Lol.. Always do as she said

For better for worse carry your cross. Hello.

Its immature for you to wear jean to church of God

HeyCorleone:
You'd only get advice from kids, people who sleep around, single depressed people, and mostly folks who have never been in a serious relationship.

I understand the structure of Nairaland, but it's not everything you post on here. You'd only get wrong advice.

Take it easy boss..

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

Try Google searching "How to make a nagging wife feel happy/loved"

https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/m.wikihow.com/Deal-with-a-Nagging-Wife%3famp=1

dayo2me:
you should have told him the best place to seek advice instead of you telling us you knowing the architectural structure of nairaland.

don't mind it.It's one of those notorious animals that rant up and dan nairaland and decided to.change moniker to be forming Mr itk

Tallesty1:
What will you do if we tell you that it's not right??

Kiss her

HeyCorleone:
You'd only get advice from kids, people who sleep around, single depressed people, and mostly folks who have never been in a serious relationship.

I understand the structure of Nairaland, but it's not everything you post on here. You'd only get wrong advice.

One of them have spoken

Women don't nag without a reason

Have you tried to really listen to what she is saying most times without you thinking she is nagging?
What happened to communication? Instead of bringing it here,talk to her and make her understand that her attitude is pushing you away.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

Don't mind women jare. That's how they are. But as men, sometimes we can't do with them and sometimes we can't do without them.
So, just manage her bro, for better for worse. They are delicate beings, so applying maturity is key.

You chose her yourself. You should have known she doesnt like jeans in church before you married her. Her complaint is no big deal. Next time just wear leggings or skirt or whatever she wants you to wear to church . I know someone that can lend u a 'Brazilian' wig if u need one. She'll be proud of you.

There's light at the end of the tunnel.

Welcome to the reality, the stories of women nodding sheepishly to everything their husband do or say is not true.
Now to your specific challenge. Have a discussion about the way she addresses you.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

It's not nagging, she's controlling your life and you don't like it, hence why you sought advice.. Do something, we can only talk but you really don't have to listen.

Itimkpataka2:




Nwoke m ; Get the fuc×k out here.. u believe say Kids full Nairaland but u always login to play with the kids. Nonsense.

It is not a matter of kids.

Of a truth how many married people would actually contribute to his matter? I'm not talking those with girlfriends or fiancees here, I'm talking married folks who've been together for years.

See there's nothing like a marital experience. You can never understand it if you're not in one.

So far it's obvious a good number of the answers he's received are pure guess work.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

Mr man you have serious problem if your wife telling you to dress properly to Church is what you called nagging.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

Was she always nagging during your dating days?

@Op, look at it from a different perspective. Imagine your wife going to work in revealing outfit. You didn't like it and expressed your displeasure. What would you have her do? Most likely, you would expect her to listen and change to something more befitting right? Sure that would make you happy and would improve your respect for her. Vice versa. You should simply have looked at it from her perspective. She's as much your glory as you are hers. Accommodate her feelings and opinions more, show and act you respect her and see how she begins to adore and worship you. Trust me, love is a beautiful thing. I have been there.

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

Are you ok? That's no way to talk to one's husband!!!!!

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

. Op both of you should see a marriage councillor in your church. Don't talk to her about her nagging attitude it will only bring up more problems.Talk to the councillor, preferably a woman,let her invite both of u,first separately and subsequent visit should be together,thank me later.

puregrace:
Please don't be too angry. That's how majority of women behave,when they are single,they pray to have someone to call their husband but once they get what they want,they feel empowered. What you should do is to bring up the issue while both of you are in a playful mood and calmly call her her favourite name, look straight to her face and tell her what she is doing wrong and that hurts you. I hope this helps.
She is obviously wants you in your best and her taste.

I bless the name of Jehovah my God for making me the way I am. Not to brag, in fact let me say it cool headedly, no woman can put me in a complaining side.

Imagine if a woman I call my wife makes me uncomfortable, I would have to wait till 'both of us are in a playful mood, then I call her calmly by her favourite name, then tell her what she does hurts me'. Lol

Brooke60:
Have you talked to her about this?
Communication bro, use it. That is a weapon

girl always on girl side

.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

go on Facebook and find RantHQ join the group and post this there thank me letter bro..

Try and stop whatever you do that makes her nag na

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

Don't apply any advice from here... She loves you that why .... Try to understand her ... That all

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

did you court?

Bro nah for better and for worse

Bidobado:


It's not nagging, she's controlling your life and you don't like it, hence why you sought advice.. Do something, we can only talk but you really don't have to listen.

I don't think you're married. Your wife has every right to tell you to dress properly especially when both of you are going out together likewise the husband. Can you imagine your wife wearing native dress and you putting on a jean and a shirt like Alaba boys?. Op should cut his ego and listen to his wife.

Stop going to church.

Bossmd:
Hello Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?!

Bro at times we should listen to our wives at least to appreciate their concern...

Just ask her, Baby wat do u want me to wear? Na ur wife oo

Nagging is in the DNA of every woman. No matter how loving and lovely. The degree differs from woman to woman sha. You pastor's wife inclusive. not leaving behind our mums.

So get used to it or else divorce is knocking.

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

Are you saying wearing jeans to church is a sin or not appropriate?
Why is wearing jeans not appropriate?