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Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 22, 2018
How it began :

Everything began when I first watched porn from my elder brother's phone. I was really young then. I never really showed a likeness until I watched it again, gradually I began feeling like watching it over again.


After my secondary school, I'd pretend I wanted to help him operate his phone, I would find a quiet place and watch it over and over again. I have to confess! The first time I saw something coming out of my manhood was through porn. It looked like a thick water that draws, I already knew it was sperm.

I have to tell you! I was brilliant right from my primary, in secondary school I either take the first or second position. When I gained admission into university, that was when I then had the time to watch the stuff really well. My first year wasn't much, but I can even count the little nights in my second year when I didn't watch porn. I watched it very often that I continued with it in my third year.

In July 7, 2016, that was exactly when I started with masturbation. I was in 300 level then. Since then i had continued with it thinking that I'd stop one day but all to no avail. My greatest streak was 2 months, after the two months, something led to the other and I still continued with it.

Masturbation has really costed me a lot! My 300 results was bullshit, final year results was even worst. I struggled to make a 2.1 with 3.61 points, of which I could have made a first class or at least a 4 points.

Please just say something to me, talk to me please! I'm gonna keep reading it every time maybe it might help me. I don't wanna ruin my 2018 please help!

About girls : I don't just have the courage at all. Anytime I develop a feeling for them I start getting nervous when I see them around. Not that I'm ugly or broke (never!), I know the problem is coming from masturbation.



Note: I have another account on this forum, I just had to create this to hide my identity. I'm just 20!
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by iamJ(m): 5:47pm On Jan 22, 2018
mastubation caused u to have poor grades cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy see lies of life, ure an olodo, stop deceiving urself, quit sch stop wasting ur lecturer, ur parents and Nigeria's time

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by CHUKWUNOLOGICAL(m): 5:49pm On Jan 22, 2018
Oyinbo34:
How it began :

Everything began when I first watched porn from my elder brother's phone. I was really young then. I never really showed a likeness until I watched it again, gradually I began feeling like watching it over again.


After my secondary school, I'd pretend I wanted to help him operate his phone, I would find a quiet place and watch it over and over again. I have to confess! The first time I saw something coming out of my manhood was through porn. It looked like a thick water that draws, I already knew it was sperm.

I have to tell you! I was brilliant right from my primary, in secondary school I either take the first or second position. When I gained admission into university, that was when I then had the time to watch the stuff really well. My first year wasn't much, but I can even count the little nights in my second year when I didn't watch porn. I watched it very often that I continued with it in my third year.

In July 7, 2016, that was exactly when I started with masturbation. I was in 300 level then. Since then i had continued with it thinking that I'd stop one day but all to no avail. My greatest streak was 2 months, after the two months, something led to the other and I still continued with it.

Masturbation has really costed me a lot! My 300 results was bullshit, final year results was even worst. I struggled to make a 2.1 with 3.61 points, of which I could have made a first class or at least a 4 points.

Please just say something to me, talk to me please! I'm gonna keep reading it every time maybe it might help me. I don't wanna ruin my 2018 please help!

About girls : I don't just have the courage at all. Anytime I develop a feeling for them I start getting nervous when I see them around. Not that I'm ugly or broke (never!), I know the problem is coming from masturbation.



Note: I have another account on this forum, I just had to create this to hide my identity. I'm just 20!

Get busy, you are too idle

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jan 22, 2018
iamJ:
mastubation caused u to have poor grades cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy see lies of life, ure an olodo, stop deceiving urself, quit sch stop wasting ur lecturer, ur parents and Nigeria's time


looking for likes again?

I'm a graduate already and I made 2.1 from a federal university.

Thanks for your comment.

BTW, What did you make?

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by cruzita(f): 5:53pm On Jan 22, 2018
MASTURBATION IS A SLOW KILLER.IT LEAVES U FEELING LONELY,REGRETFUL,DEJECTED ETC.IT ALSO AFFECTS THE BRAIN PERFORMANCE.IF U ARE WILLING TO STOP ,U REMOVE EVERYTHING THAT GIVES U ACCESS TO D INTERNET,STAY AWAY FROM THINGS THAT TALKS OR HAVE TO DO WITH SEX LIKE MAGAZINES,SEXUAL INTERACTIONS.AND LASTLY ,MEDITATE ON THE WORD OF GOD

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Jamariwolf4(f): 5:54pm On Jan 22, 2018
Why do you want to stop masturbation?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with dragging your peenis for pleasure.

Every young man and woman (especially teenagers) masturbate.

