This is how it feels to beg for love.
You make all the effort to get their attention. You always find time for them, but they do not do the same for you. You text them first and you wait for a reply forever. You flood them with messages on social media. They have noticed your message but they will not open it. Once they opened your message, it only says “seen”.
You always make it a point to look good for them. You make it a habit to be on point to be noticed by them. You swallow your pride. You swallow your ego. You do the first move even if you appear desperate, but you are okay with it. You are okay with being treated mediocrely. You are okay with them hurting you. You cared so much but it is not reciprocated.
Aren’t you tired of always doing things first for them? Aren’t you tired of doing your best for someone who will not keep you? You are so much better than just someone who begs for love and attention. Please spare some love and respect for yourself. I hope you will realise that it is not damn worth it. You deserve so much better! ✋���

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maybe na girls de beg for love..I never see where a Nigga does that

d tin they pain them

marisdgreat:
This is how it feels to beg for love.
You make all the effort to get their attention. You always find time for them, but they do not do the same for you. You text them first and you wait for a reply forever. You flood them with messages on social media. They have noticed your message but they will not open it. Once they opened your message, it only says “seen”.
You always make it a point to look good for them. You make it a habit to be on point to be noticed by them. You swallow your pride. You swallow your ego. You do the first move even if you appear desperate, but you are okay with it. You are okay with being treated mediocrely. You are okay with them hurting you. You cared so much but it is not reciprocated.
Aren’t you tired of always doing things first for them? Aren’t you tired of doing your best for someone who will not keep you? You are so much better than just someone who begs for love and attention. Please spare some love and respect for yourself. I hope you will realise that it is not damn worth it. You deserve so much better! ✋���

Why do I have the feeling that you are writing this epistle to ya self

Pubichairs:
maybe na girls de beg for love..I never see where a Nigga does that

Bro some niggas are very weak. I don see many

Well marisdgreat is right.. Anyone that doesn't see you should just go to hell....

Preach it... Word...

Proceed...

Stycon:


Why do I have the feeling that you are writing this epistle to ya self

not to myself alone but many people are victim of this.

efesodje:

Bro some niggas are very weak. I don see many

I once did that, I understand how it feel

Hmmm.

Pubichairs:
maybe na girls de beg for love..I never see where a Nigga does that

I once did wjen i was in 200l. The babe fine no be small, she chop my money then. Money wey them dey give me from home, only for her to tell me she no dey do again. E for no pain me had it been i chop her. That evening, i looked up and said to myself, i will become a bad guy. Now, they call be scum, telling me how unfaithful i am, but i do not care.

Must feel demeaning, love is supposed to come naturally. What you'll get in return is probably pity

Strikethem:
I once did wjen i was in 200l. The babe fine no be small, she chop my money then. Money wey be them dey give me for school, only for her to tell me she no dey do again. E for no pain me had it been i chop her. That evening, i looked up and said to myself, i will become a bad guy. Now, the call be scum, telling me how unfaithful i am, but i do not care.

to be Mr nice guy..girls no go send u..na bad guys them de fall for

Pubichairs:
to be Mr nice guy..girls no go send u..na bad guys them de fall for

I dey tell you, Na after that i realised it.

marisdgreat:

not to myself alone but many people are victim of this.

Cool.

But unfortunately, there is nothing little that this letter's gonna achieve.

It's psychological and it's intentional. It's a mind game...once you're caught in the Web, you need more than an epistle to let go!

bodyonchecheche:
Must feel demeaning, love is supposed to come naturally. What you'll get in return is probably pity

True that. There is this Yoruba chick I've been obsessed with( I tell her I love her tho, but she's not buying it) since last year. I'm not the type to loose my ego over this love shi so I try not to overly invest in her until she gives me a reason to push on. She says I'm complicated (I'm really, I 'think' I'm seriously "in love" with about three chicks right now - an ex, then 2 gfs), besides she has a SO, serious relationship tins, says she can't cheat - won't even make me a side nigga (yeah, I wanted her that bad). I told her if dats the case, then I wanted nothing to do with her ass, this was last year. Says she likes me as a friend but Im not cut out for that friendzone or orbiter nonsense. I'm like girl how can you not f*cking love me? chicks dig me! Fast forward to last week, saw her again for the first time in months, those obsessive feelings she gives me came rushing back. We back talking now but nothing's changed. Really need to get her off my mind. I think I can get her down throwing around some few gees but my idea of her won't let me conquer her dat way.


its my first time letting out my emotions/thoughts on here. All y'all better give me tips.

