It's being so common nowadays when ladies are joining armed forces most especially army. Can you allow any female member of your family you can influence join army. Cause it is happening right now in our family. My mummy said they dont use to have an happy home. Is it true?

What do you mean by allow? Is she your property? You can encourage or discount but not point blank allow or block the person na. Not in 2018. You guys should learn to use smart modern words not the ones translated from your local dialect or pidgin..

delishpot:
What do you mean by allow? Is she your property? You can encourage or discount but not point blank allow or block the person na. Not in 2018. You guys should learn to use smart modern words not the ones translated from your location dialed or pidgin..

she is my property cos she is my blood. Na opinion i want nt criticising. Boda eyinbo

Ayanshola337:
she is my property cos she is my blood. Na opinion i want nt criticising. Boda eyinbo

oya no vex. I no know say Na your property.

If na my property, è no go even think of joining the army without me taking it there personally because my property doesn't leave my sight without permission unless person steal am or è stray away like a dog or goat. Na to catch am lock inside cage go follow before someone else would come and claim it unto finders keepers. But if na my sister, I go try find out what level she go take enter and look her life and character Weda that job go suit her personality. If the two position out positively I go follow her go buy form if not I go discourage her with my reasons.

delishpot:



oya no vex. I no know say Na your property.

If na my property, è no go even think of joining the army without me taking it there personally because my property doesn't leave my sight without permission unless person steal am or è stray away like a dog or goat. Na to catch am lock inside cage go follow before someone else would come and claim it unto finders keepers. But if na my sister, I go try find out what level she go take enter and look her life and character Weda that job go suit her personality. If the two position out positively I go follow her go buy form if not I go discourage her with my reasons.

is it true dey dnt ave happy home

i wonder hw a normal thinking pesin wld jst wake up and say him wan join army.

nnamdiokere45:
i wonder hw a normal thinking pesin wld jst wake up and say him wan join army.

girl for dat matter, she has been cryin everyday, wen mummy said she shuldnt join. We are tired in d aouz self

Ayanshola337:
girl for dat matter, she has been cryin everyday, wen mummy said she shuldnt join. We are tired in d aouz self

abeg mke una hold am oooo...ds country is nt worth dying for. wen she cry finish e go end

Why not.
Life is all about individual decision and choices.

nnamdiokere45:
abeg mke una hold am oooo...ds country is nt worth dying for. wen she cry finish e go end

abeg help me invite bro lalasticlala and mynd44 make dem help me move am to first page, may b i fit get solution dere

Ayanshola337:
is it true dey dnt ave happy home

It depends on the parties involved na. When a man has to leave home for official duty it is expected of the wife to stay calm, handle the home front and be prayerful and supportive of her man but if the woman has to leave home, it may be seen as she is not taking good care of the home esp if kids are involved and hubby happens to have a busy schedule as well. The husband or family at large might not be too happy with such an arrangement which might bring some problems.

delishpot:



It depends on the parties involved na. When a man has to leave home for official duty it is expected of the wife to stay calm, handle the home front and be prayerful and supportive of her man but if the woman has to leave home, it may be seen as she is not taking good care of the home esp if kids are involved and hubby happens to have a busy schedule as well. The husband or family at large might not be too happy with such an arrangement which might bring some problems.

dat is what mummy is tellin her dat she might ave broken home

Funny enough, one of my desires is to have a daughter who would grow up and join the military; the army, navy or Air Force.

I'd rather she opt for the navy or airforce..

delishpot:
What do you mean by allow? Is she your property? You can encourage or discount but not point blank allow or block the person na. Not in 2018. You guys should learn to use smart modern words not the ones translated from your local dialect or pidgin..

Exactly what i was going to say, that 'allow' in quote is such a wrong choice of word.

Ayanshola337:
dat is what mummy is tellin her dat she might ave broken home

I believe she will be fine as long as she marries someone who can appreciate her career.