classicMan22:
u are indeed a SmartMugu so he should wear leggings to church

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

dayo2me:
you should have told him the best place to seek advice instead of you telling us you knowing the architectural structure of nairaland.

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

HeyCorleone:
You'd only get advice from kids, people who sleep around, single depressed people, and mostly folks who have never been in a serious relationship.

I understand the structure of Nairaland, but it's not everything you post on here. You'd only get wrong advice.

Penalty82:


I don't think you're married. Your wife has every right to tell you to dress properly especially when both of you are going out together likewise the husband. Can you imagine your wife wearing native dress and you putting on a jean and a shirt like Alaba boys?. Op should cut his ego and listen to his wife.

Billyonaire:


OP, you are writing bullshitt,

Your wife nags because you do not listen. Are you a bachelor ? When you choose to marry, you made a decision to share your bullshiit with someone else's bullshiit and find a way to make cookies out of it in the midst of erotic sex and romance and woe betide you that the sex is not good, then your days are numbered.

Your wife is your best friend and she is making correcting you a part of her responsibility in life. It is not supposed to be so, because you must dress for occasions based on the country of your birth. Are you American ? Didnt you know you married a conservatively religious perfectionist ?

You wanted a 'good' woman and you got one. In her mind goes this statement. 'Why must you wear a pair of jeans and white T-shirt to a Church, that is not how Christians should dress, wear a pair of nice and well ironed shirt with a nice pair of pants if you do not have a suit.'

So, Learn to listen to that woman, you are no longer a bachelor so you can not do as you please.

You must listen to your wife and your wife must listen to you no matter how inconvenient and let me warn you, except you marry a slowpoke, then you must face corrections from a wise woman. No man has gone wrong listening to a wife that is smart and corrects her husband.

Your wife nags because you do not listen.

Pay attention to your wife and your lovers if you have others and your life will be wonderfully blessed by the Gods.

Brooke60:
Have you talked to her about this? Communication bro, use it. That is a weapon

puregrace:
Please don't be too angry. That's how majority of women behave,when they are single,they pray to have someone to call their husband but once they get what they want,they feel empowered. What you should do is to bring up the issue while both of you are in a playful mood and calmly call her her favourite name, look straight to her face and tell her what she is doing wrong and that hurts you. I hope this helps.
She is obviously wants you in your best and her taste.

HeyCorleone:



Because you're too stupid to realise that anyone can gain entrance to the Family section. Even those who never had a family.

Obviously your problem is comprehension of simple words. Take your time to read people's comments and don't just be in a hurry to castigate people.

And thanks for checking out my profile picture. Because you don't have something similar doesn't make you a more mature person or a person of substance at all.

Your problem is you think you're wise but you're just wallowing in the abyss of foolishness.

HeyCorleone:



Because you're too stupid to realise that anyone can gain entrance to the Family section. Even those who never had a family.

Obviously your problem is comprehension of simple words. Take your time to read people's comments and don't just be in a hurry to castigate people.

And thanks for checking out my profile picture. Because you don't have something similar doesn't make you a more mature person or a person of substance at all.

Your problem is you think you're wise but you're just wallowing in the abyss of foolishness.

sweettease:


For someone who tend to know the structure of nairaland, you don't seem to know there's a little difference between family and romance section and your profile pic tells us just how mature you are. By the way, you forgot to enlighten the OP with your elderly wisdom on what to do.

*Modified* At least you finally changed the derogatory dp

Ishilove:

The both of you are still immature. You even strike me as a difficult person to live with. See as you came here to portray your beloved wife as a nag, meanwhile I'm certain you have an equal share of the blame.

Marriage is hard work, trust me, but you need to quit fault finding and learn to meet each other half way

Bossmd:
Hello guys,

Since we got married it’s been one quarrel into another. Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

Is this right coming from a wife?

HeyCorleone:
You'd only get advice from kids, people who sleep around, single depressed people, and mostly folks who have never been in a serious relationship.

I understand the structure of Nairaland, but it's not everything you post on here. You'd only get wrong advice.

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

mkpurumma090:
Lol.. Always do as she said

SmartMugu:


Don't mind women jare. That's how they are. But as men, sometimes we can't do with them and sometimes we can't do without them.
So, just manage her bro, for better for worse. They are delicate beings, so applying maturity is key.

You chose her yourself. You should have known she doesnt like jeans in church before you married her. Her compliant is no big deal, next time just wear leggings or skirt or whatever she wants you to wear to church . I know someone that can lend u a 'Brazilian' wig if u need one. She'll be proud of you.

There's light at the end of the tunnel.

Bossmd:
Last Sunday I dressed in Jean and Long sleeve T shirt for Church and on sighting what I was wearing my wife yelled “Why will you be wearing this to Church?! We will not sit together ooh!!”

I felt dumbfounded but didn’t utter a word. On getting to Church I went to sit separately.

WinningSun:
the dressing isn't the major problem. telling him to sit apart like he is diseased is the problem