Begging for love is the worst thing that can happen to someone.

CorGier:


True that. There is this Yoruba chick I've been obsessed with( I tell her I love her tho, but she's not buying it) since last year. I'm not the type to loose my ego over this love shi so I try not to overly invest in her until she gives me a reason to push on. She says I'm complicated (I'm really, I 'think' I'm seriously "in love" with about three chicks right now - an ex, then 2 gfs), besides she has a SO, serious relationship tins, says she can't cheat - won't even make me a side nigga (yeah, I wanted her that bad). I told her if dats the case, then I wanted nothing to do with her ass, this was last year. Says she likes me as a friend but Im not cut out for that friendzone or orbiter nonsense. I'm like girl how can you not f*cking love me? chicks dig me! Fast forward to last week, saw her again for the first time in months, those obsessive feelings she gives me came rushing back. We back talking now but nothing's changed. Really need to get her off my mind. I think I can get her down throwing around some few gees but my idea of her won't let me conquer her dat way.


its my first time letting out my emotions/thoughts on here. All y'all better give me tips.

Dude, women are complicated beings. Most of them don't even know why they do what they do. You mess up yourself trying to make them dig you. Secret is don't chase women. The right ones somehow find their way to your world. Besides, you're just curious. Believe me once she says yes and you guys start bursting nuts, that fire inside you will suffer from diminishing returns. No woman is worth begging for mate. It's just your mind playing the trick.

kaybams1:


Dude, women are complicated beings. Most of them don't even know why they do what they do. You mess up yourself trying to make them dig you. Secret is don't chase women. The right ones somehow find their way to your world. Besides, you're just curious. Believe me once she says yes and you guys start bursting nuts, that fire inside you will suffer from diminishing returns. No woman is worth begging for mate. It's just your mind playing the trick.

Abi.
No girl has ever stressed me as this lass brah. She's just a wall, I can't get through to her. F*ck me.

CorGier:


True that. There is this Yoruba chick I've been obsessed with( I tell her I love her tho, but she's not buying it) since last year. I'm not the type to loose my ego over this love shi so I try not to overly invest in her until she gives me a reason to push on. She says I'm complicated (I'm really, I 'think' I'm seriously "in love" with about three chicks right now - an ex, then 2 gfs), besides she has a SO, serious relationship tins, says she can't cheat - won't even make me a side nigga (yeah, I wanted her that bad). I told her if dats the case, then I wanted nothing to do with her ass, this was last year. Says she likes me as a friend but Im not cut out for that friendzone or orbiter nonsense. I'm like girl how can you not f*cking love me? chicks dig me! Fast forward to last week, saw her again for the first time in months, those obsessive feelings she gives me came rushing back. We back talking now but nothing's changed. Really need to get her off my mind. I think I can get her down throwing around some few gees but my idea of her won't let me conquer her dat way.


its my first time letting out my emotions/thoughts on here. All y'all better give me tips.

God bless that lady! So, there are still decent ladies among us?

Hmmmm.. I have been a victim of begging someone for love and attention. Infact, i swallowed my pride just to feel wanted. It is something i never wish to experience in my life.

AryEmber:
God bless that lady! So, there are still decent ladies among us?

lol. But I really feel like she would be good for me, you know?
She makes me feel like I never really learnt how to woo a lady. Everything I've known to work on ladies fails with her. She sees right through me and its so frustrating..

