasted the poison I sent to her |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by drnatha(m): 1:50pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
love is all that matters 1 Like |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by squarelead(m): 1:55pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Good one. Similar issue with mine, mine still 25 years tho, let's see what happens in the next 2 years. I have forgiven him but let onikaluku duro sori owo e. Maami, you are still the best. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by ashjay001(m): 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Revolva(m): 3:20pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
so many bastard girls around naija |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by signeddocuments: 4:00pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
it is not easy,blood is thicker than water, the lesson is that do not waste your resources training another man's child especially if the father is still alive somewhere.Sooner or later the man will come with tears for forgiveness to claim the child. |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Niseamaka(m): 4:20pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ubunja: You just stole those words from my mouth, are u a mind reader?. That scenario is all over Europe and US, so many Nigerian ladies are single mums who dumped the father of their children and dating other guys. Inspite of the good deeds of these guys, the kids still miss and yearn for their biological dads b/c blood is very thick. Good lesson for those currently playing the role of a father figure. I know of one family where the teenage boy attacked his mum and her lover b/c she refuses to divulge info about the whereabout of his biological dad. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Niseamaka(m): 4:31pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar: You sound like one of those mums in the west who threw away the father of your kids and brainwashed them to hate their dad. This is a lesson for mums like you. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Niseamaka(m): 4:38pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar: You are completely ignorant of what goes on in the West if you believe that a father can willingly abandon his child for 27 years. Educate yourself on YouTube and google, search for stories about Nigerian marriages in the US and Europe. Tip: search for “why Nigerian men are killing their imported wives”, etc. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Niseamaka(m): 4:41pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
toprealman: Sick mind |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Tozara(m): 6:03pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:Yeah, but forgiving him is completely irrational. How was your day? |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by donefezy: 6:14pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:I have been searching for comments like this. He doesn't deserves forgiveness because he is a man right? What will you say about my own mother who left for the past 24 years? Should i or should i not forgive her when she remembers she has a son somewhere? |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Daeylar(f): 6:24pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
donefezy: Lol, why did you start by projecting? Lol ![]() Na don't project, If your mum left you for 24 years then in my opinion, she doesn't deserve forgiveness, BUT If you decide to forgive her then that's your choice, and it's fine. |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by cafempropertyng: 6:25pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Forgiving your ungrateful dad who abandons you for 27years does not mean that he should reap from you where he did not sow.That step father who suffered to send you to school and to the university and built the excellent girl in you must be the one who should receive the blessing and most care from you when he gets old,not your ungrateful father who may still be harbouring the ungratefulness without the naive innocent daughter knowing. For University BSc,MSc and PhD project writing and data analysis.Call or WhatsApp CAFEM Consult on 08066894470 |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Daeylar(f): 6:31pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Tozara: Really, I think it's their choice though, Fine yours? |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by donefezy: 6:42pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:i had to because that's where you are heading to Daeylar:hmm, I guess you had to stand firm so as to prove me wrong. Yea, it's my choice and i hope i do forgive her when the time comes |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Daeylar(f): 6:54pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
donefezy:Nah that's not how the apology starts ![]() And you're still projecting, "you knew where I was heading to,, I did it to prove you wrong " lol ![]() I don't feel anyone that abandons his/her child deserves forgiveness. But the child is free to do whatever he/she wants. Wish you the all best on that |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Tozara(m): 7:10pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:Yeah. Her choice. Mine was fine too. |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Daeylar(f): 7:12pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Tozara: I'm very sure I wouldn't too, lol, but why did you say irrational?
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Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Divay22(f): 7:26pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ashjay001:Yeah When you gat a mum who's trying to make things right, it's only fair you give her a chance... She has successfully covered up for him.... I know him not ![]() |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Tozara(m): 7:32pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:Because if we all forgive people who commit extreme crimes without having them face the consequences of their actions, we're incentivizing their kind of comportment and making the concept of justice irrelevant. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Daeylar(f): 7:51pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Tozara: Exactly, you can't just waltz out for 27 years when she needed a father to grind and do what a parent, a father does, put in all the work to raise a child. Then waltz back in 27 years later when she is fully grown and doesn't need raising any longer with some little words of apologies, then start prancing around calling himself a father. He is not a father, a father who walked away and came back after 27 years is considered a sperm donor, and sperm donors are not fathers, a father is one who raised his child, while still respecting that she is her own individual and helped her become the best possible version of herself. That's a father. But like I said, her choice. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Tozara(m): 8:11pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:Exactly. After he must have lost everything he left her for, he came back to take back his donation, forgetting that she's now a person. ![]() But like I said, her choice.Yeah. |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by donefezy: 9:19pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Daeylar:You seem to have a tough heart. Anyway, everybody deserves forgiveness no matter their offense as long as they are truly sorry. Btw, sorry for protecting once again ![]() |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by ogbeniolola: 11:29pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
No big deal forgiving him cos you certainly can't have another father! |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by Nellybank(m): 12:39pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
To hell with my mother |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by sisisioge: 12:47pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
Before nko ? That's why I keep telling my friend whose bf knocked her up and made a run for it. Now that the baby is here, she's not giving him access. She will just end up doing all the work and the kid will welcome him into her life twenty years on. Don't do all the job by yourself, let him do his part too! The moraforking slob is the father anyways. May God bless us with fair people. |
Re: Lady Forgives Her Father 27 Years After He Abandoned Her by toprealman: 1:26pm On Jan 15, 2018 |
Niseamaka:Keep living in denial. |
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