But instead of being honest, instead of being vulnerable and choosing, despite all doubt, to step forward, you ran in the other direction. You tucked your feelings deep inside and turned your face away. You poured yourself into other things, other people who weren’t nearly as ready to give you their all.

You walked away from a woman who cared for you. You traded something genuine for something that will never light a fire in your soul. You sought affection instead of passion, and found temporary instead of permanent.

She was ready to love you. She was open arms and a forgiving mind. She was kisses that tasted like home and hands that were ready to help build you into the man you were always capable of becoming—the man you’ve always been. She was tenderness in all the places that were bruised, kindness in every embrace, touch, and sentence.

She was fearless when it came to sharing her heart. And yet, you didn’t notice her value. You failed to see that what you two could have was something worth fighting for; you put down your sword and left her standing there alone.

You walked away from a woman who was ready to start something meaningful. Who was willing to stop running, stop searching, stop wishing for something perfect—because all she needed was right here. With you.

But you left.

And now you’ve lost out on late nights, arm-in-arm, staring at the stars and talking about dreams. You’ve lost lips that could softly press into every ache and teach you how it feels to be loved. You’ve lost a heart that was so willing to put the past behind and start a new with someone else. You’ve lost a body, a soul who was ready and willing to be your partner, your right-hand-woman, your best friend.

You lost what so many people spend their entire lives desperately searching for.

And hopefully, when you find a woman like that again, you won’t take her for granted this time. Because in a world of fleeting connections, you can’t afford to lose a love like hers. I am Touched By This Write Up..

Apart from free toto what else do you lose?

Humans should learn to cherish & love humanity in general & stop being gender biased.

Its hard these days to meet a woman that will truly care and love you sincere but when you meet one and you take her for granted, you will lose at the end cos someone else will be given that love and care, someone that values it.

So true

The heart of a woman is not easily taken over. When she loves truly, she loves with her all. When a man meets a woman who is ready to be everything he prayed for and asked for in a wife and partner and it also happens that he also feels the connection and sees that her love is true, such a woman should not be toyed with.

I believe a man should be focused on what he needs most in a woman. A lot of guys will easily walk in here and shout "sex naa" or what else is she offering apart from her V mehn?
Well, a really good woman have more than just sex to offer. All that the OP listed in that beautiful write-up is just a glimpse of what a good woman brings to the table for her man. She won't be perfect and of course there will be fight moments but one thing you can count on big time is her loyalty and commitment to you. She is here to build you too and to help act as your inspiration in the pursuit of whatever bug ambitions or dreams you have and in your climb up the ladder of success and progress in your field and more.
If you find such a woman and she loves you so much, please hold her tight. Don't cheat on her. Don't mess with her heart. Build her too. Make her feel like the only woman in the world. Treat her like a Queen... Your Queen.
It takes a brave woman to love a man and be all committed to him even in the face of other men trying to buy her attention and love. It takes a brave and virtuous woman not to cheat on you. It takes sacrifice on her part to travel also for your sake when she can just to see you and show you support in whatever you do. It takes a mix of Love and Trust for her to tell you that she knows you can be the king of whatever endeavor you choose to undertake.
It takes Love and powerful belief in you for her to oftentimes pray for you both day and night. Praying for your future together and praying for your success as her man.
She is one who will always be chased by other men no matter what, but will pay them no real mind. She will just treat them nicely as passers-by or friends or acquaintances and never give them the full attention she gives you.
She loves you and will shower you with kisses and soft smooches when you are down and feeling kinda overwhelmed with working so hard or planning so much. When you are down, she's there with you to help you rise strong. And when she is weak, she is not afraid to lean on you knowing you have her back always.

This is the kind of woman you should never ever joke with. She is a Wife. A true helpmeeet. A Queen.... A Warrior-Queen. She is not a princess that needs saving but rather A Queen who fights side by side with her man, the King. Such a woman.... Cherish her and lover her because She can move the world for you. She is with you to the end and even beyond.... She's rare and is like a rose that stubbornly blossoms in the midst of thorns and chaos. But she exists and when you find her, be true to her.




I could say the same for men too. When a good man who is committed to his woman and shows her all the love and care and genuineness of intentions via actions to make her happy and make her His Queen, then such a man should be held tightly, adored and given due respect. A really good man is hard to find truly but so also is a good woman.


Nice write-up OP.... God help us all.

Chikita66:
Its hard these days to meet a woman that will truly care and love you sincere but when you meet one and you take her for granted, you will lose at the end cos someone else will be given that love and care, someone that values it.

same goes to the female gender cos true love is an element of trust and sincerity coupled with dedicated commitment

Reminds me of Bruno mars' When I Was Your Man.

