Nobody bats an eye when men date multiple
women, and ladies, you can do the same.
Casting a wider net makes it easier to find
Mr. Right!


You know how when you meet a guy you
like, you always seem to meet another one
at the same time? When it rains it pours,
right? Well, breaking news, ladies! It’s okay
for you to see both of them at once! Stop
worrying about how society judges you. It’s
an unfair double standard. Get out there and
go for it!


It’s not for everyone, some people are just
hardwired for pure monogamy. But try it and
you might be surprised. There are so many
potential benefits to dating multiple guys at a
time. And if you do it right, there’s very little
downside. If you’re respectful of the guys,
then no feelings will get hurt. And don’t worry
about what your friends and family will think.
Just tell those that you think will support you.
Those who won’t, well, they don’t need to
know, do they?


You may think that dating multiple guys
makes you a cheater, but you’re not even
official yet! Why waste time dating just one
guy, when you can sift through an entire
bunch and pick the one that’s right for you?

#1 Honesty….
But not too much. Dating two or more guys doesn’t mean you should stop caring about their feelings. It’s not okay to lie or make someone believe that you’re exclusive with them when you’re not. As always, you’ve got to follow the golden rule of “do unto others as you’d have them do unto you.”

Nobody wants to be cheated on. You don’t necessarily have to tell a guy that you’re seeing someone else, at least not initially. If you’re just screwing, then all is fair, but if he’s taking you on dates, and treating you more like a girlfriend, it’s time to ‘fess up. Maybe he’ll accept it or maybe he won’t, but you owe it to a guy to tell him at that point.

#2 Fun and exciting.

There’s definitely something thrilling about dating more than one guy at a time. It always feels good to be wanted, and you can double up on that feeling, when it’s coming from two men. And since you’ve been hearing for your whole life that it’s wrong wrong wrong for women to sleep around, there’s the added excitement of breaking that taboo.

It’s also just fun. Life is short, and you always regret what you don’t do more than the things you try. Live in the moment and be the advocate for your own pleasure. Stop caring about what other people think. If you know someone will judge you for dating multiple guys, then it’s none of their business, and they don’t have to know. It’s your life, so enjoy it.

#3 Practice makes perfect.

Sex gets better and better the more of it you have. This is true both in terms of knowing what you need for your own pleasure, and what it takes to drive a guy wild. Even if your ultimate plan is to settle down with your dream man in the future, he’ll be easier to find and keep if you’re giving him great sex.

People have got to get it out of their heads that an experienced woman is a slut, or any other negative word you can think of. Everyone should strive to be a better lover, and the only way to get better at anything is to practice at it. Athletes get better by training with a variety of teammates and opponents, with different skill levels and playing styles. Why should sex be any different?

#4 Hard to get.

There’s just something really hot about a woman that a lot of guys are after. You might be worried that people who see you with separate guys will think badly of you. Here’s how it really works when men know you are seeing a couple of guys: the losers who never had a chance in the first place call you a slut. The real men want to know why they’re being left out.

It seems paradoxical. Why should dating around make you seem harder to get, not easier. But that’s how it works. Dating multiple men will make you an object of desire. Remember, the guys who call you a slut are going home every night to a large porn collection, not a woman.

#5 Confidence boost.

When you’re feeling confident, you get way more attention from the opposite sex. Confidence really is one of the most attractive qualities, and the best way to have the feeling of confidence is to feel wanted. When you know there are two or even more guys just waiting for your call, you know you’re hot. People around you will notice too.

It’s often said that people who have just had sex have a glow around them. It’s quite common for both men and women to be hit on a lot during the few hours after sex. Most of this is the confidence boost that sex gives. When you date more than one guy, you’ll have a perpetual glow about you. You’ll walk with your head high and a confident smile, and you’ll notice a surge in the amount of attention you get.

#6 Best of all worlds.

Most women are aroused by a lot of different types of sex. One night she might want slow, passionate sex with lots of eye contact and kissing. The next, she might want hair pulling, and dirty talk. And it doesn’t stop there: there’s dominating him, he dominating her, dress up, role play, toys, long MouthAction sessions for him and for her, fast hard pounding, slow deep thrusting, the list is really endless.