Even your pastor who condemns, masturbates.

Except if you're a faqqot, then we have a problem, but now, none!!!


PS: Watch out for hypocrites who'd quote me and those who'd type trash, like the bitch above me. Smh
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Daniel2289(m): 5:56pm On Jan 22, 2018
U can't stop it by will power. I will advice u to go for deliverance. C ur pastor or another man of God for that.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jan 22, 2018
Start by accepting Jesus wholeheartedly. Then, try to attend church services consistently. Before that, make sure you block every access you have to porn.
Anytime you are tempted, go on your knees and pray aggressively. If it's not working, go for a walk or get yourself busy.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by iamJ(m): 5:57pm On Jan 22, 2018
Oyinbo34:


looking for likes again?

I'm a graduate already and I made 2.1 from a federal university.

Thanks for your comment.

BTW, What did you make?
2.2 but am not jobless mastubating and complaining about it like a baby with xvideos feeding bottle in his mouth

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 22, 2018
Jamariwolf4:
Why do you want to stop masturbation?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with dragging your peenis for pleasure.

Every young man and woman (especially teenagers) masturbate.

Even your pastor who condemns, masturbates.

Except if you're a faqqot, then we have a problem, but now, none!!!


PS: Watch out for hypocrites who'd quote me and those who'd type trash, like the bitch above me. Smh

Poster, please don't listen to this. It's a lie from the pit of hell.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Jamariwolf4(f): 6:05pm On Jan 22, 2018
leye001:


Poster, please don't listen to this. It's a lie from the pit of hell.
Look at this small pikin wey never understand her menstrual cycle finish.

What do you know bout sex and sexual practices?

We do need age restriction on this forum!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please go read for your JAMB 2018 so you can get MBBS admission, and I'll engage you when you're old enough.
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by yanabasee(m): 6:05pm On Jan 22, 2018
leye001:
Start by accepting Jesus wholeheartedly. Then, try to attend church services consistently. Before that, make sure you block every access you have to porn.
Anytime you are tempted, go on your knees and pray aggressively. If it's not working, go for a walk or get yourself busy.


What's with church and everything?


OP, Just stop watching those porns and work on urself....



BTW, be expecting a sex doll next month....
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by banre(m): 6:05pm On Jan 22, 2018
hmmmmmmm
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 22, 2018
iamJ:
2.2 but am not jobless mastubating and complaining about it like a baby with xvideos feeding bottle in his mouth

Bro take it easy abeg smiley The dude needs our help.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 22, 2018
Op telling lies on masturbation head...
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 22, 2018
We've all being there. Please start by burning or destroying all pornographic materials you have (magazines, movies, pictures on your computer etc).

Look for something to keep you busy like your studies, or get a Playstation or Xbox and start gaming. Get a girlfriend.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by cruzita(f): 6:08pm On Jan 22, 2018
Jamariwolf4:
Why do you want to stop masturbation?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with dragging your peenis for pleasure.

Every young man and woman (especially teenagers) masturbate.

Even your pastor who condemns, masturbates.

Except if you're a faqqot, then we have a problem, but now, none!!!


PS: Watch out for hypocrites who'd quote me and those who'd type trash, like the bitch above me. Smh
I'm 100% u masturbate .For u to type this rubbish u must be a chronic one that is beyond redemption.So for u not to make another terrible mistake ,check my siggy

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by yanabasee(m): 6:09pm On Jan 22, 2018
Jamariwolf4:
Why do you want to stop masturbation?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with dragging your peenis for pleasure.

Every young man and woman (especially teenagers) masturbate.

Even your pastor who condemns, masturbates.

Except if you're a faqqot, then we have a problem, but now, none!!!


PS: Watch out for hypocrites who'd quote me and those who'd type trash, like the bitch above me. Smh

He said, he wants to end it...

You don't have to keep pushing him into what he's not comfortable doing.... if pleasing yourself is ok for you, many people don't fancy it...and its not reasonable advising him to keep the act....

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by LifeofEFCC: 6:13pm On Jan 22, 2018
leye001:
Start by accepting Jesus wholeheartedly. Then, try to attend church services consistently. Before that, make sure you block every access you have to porn.
Anytime you are tempted, go on your knees and pray aggressively. If it's not working, go for a walk or get yourself busy.
hi dear
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jan 22, 2018
iamJ:
2.2 but am not jobless mastubating and complaining about it like a baby with xvideos feeding bottle in his mouth
no man, I am not jobless! I'm a corper serving in a Lagos state at present. I'm 20 years old like I said earlier, and I bet you never achieved as much as I have achieved right now at your own 20. Last year even as a student, I made about $8k online. I spend most of my time reading guides and methods from seo forums, and I try out things I learn. Even When I am on nairaland, I only read from business, phone and webmaster forums.


