my mother is dead she died 8 months ago

even if i achieve the world

what is the point when my mother is dead

i am traumatised at what illness i saw her pass through and then die

seeing my mother go from being my mother, to become crippled and disabled and in pain to eventually die

i have not been coping and have not left my house much including gone to school for a week and i am taking another week off

i cannot cope with seeing everyone, everyone is so happy how can i put on a happy front when really i just want 2 cry

This is trauma. You need help. I can help you out. You can take your life back and make it whatever you wish. The past is dead. Refuse to be a prisoner to it. Today is a new day.

I am a therapist. PM me.

Well, dats life fr u. Death will certainly knock on evry door its jst unfortunate dat ur mum had to go now n in the manner she did. My own story is even more patetic but l jst pretend to be laughing at times, can't even go to church cus can't withstand people singing n dancing. But we musnt die with our love ones, cus our own day and time is coming so we should strife to be happy while we still can. Accept my condolence, pls

are your parents alive?

Sunnymatey:
Well, dats life fr u. Death will certainly knock on evry door its jst unfortunate dat ur mum had to go now n in the manner she did. My own story is even more patetic but l jst pretend to be laughing at times, can't even go to church cus can't withstand people singing n dancing. But we musnt die with our love ones, cus our own day and time is coming so we should strife to be happy while we still can. Accept my condolence, pls

Quite unfortunate i must say, but you'll pull thru faster dan you think. 8 months already gone you said? see! you can survive way longer dan that without her. once again, it's quite unfortunate, and sorry for ur loss

I'm sorry about your loss, but dying will not bring your dear mother back. It brings tears to my eyes hearing this and is a constant reminder to me that I'm extremely grateful that my mom is around.

Your mother would not want you to die. She would want you to succeed and to do well for her. You will see her again someday Insha'Allah. But don't give up on life. You never know what is in store for you.

God bless you.

I believe there's a lot more to live for despite the traumatic experience, you just have to be strong and try to achieve what your mum wanted you to achieve while she was alive.
Death is a cup we all must drink from it's just a question of when. Bearing this in mind you should read books and talk with those who can be of help to you like family and friends, psychologist etc.