Of course, not all women are into each and every one of these, but most probably are turned on by at least a few of them. Unfortunately, finding a guy who can wear that many hats is one in a million. The obvious solution is dating more than one guy. When you can have one guy you call when you want that hot, freaky sex, or who has a magic tongue that never gets tired, that’s great. It’s even better when the next day you can go for dinner and a movie, and a night of passionate lovemaking with another guy.

#7 Cast a wide net.

Even if you’re looking to meet the right guy, the man you’re going to marry, you should still date more than one guy at a time. You can never tell right away if a man is the right one. It takes time. But spending months figuring it out, only to be disappointed, will feel like wasted time, unless you have another prospect.


Just think about it statistically. Your odds of meeting Mr. Right will double when you double your potential pool. Date three guys and you triple your odds! There are plenty of fish in the sea, but you only catch the ones you fish for.

ajibolabd:
Nobody bats an eye when men date multiple
women

which country is that?
coz all the countries i know teach men to treat women like queens and encourage men to marry and devote their life to one woman.
i have never seen any man celebrated for dating multiple girls same time.if you want to be a hoe be a hoe.but dont use men as an excuse.coz that behaviour is done by a tiny minority of guys that are even hated by everyone else- The Players. and they are just 1/5 of the male population....smh

In this part of the world, even if you are dating one guy, them go still call you olosho. What do we call a lady dating 2 guys? There's no doubt, she'll be sleeping with both. I do not support this idea, we have teenagers on this forum who are easily convinced.

A question for the op... How will you feel if you find out that you are just a back up guy in your babes heart?

Nice write up. Mind you, some did all these and still end up with a woman beater at every slight provocation.
Today, them no allow us hear word for joroblog.
My dear, there is no formula for picking the right guy.

ajibolabd:
#7 Cast a wide net.


Even if you’re looking to
meet the right guy, the man you’re going to
marry, you should still date more than one
guy at a time. You can never tell right away if
a man is the right one. It takes time. But
spending months figuring it out, only to be
disappointed, will feel like wasted time,
unless you have another prospect.



Just think about it statistically. Your odds of
meeting Mr. Right will double when you
double your potential pool. Date three guys
and you triple your odds! There are plenty of
fish in the sea, but you only catch the ones
you fish for.

sexybbstar:
In this part of the world, even if you are dating one guy, them go still call you olosho. What do we call a lady dating 2 guys? There's no doubt, she'll be sleeping with both. I do not support this idea, we have teenagers on this forum who are easily convinced.

A question for the op... How will you feel if you find out that you are just a back up guy in your babes heart?

I'll be lucky been a back up

ajibolabd:
I'll be lucky been a back up

sexybbstar:
In this part of the world, even if you are dating one guy, them go still call you olosho. What do we call a lady dating 2 guys? There's no doubt, she'll be sleeping with both. I do not support this idea, we have teenagers on this forum who are easily convinced.

A question for the op... How will you feel if you find out that you are just a back up guy in your babes heart?

You can only be called olosho on internet, or have you be called or seen any lady called and slammed olosho by a guy in real.

donstan18:


You can only be called olosho on internet, or have you be called or seen any lady called and slammed olosho by a guy in real.

No, I've not

sexybbstar:

No, I've not

And i believe you'v not aswell seen a lady slammed, then why saying they'll be slammed "Olosho"

ubunja:

which country is that?
coz all the countries i know teach men to treat women like queens and encourage men to marry and devote their life to one woman.
i have never seen any man celebrated for dating multiple girls same time.if you want to be a hoe be a hoe.but dont use men as an excuse.coz that behaviour is done by a tiny minority of guys that are even hated by everyone else- The Players. and they are just 1/5 of the male population....smh

Please help me tell the OP,cos I kept seeing nobody bothers men when they date multiple girls and was like...in which country or world,like you rightly said,if you want to sleep around and explore,all well and fine,but own up to it and don't go justifying ur actions by trying to misrepresent facts.

