Emekus92:


then it is either u pack out or force her to accept ur condition

Do you mean I should run?

jamie1994:
The condition that I won't Marry her?

u don't want the child

Emekus92:

u don't want the child

I just don't know what else to do bro...
I m more confused than before

jamie1994:
Do you mean I should run?

yes na

There is one thing about sex that people fail to realise especially young boys


At that moment of poking your preek inside, your senses, wisdom, thoughts, plans for the future and the world generally shuts down. The only thing you just feel is the warmth of her vagina and the eagerness to erupt inside her... Just after that, your senses reboots.. And then you realise how stupid you were...


And please don't say she trapped you.that's wrong! You took a decision, she wouldn't have killed you if you hesitated in having sex with her. Highest thing that would happen is that she will get angry.. But she will still come back again..




I have been on that road brother... And I must tell you, at the end, avoid sex ... Even when the hormones are 100percent, just avoid it.

dingbang:
There is one thing about sex that people fail to realise especially young boys


At that moment of poking your preek inside, your senses, wisdom, thoughts, plans for the future and the world generally shuts down. The only thing you just feel is the warmth of her vagina and the eagerness to erupt inside her... Just after that, your senses reboots.. And then you realise how stupid you were...


I have been on that road brother... And I must tell you, at the end, avoid sex ... Even when the hormones are 100percent, just avoid it.

I wish I had known it would turn out this way
But I don't want to live in regrets. Only seeking for a solution.. I can't tell neither of my parents.. I m alone on this journey.

My heart bleeds.....

Emekus92:

yes na

I wish I could but no where to run...

jamie1994:


I wish I had known it would turn out this way
But I don't want to live in regrets. Only seeking for a solution.. I can't tell neither of my parents.. I m alone on this journey.

its alright brother.. The reason why many Nigerian girls are throwing away babies in the gutters is that they are not aware that there are facilities in place for adoption in Nigeria. Please Google is your best friend at this moment.

dingbang:
its alright brother.. The reason why many Nigerian girls are throwing away babies in the gutters is that they are not aware that there are facilities in place for adoption in Nigeria. Please Google is your best friend at this moment.

I have been searching for help. I m confused. I am trapped

jamie1994:

I have been searching for help. I m confused. I am trapped

mchew... Oya wallow in ur confusion na.. I am offering help and you are here behaving like a sissy..

dingbang:
mchew... Oya wallow in ur confusion na.. I am offering help and you are here behaving like a sissy..

I am really sorry brother. The problem is I am not ready for marriage. I don't want any one to be hurt. I just want Peace.. I am only scared of being compelled to marry her

jamie1994:

I am really sorry brother. The problem is I am not ready for marriage. I don't want any one to be hurt. I just want Peace.. I am only scared of being compelled to marry her

nobody is compelling you to marry any body.. Do what I told u to do...

dingbang:
nobody is compelling you to marry any body.. Do what I told u to do...

I m sorry can u pls tell me what to do??

I don't see what to do from your previous posts. Please

jamie1994:

I m sorry can u pls tell me what to do??

I don't see what to do from your previous posts. Please

I mentioned you have to search on Google for adoption facilities in Nigeria. You will see good leads and then you do what you have to do.

dingbang:
I mentioned you have to search on Google for adoption facilities in Nigeria. You will see good leads and then you do what you have to do.

Alright. Will give it a try. Thanks alot for your concern

jamie1994:

Alright. Will give it a try. Thanks alot for your concern

and please stay out of sex if can't handle It..

dingbang:
and please stay out of sex if can't handle It..

I will.. thanks alot

Are you sure you are the owner of the pregnancy ? I am just hoping she was not already pregnant before forcing you to sleep with her so she can transfer the responsibility to you seeing you are a bit naive.

Be sure to calculate the total time the pregnancy lasted before giving birth then you'd know for sure if you are being played.

It is cruel to give a man a bastars child but these ladies can do worse.

Be wise.

That baby aint urs abeg. Fear not. Tell her u would do DNA. She go confess

jamie1994:

No sir. But she insisted on unprotected sex saying she wouldn't get pregnant

Lol.....
U know u aren't ready for a baby,so why have it raw with her??
My nigga...
u made a costly mistake man...Guess your girl wanted to trap u with a baby since she insisted on no protection.
U suppose use sense na and code what she was aiming at...

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

It's not written in any book that you must marry a girl just because she is pregnant for you, when you dont love her.

If she wants to give birth to the baby, no worries. Just take care of the baby and live your life apart. You don't need to be forced or compelled to marry her.

A lot of ladies are desperate these days and see pregnancy as a means to trap men for marriage.

Don't fall into that trap

jamie1994:
I can't eat, sleep.. This is the worst experience ever. Please help

give yourself some sense


Just accept the pregnancy and make the lady to understand you ain't marrying her for sure and move on with your life. Don't border yourself much. She is 26 she will takecare of herself. Make sure you give her the necessary support you can afford.

Congrats papa ejima. Babies are beautiful blessings. If a chic i like gets preggy for me now, i'll glady accept it. Do you like really like the girl though? I mean are you scared of the reality of becoming a father/husband at the moment or you don't want to be one with this particular lady?

victorakpabome:


It's not written in any book that you must marry a girl just because she is pregnant for you, when you dont love her.

If she wants to give birth to the baby, no worries. Just take care of the baby and live your life apart. You don't need to be forced or compelled to marry her.

A lot of ladies are desperate these days and see pregnancy as a means to trap men for marriage.

Don't fall into that trap

This guy has said it all.

jamie1994:
I can't eat, sleep.. This is the worst experience ever. Please help

..U can as well threaten to deny the pregnancy if she doesnt remove it..or re u against abortion?..

let her have the child and it's not a most that you will marry her.

just because you got her pregnant does not automatically translate to you marrying her.

Whebln u been dey nak akpako u been dey ready abi...
If I......

Mynd44

jamie1994:

No sir. But she insisted on unprotected sex saying she wouldn't get pregnant

Seriously??. My Brother. You have marry ooo!!!

dingbang:
There is one thing about sex that people fail to realise especially young boys


At that moment of poking your preek inside, your senses, wisdom, thoughts, plans for the future and the world generally shuts down. The only thing you just feel is the warmth of her vagina and the eagerness to erupt inside her... Just after that, your senses reboots.. And then you realise how stupid you were...


And please don't say she trapped you.that's wrong! You took a decision, she wouldn't have killed you if you hesitated in having sex with her. Highest thing that would happen is that she will get angry.. But she will still come back again..




I have been on that road brother... And I must tell you, at the end, avoid sex ... Even when the hormones are 100percent, just avoid it.

Erupt inside her??. NO! NO!! NO!!!. My brother even with condom, I erupt inside "nowhere". Which kain eruption is that. My brain works perfectly well few seconds to eruption oooo...

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

make her your baby mama