AryEmber:
Reminds me of Bruno mars' When I Was Your Man.

Enlighten me on what the Song Says Baby...Lols

Chikita66:
Its hard these days to meet a woman that will truly care and love you sincere but when you meet one and you take her for granted, you will lose at the end cos someone else will be given that love and care, someone that values it.

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Chikita66:
Its hard these days to meet a woman that will truly care and love you sincere but when you meet one and you take her for granted, you will lose at the end cos someone else will be given that love and care, someone that values it.

And my question is "Are you among the few that love and care for her man sincerely?"

Be sincere.

Maybe, it is high time I became single for life.

if u no get Toto to give in a relationship hide your face

I'm too lazy to read, can anyone care to summarise in just one sentence please.......

EmpressT:
Maybe, it is high time I became single for life.

And you feel its the best decision?

EmpressT:
Maybe, it is high time I became single for life.

Lols...It's Because You have not Found That Person That Can Make You Love Again but It's only if You can Open Ur heart For it...

Beautiful

Beautiful Piece! I feel like loving again

Chikita66:
Its hard these days to meet a woman that will truly care and love you sincere but when you meet one and you take her for granted, you will lose at the end cos someone else will be given that love and care, someone that values it.

MY DEAR SWEET PETITE. ARE YOU SAYING JUST BECAUSE "ITS HARD TO MEET A WOMAN THAT WILL TRULY CARE AND LOVE SINCERELY" THEN WHEN ONE THAT DOES TRULY CARE AND LOVE COMES AROUND AND YOU FEEL NO CONNECTION THEN YOU ARE A LOSER FOR BEING SINCERE TO YOURSELF BY NOT RECIPROCATING? HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THE SONG: "when the wrong one loves you right"? THOUGH I GET YOUR POINT. AM ONLY TRYING TO DRAW YOUR ATTENTION TO OUR REALITIES.

TIDDOLL:
We really don't choose who we love, fate does!

Someone can love you like the sun loves the moon, and you don't feel the same way.

You're right on this one

WORDWORLD:


MY DEAR SWEET PETITE. ARE YOU SAY JUST BECAUSE "ITS HARD TO MEET A WOMAN THAT WILL TRULY CARE AND LOVE SINCERELY" THEN WHEN ONE COMES ACROSS ONE THAT DOES AND YOU FEEL NO CONNECTION THEN YOU ARE A LOSER FOR BEING SINCERE TO YOURSELF BY NOT RECIPROCATING. HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THE SONG: "when the wrong one loves you right"? THOUGH I GET YOUR POINT. AM ONLY TRYING TO DRAW YOUR ATTENTION TO OUR REALITIES.

OK.

preciousuweh:


And my question is "Are you among the few that love and care for her man sincerely?"

Be sincere.

Why not, I love with my heart and I give my attention and care to the person but if its not reciprocated or taken for granted, I use the door, no time to waste time. I don't tolerate rubbish.

The fact that a woman loves a man greatly doesn't mean her love will be returned in equal gesture...infact it's better you let a woman go when you don't love her as much as she loves you....love is better when it is deeply mutual...

ogtavia:
The fact that a woman loves a man greatly doesn't mean her love will be returned in equal gesture...infact it's better you let a woman go when you don't love her as much as she loves you....love is better when it is deeply mutual...

Lols, No Body Will Love You As Much As You Love Them...One Party Must Love More Then The Other Reciprocates...

youngprof2n:
Enlighten me on what the Song Says Baby...Lols

It'll be best if you download it. It's similar to your writeup a little

youngprof2n:
Lols, No Body Will Love You As Much As You Love Them...One Party Must Love More Then The Other Reciprocates...

that's not what I mean...I mean,its better you let go of a woman who loves you but you don't love her as much in return...if you agree to stick around,it will only be out of pity...I understand your premise but I don't think I want to be with someone who sticks around out of pity, thats not love and I also won't keep a woman who loves me very much but I know I won't be able to return the same emotions as she deserves....everyone deserves to be loved and to be loved greatly.

Chikita66:
OK.

Thank you. So its about the right person loving us for all the right reasons.

Wow!! op this is beautiful. It touches the deepest part of the soul.
It brought back memories

permit me to copy..

Chikita66:
Its hard these days to meet a woman that will truly care and love you sincere but when you meet one and you take her for granted, you will lose at the end cos someone else will be given that love and care, someone that values it.

see ur face lik german sherpered