donstan18:


And i believe you'v not aswell seen a lady slammed, then why saying they'll be slammed "Olosho"

Morally, it's not right. This is one of the reason why some people commit murder. Imagine a man who's thinking of proposing to his babe and unfortunately on the D-day,she turn him down because there's another guy somewhere. Some of them will allow the anger to take over them and they'll murder their partner. Our society doesn't allow that for a morally upright lady.

sexybbstar:


Morally, it's not right. This is one of the reason why some people commit murder. Imagine a man who's thinking of proposing to his babe and unfortunately on the D-day,she turn him down because there's another guy somewhere. Some of them will allow the anger to take over them and they'll murder their partner. Our society doesn't allow that for a morally upright lady.

Yea, Morally, I quite agree with you.

Was just concerned with your societal claim of "olosho" slamming.

No. Thank you.

Let me wear my glasses first

Eh ehn..

I really understand what the OP is trying to say..

As a single person beginning a relationship, you shouldn't invest too much on a partner.. This means that you can have options (that are still single and are interested in you) but you must not DATE them... Send missed signals to him/her even while dating but never be direct. When u guys get serious or better still, exchange rings, you can friend zone them (this shouldn't be hard because you never showed any serious interest in them). When things don't work out, you won't be devastated.

NB: Don't rush in posting pictures as a couple on SM, u may later regret and don't have multiple sexual partners..

sexybbstar:
In this part of the world, even if you are dating one guy, them go still call you olosho. What do we call a lady dating 2 guys? There's no doubt, she'll be sleeping with both. I do not support this idea, we have teenagers on this forum who are easily convinced.

A question for the op... How will you feel if you find out that you are just a back up guy in your babes heart?

Sincerely I am crazy over you.
You are a breath of fresh air.
Love your mindset.

donsimo:

Sincerely I am crazy over you. You are a breath of fresh air. Love your mindset.

I see nothing wrong with it if you aren't in a committed relationship with one person exclusively, doesn't neccesarily mean you sleep with them, you could just be 'talking', it's a way to keep your options open. Only do it if you're comfortable with it though

There are some ladies they will have 15 sugar daddies, 10 boyfriends plus the main boyfriend and they will be lashing all of them in ze oza room. Mehn i dey fear such babes oo. After 5 yrs of such racket u notice their body looking so worn out with saggy tommy and tits. Just like when u overuse a brand new car it will turn to jalopy.

lefulefu:
There are some ladies they will have 15 sugar daddies, 10 boyfriends plus the main boyfriend and they will be lashing all of them in ze oza room. Mehn i dey fear such babes oo. After 5 yrs of such racket u notice their body looking so worn out with saggy tommy and tits. Just like when u overuse a brand new car it will turn to jalopy.

and you see some niggar willing to wife up that sewage saying dumb shit like "a woman's past doesnt matter" "true love doesnt judge" i swear one day i will kill these desperate Nice Guys

ubunja:

and you see some niggar willing to wife up that sewage saying dumb shit like "a woman's past doesnt matter" "true love doesnt judge" i swear one day i will kill these desperate Nice Guys

lol it is not nice men who get married to such ladies but weak,naive and timid men. being nice doesnt mean a man should be foolish.

lefulefu:

lol it is not nice men who get married to such ladies but weak,naive and timid men. being nice doesnt mean a man should be foolish.

why be nice in the first place? what are you compensating for??

One man's a handful already, I'll pass. Thanks.

ibkayee:
I see nothing wrong with it if you aren't in a committed relationship with one person exclusively, doesn't neccesarily mean you sleep with them, you could just be 'talking', it's a way to keep your options open Only do it if you're comfortable with it though

@ bolded
How is that possible, Is that not how cheating starts?

Most people don't intend to sleep with the other person, but they somehow find themselves on the bed doing the diggydy

greiboy:
@ bolded
How is that possible, Is that not how cheating starts?

Most people don't intend to sleep with the other person, but they somehow find themselves on the bed doing the diggydy

You can't cheat on someone you aren't in a committed relationship with