I have another account and I have been here since my secondary school days.

I don't post savage comments for likes cuz it's of no use!

I hope you find a better job soon.

...................

OMG! I need serious comments! And I appreciate the ones I have been seeing.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by mazimee(m): 6:35pm On Jan 22, 2018
iamJ:
mastubation caused u to have poor grades cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy see lies of life, ure an olodo, stop deceiving urself, quit sch stop wasting ur lecturer, ur parents and Nigeria's time


Have mercy bros, just have mercy grin grin grin
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Jamariwolf4(f): 6:40pm On Jan 22, 2018
yanabasee:


He said, he wants to end it...

You don't have to keep pushing him into what he's not comfortable doing.... if pleasing yourself is ok for you, many people don't fancy it...and its not reasonable advising him to keep the act....
Someone must have told him that it's wrong.

That's why I told him there's nothing wrong with him.

DAMMIT
WE ALL MASTURBATE!!!
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by mazimee(m): 6:40pm On Jan 22, 2018
Oyinbo34:
no man, I am not jobless! I'm a corper serving in a Lagos state at present. I'm 20 years old like I said earlier, and I bet you never achieved as much as I have achieved right now at your own 20. Last year even as a student, I made about $8k online. I spend most of my time reading guides and methods from seo forums, and I try out things I learn. Even When I am on nairaland, I only read from business, phone and webmaster forums.


I have another account and I have been here since my secondary school days.

I don't post savage comments for likes cuz it's of no use!

I hope you find a better job soon.

...................

OMG! I need serious comments! And I appreciate the ones I have been seeing.

Research has it that This savagery of yours is unintentional.

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by yanabasee(m): 6:48pm On Jan 22, 2018
Jamariwolf4:
Someone must have told him that it's wrong.

That's why I told him there's nothing wrong with him.

DAMMIT
WE ALL MASTURBATE!!!

Perhaps, no one told him nothing....

I've heard a lady m@sturbate in the toilet....She cried afterwards....

Masturbating is one thing, getting addicted to it is another thing.... People who wants out, have had issues with it that must have almost taken something from them....They should have a break from it and we must help them...

Also, we do not all masturbate as I know people who respect themselves from that act!!

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Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jan 26, 2018
LifeofEFCC:
hi dear
Hello
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jan 26, 2018
Jamariwolf4:
Look at this small pikin wey never understand her menstrual cycle finish.

What do you know bout sex and sexual practices?

We do need age restriction on this forum!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please go read for your JAMB 2018 so you can get MBBS admission, and I'll engage you when you're old enough.

Thanks for showing concern
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Kingsley1000(m): 1:20pm On Jan 26, 2018
www.xvideos.com dont visit them
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by jokolo282(m): 7:27pm On Jan 26, 2018
bro it ain't easy to stop masturbation. even a saint would find it hard to stop it. only prayers, concentration. have a life partner. and be dedicated. read disadvantages of masturbation too. eg
weakness. erectile dysfunction. low memory. weaken the brain. quick ejaculation. expose to sickness. etc. if you love yourself try and avoid it by all means
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 26, 2018
my guy what u need is serious prayer I was once a participant but I fought my way out with prayers. and if d prayers ain't working try masturbating with aboliki balm or better still loko balm . u will see wonders
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Safiaa(f): 9:23pm On Jan 26, 2018
I hope this man has found the help that he needs. It is well, we all have problems.
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jan 26, 2018
no man, I am not jobless! I'm a corper serving in a Lagos state at present. I'm 20 years old like I said earlier, and I bet you never achieved as much as I have achieved right now at your own 20. Last year even as a student, I made about $8k online. I spend most of my time reading guides and methods from seo forums, and I try out things I learn. Even When I am on nairaland, I only read from business, phone and webmaster forums.


I have another account and I have been here since my secondary school days.

I don't post savage comments for likes cuz it's of no use!

I hope you find a better job soon.

...................

OMG! I need serious comments! And I appreciate the ones I have been seeing.
-op pls show me d way biko my email-flexbeauty25@gmail.com
Re: Please Talk To Me! Help Me Stop Masturbation Please!! by LifeofEFCC: 7:57pm On Jan 27, 2018
leye001:

Hello
how things

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