I met this girl sometime last year and we quickly became friends.

I asked her out but she declined. We had sex once but she cried all through the night. When I asked her what the matter was, she said it was because she'd promised her mother not to have sex again until she marries seeing the way her elder sister's pregnancy out of wedlock broke their family and caused her parents to divorce.

I said okay. But we didn't stop having MouthAction or heavy petting. Just no sex even though I tried to initiate it many times without luck. I didn't wanna force her so I respected her decision.

Fast-forward last week Saturday, she came to my place with her friend and something happened which ended up pissing she and her friend out. I apologised and we all moved on. On Monday, she came to visit me and after our usual heavy petting with no sex, she said her friend said she liked me. She asked me if I would like to date her friend.

Truth be told, I like her friend very much and had been making plans to date her underground. This morning, she came and was cooking breakfast when I went to meet her in the kitchen. She told me that she would really like for me to date her friend. I said okay. I like the girl, I will date her and see how things go. I went back to the sitting room and a few moments later, the friend came in.

Now, the problem I am having is this:

1- is anything amiss here?
2- she said she will miss me but will still be coming whenever her friend is not around
3- she has already told me many things to be careful of with her friend when we start dating proper
4- she told me that she is not going to be jealous in any way but the arrangement suits her fine.

I have never experienced this kind of thing before and something doesn't feel right.

They are both nice girls, pretty and working class, but still, it feels like I am walking into a trap.

Experienced people, please help your boy.

I am 25 and working class. The girls are 22, graduates and also working class so I know it is not money they're after.

Why then does everything feel so risky

Lol...threèsome loading

My Brother....Chill and enjoy the moment

2Punanis on a platter of gold for u.... And u are still asking

dis situation is not normal,no woman in her right senses wl behave dis way. She doesn't wnt to date u,understandable but y did she personally choose a substitute 4 u and still promise to b sneaking in secretly. Anything too gud is nt always gud,dismiss both of dem

The First Lady has gotten her share of your destiny and decided to invite her friend to come get hers. lol
laughs at the kind of ladies we have nowadays.


These girls have gotten one of their targets in 2018 so early.

A very nice cooked up story.... Op well done sir!

Darammliveth:
A very nice cooked up story.... Op well done sir!

May Amadioha strike you

IAMSASHY:
dis situation is not normal,no woman in her right senses wl behave dis way.

She doesn't wnt to date u,understandable but y did she personally choose a substitute 4 u and still promise to b sneaking in secretly. Anything too gud is nt always gud,dismiss both of dem

Thank you for this. My alarm bells are ringing so hard right now. I will try and take a break from them to gather my senses..

Olami90:



The First Lady has gotten her share of your destiny and decided to invite her friend to come get hers. lol
laughs at the kind of ladies we have nowadays.


These girls have gotten one of their targets in 2018 so early.

This is not about money. Both babes have better jobs than me and the new babe sef even has a car so I'm sure it is not the peanuts I earn they're after.

I am just wondering when I became such a desirable male

Wait o.

Shey men are polygamous in nature and you all want women to acknowledge that fact.

Now you have met understanding 'co-wives' and you're creating thread again. Enjoy your polygamy jare

Raiyell:
I met this girl sometime last year and we quickly became friends.

I asked her out but she declined. We had sex once but she cried all through the night. When I asked her what the matter was, she said it was because she'd promised her mother not to have sex again until she marries seeing the way her elder sister's pregnancy out of wedlock broke their family and caused her parents to divorce.

I said okay. But we didn't stop having MouthAction or heavy petting. Just no sex even though I tried to initiate it many times without luck. I didn't wanna force her so I respected her decision.

Fast-forward last week Saturday, she came to my place with her friend and something happened which ended up pissing she and her friend out. I apologised and we all moved on. On Monday, she came to visit me and after our usual heavy petting with no sex, she said her friend said she liked me. She asked me if I would like to date her friend.

Truth be told, I like her friend very much and had been making plans to date her underground. This morning, she came and was cooking breakfast when I went to meet her in the kitchen. She told me that she would really like for me to date her friend. I said okay. I like the girl, I will date her and see how things go. I went back to the sitting room and a few moments later, the friend came in.

Now, the problem I am having is this:

1- is anything amiss here?
2- she said she will miss me but will still be coming whenever her friend is not around
3- she has already told me many things to be careful of with her friend when we start dating proper
4- she told me that she is not going to be jealous in any way but the arrangement suits her fine.

I have never experienced this kind of thing before and something doesn't feel right.

They are both nice girls, pretty and working class, but still, it feels like I am walking into a trap.

Experienced people, please help your boy.

I am 25 and working class. The girls are 22, graduates and also working class so I know it is not money they're after.

Why then does everything feel so risky

She and her friend are mad, including you who has given in to such a stupid thought.

You are actually her side boo. She has a main somewhere and she cried because she cheated on him. She won't date you because she doesn't want to leave the other guy, he's probably loaded, but she loves you or infatuated.

She doesn't want to hurt you so her friend is a her way of compensating you. She's handpicked this one as the best substitute for her and has sort of a given you the keys you'll need to handle her. I'd say you should accept the gift and make up your mind about her friend on your own terms.

You are actually her side boo. She has a main somewhere and she cried because she cheated on him. She won't date you because she doesn't want to leave the other guy, he's probably loaded, but she loves you or infatuated.

