Biafraqueen:
Hi guys,

I started dating a guy I really liked when i was on a waitlist for admission to study medicine . I got off the waitlist and decided to go to med school. He broke up with me because he didn't see the long term potential in us anymore .

He also raised questions of when I would be able to have kids and settle down (he wants to have kids before I turn 30 - ).

I am now terrified that I won't be able to find anybody because of my situation. This guy was so much of what I was looking for in a person and it hurts to lose him.....
Being a female medical student ,is it a turn off
Because this time i experienced the notion.

Thanks.

Thegeneralqueen:
فثف في صفلس قبل اييلتق لنقل

RoyalBlak007:
称 不会从你

心爱的 不能不

Biafraqueen:
Hi guys,

I started dating a guy I really liked when i was on a waitlist for admission to study medicine . I got off the waitlist and decided to go to med school. He broke up with me because he didn't see the long term potential in us anymore .

He also raised questions of when I would be able to have kids and settle down (he wants to have kids before I turn 30 - ).

I am now terrified that I won't be able to find anybody because of my situation. This guy was so much of what I was looking for in a person and it hurts to lose him.....
Being a female medical student ,is it a turn off
Because this time i experienced the notion.

Thanks.

SuperSuave:
Words of a wise man. The best advice yet.

Thegeneralqueen:
فثف في صفلس قبل اييلتق لنقل

Thegeneralqueen:
فثف في صفلس قبل اييلتق لنقل

IamLEGEND1:
Totally serious question: who knows how much they dem dey sell one tin of sardines. I wan send one boy but he's not very trustworthy.

DonEd:
Why don't we consider sacrifice instead of selfishness? Do u love him? Does he cherish u? You saw someone that u have hoped for and u are gonna let him go simply because u are in medical school? Just wondering, can't a married girl continue her studies in medical school? It's just a matter of understanding between u two.

I don't agree that the man is desperate, every man has a drawn out plan for his life and intending family, don't blame him if ur schedule doesn't fit in his. You didn't even mentioned both ur age.

On ur own part, u are worried marriage life is gonna disrupt ur studies. U guys should find a way to reach out halfway

Trust me, finding ur soul mate isn't as easy as finding ur shoe size in Walmart, its gonna take another season.

My two Naira though.

SuperSuave:
Biafraqueen, is your name Quineth?

MensCabal:


It's a turn off for desperate men. But for true men it;s not

Biafraqueen:
Hi guys,

I started dating a guy I really liked when i was on a waitlist for admission to study medicine . I got off the waitlist and decided to go to med school. He broke up with me because he didn't see the long term potential in us anymore .

He also raised questions of when I would be able to have kids and settle down (he wants to have kids before I turn 30 - ).

I am now terrified that I won't be able to find anybody because of my situation. This guy was so much of what I was looking for in a person and it hurts to lose him.....
Being a female medical student ,is it a turn off
Because this time i experienced the notion.

Thanks.

DonEd:
Why don't we consider sacrifice instead of selfishness? Do u love him? Does he cherish u? You saw someone that u have hoped for and u are gonna let him go simply because u are in medical school? Just wondering, can't a married girl continue her studies in medical school? It's just a matter of understanding between u two.

I don't agree that the man is desperate, every man has a drawn out plan for his life and intending family, don't blame him if ur schedule doesn't fit in his. You didn't even mentioned both ur age.

On ur own part, u are worried marriage life is gonna disrupt ur studies. U guys should find a way to reach out halfway

Trust me, finding ur soul mate isn't as easy as finding ur shoe size in Walmart, its gonna take another season.

My two Naira though.

Myles23:

my dear am a medical student too so I know and understand u perfectly, if he can wait till after your part II MBBS exams that will register u for Pharm and path(400L), then he gets married to you. and u start bearing children after ur graduation. its fine. just talk to him.

NeeKlaus:

E don reach 250 now but Iya Salisu wey dey stay behind my house dey sell 245...
So, try collect change shaa...

Biafraqueen:
...I'm not all that interested in settling down or having kids, so it's not a big deal to me.

IamLEGEND1:
so what exactly was the point of this thread?

and what kind of medical school do you go to? I'd start medical today & I'll probably graduate before or in my early 30s.

jorion:


Sharap, you think building a career these days is like selling bottled water. I don't really know the couple well enough to pass judgements but telling a girl to put her career on hold when she has barely started is selfish.

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