She doesn't want to hurt you so her friend is her way of compensating you. She's handpicked this one as the best substitute for her and has sort of a given you the keys you'll need to handle her. I'd say you should accept the gift and make up your mind about her friend on your own terms.

Raiyell:

May Amadioha strike you

You're such a stupid follow with low IQ

Op e be like say u sabi knack wella... That's why they keep coming.

Don't ever do such


Women are the most jealous of creatures, they don't just give men the liberty to cheat/sleep with their best friends just like that. She could easy leave you, if she is no longer interested in you.

I think it maybe spiritual

it may also be a test to see if you have been sleeping around with other girls

Either way, it is a really bad choice


"if something seems like a trap, it is probably a trap"

Be wise

Olami90:



The First Lady has gotten her share of your destiny and decided to invite her friend to come get hers. lol
laughs at the kind of ladies we have nowadays.


These girls have gotten one of their targets in 2018 so early.

True talk.

greiboy:
Don't ever do such


Women are the most jealous of creatures, they don't just give men the liberty to cheat/sleep with their best friends just like that. She could easy leave you, if she is no longer interested in you.

I think it maybe spiritual

it may also be a test to see if you have been sleeping around with other girls

Either way, it is a really bad choice


"if something seems like a trap, it is probably a trap"

Be wise

Very true.

pocohantas:
Wait o.

Shey men are polygamous in nature and you all want women to acknowledge that fact.

Now you have met understanding 'co-wives' and you're creating thread again. Enjoy your polygamy jare

To be honest, I want to experience the ride but I don't know. I am just scared.

Their type of understanding is beyond my comprehension.

greiboy:
Don't ever do such


Women are the most jealous of creatures, they don't just give men the liberty to cheat/sleep with their best friends just like that. She could easy leave you, if she is no longer interested in you.

I think it maybe spiritual

it may also be a test to see if you have been sleeping around with other girls

Either way, it is a really bad choice


"if something seems like a trap, it is probably a trap"

Be wise

What do you think they stand to gain? They're richer than me. I don't think it is money!

Belafonte:
You are actually her side boo. She has a main somewhere and she cried because she cheated on him. She won't date you because she doesn't want to leave the other guy, he's probably loaded, but she loves you or infatuated.

She doesn't want to hurt you so her friend is her way of compensating you. She's handpicked this one as the best substitute for her and has sort of a given you the keys you'll need to handle her. I'd say you should accept the gift and make up your mind about her friend on your own terms.

Hmmm -- thanks for this. I am slowly making up my mind to ride the thrill and see what happens. One thing I do know for sure is that I am never going to settle down with either of the girls, so.

Apina:

She and her friend are mad, including you who has given in to such a stupid thought.

We are not mad: we are young people who are out to have fun. It is not my fault that you're old and cannot experience the beauty of being young once more. Swerve abeg.

pocohantas:
Wait o.

Shey men are polygamous in nature and you all want women to acknowledge that fact.

Now you have met understanding 'co-wives' and you're creating thread again. Enjoy your polygamy jare

Loooolllll..... enjoy what? wicked lady you are.... But biko men were not created polygamous in nature oooo. Abeg oooo... don't mind guys on here singing it like an anthem to create the perfect excuse on why they should cheat or have as many concubines after marrying.
In God's original plan, man was created to have one wife.

TheSuperNerd:


Loooolllll..... enjoy what? wicked lady you are.... But biko men were not created polygamous in nature oooo. Abeg oooo... don't mind guys on here singing it like an anthem to create the perfect excuse on why they should cheat or have as many concubines after marrying.
In God's original plan, man was created to have one wife.

So, should I do it or not?

Raiyell:


What do you think they stand to gain? They're richer than me. I don't think it is money!

I never said anything about money bro

I said it can have spiritual implications or your girl friend is just testing your loyalty

I will advise you not to do it all, look for love elsewhere if necessary

Sir, you hardly see my moniker on romance but I will tell you straight up...


DON'T FUCKING DO IT! Reject the offer and flee... it is not a trap... it is rather a death hole. I've told you man. Have a nice life.

Raiyell:


So, should I do it or not?

greiboy:
I never said anything about money bro

I said it can have spiritual implications or your girl friend is just testing your loyalty

I will advise you not to do it all, look for love elsewhere if necessary

I don't care about the spiritual and she isn't my girlfriend. She never accepted my proposal when I asked her out.

TheSuperNerd:
Sir, you hardly see my moniker on romance but I will tell you straight up...


DON'T FUCKING DO IT! Reject the offer and flee... it is not a trap... it is rather a death hole. I've told you man. Have a nice life.

Appreciate your chiming in but can you please tell me the reason why you're against the arrangement?

Darammliveth:


You're such a stupid follow with low IQ

Ogbeni, hide your face jare.

Raiyell:


I don't care about the spiritual and she isn't my girlfriend. She never accepted my proposal when I asked her out.

ok suit yourself bro

But I just told you. But listen Sir, there is nothing I can do with your mind already made up. I understand the lure for the pussy. So it is your choice not mine... I believe you have a conscience and can read meaning into my first reply to you.

Raiyell:


Appreciate your chiming in but can you please tell me the reason why you're against the arrangement?

Raiyell:


This is not about money. Both babes have better jobs than me and the new babe sef even has a car so I'm sure it is not the peanuts I earn they're after.

I am just wondering when I became such a desirable male

Bros no be money matter they dey talk now,na ur destiny and luck .