CorGier:

lol. But I really feel like she would be good for me, you know?
She makes me feel like I never really learnt how to woo a lady. Everything I've known to work on ladies fails with her. She sees right through me and its so frustrating..

Hahaha, sowwie..

marisdgreat:
This is how it feels to beg for love.
You make all the effort to get their attention. You always find time for them, but they do not do the same for you. You text them first and you wait for a reply forever. You flood them with messages on social media. They have noticed your message but they will not open it. Once they opened your message, it only says “seen”.
You always make it a point to look good for them. You make it a habit to be on point to be noticed by them. You swallow your pride. You swallow your ego. You do the first move even if you appear desperate, but you are okay with it. You are okay with being treated mediocrely. You are okay with them hurting you. You cared so much but it is not reciprocated.
Aren’t you tired of always doing things first for them? Aren’t you tired of doing your best for someone who will not keep you? You are so much better than just someone who begs for love and attention. Please spare some love and respect for yourself. I hope you will realise that it is not damn worth it. You deserve so much better! ✋���

Spot on

CorGier:


True that. There is this Yoruba chick I've been obsessed with( I tell her I love her tho, but she's not buying it) since last year. I'm not the type to loose my ego over this love shi so I try not to overly invest in her until she gives me a reason to push on. She says I'm complicated (I'm really, I 'think' I'm seriously "in love" with about three chicks right now - an ex, then 2 gfs), besides she has a SO, serious relationship tins, says she can't cheat - won't even make me a side nigga (yeah, I wanted her that bad). I told her if dats the case, then I wanted nothing to do with her ass, this was last year. Says she likes me as a friend but Im not cut out for that friendzone or orbiter nonsense. I'm like girl how can you not f*cking love me? chicks dig me! Fast forward to last week, saw her again for the first time in months, those obsessive feelings she gives me came rushing back. We back talking now but nothing's changed. Really need to get her off my mind. I think I can get her down throwing around some few gees but my idea of her won't let me conquer her dat way.


its my first time letting out my emotions/thoughts on here. All y'all better give me tips.

Lol mtcheww

bodyonchecheche:

Lol mtcheww

lol, seriously?
that's all u gon give me..

marisdgreat:
This is how it feels to beg for love.
You make all the effort to get their attention. You always find time for them, but they do not do the same for you. You text them first and you wait for a reply forever. You flood them with messages on social media. They have noticed your message but they will not open it. Once they opened your message, it only says “seen”.
You always make it a point to look good for them. You make it a habit to be on point to be noticed by them. You swallow your pride. You swallow your ego. You do the first move even if you appear desperate, but you are okay with it. You are okay with being treated mediocrely. You are okay with them hurting you. You cared so much but it is not reciprocated.
Aren’t you tired of always doing things first for them? Aren’t you tired of doing your best for someone who will not keep you? You are so much better than just someone who begs for love and attention. Please spare some love and respect for yourself. I hope you will realise that it is not damn worth it. You deserve so much better! ✋���

Such a person is struggling so hard to get sm1 to love them forgetting he or she is nomore him/herself but a dummy under a love spell put on urself my you lol. Its a pathetic place to be. We all have feelings bt...

I will rather be myself and be hated lol (tho I don't think im dat bad being myself bt just saying) than sucking up everytime to sm1... The person might even like ur worst behavior than ur best behavior. Just ask Drake.. Lol

Its best to be urself and improve urself if necessary bt because of u and ur happiness not cos of a love interest cos u do urself no good doing dat.

We all know it's bad being desperate or beg to be loved. However, It's either way. People will continue to beg to be wanted; especially those who command very little or no attention at all from d opposite sex. The people in this category are ugly ones, broke ones, non talented ones, timid ones, etc.

Hardly can u see an attractive, rich & talented guy beg to be noticed. Even, dey run for too much of attention sef.

eniorisha:
We all know it's bad being desperate or beg to be loved. However, It's either way. People will continue to beg to be wanted; especially those who command very little or no attention at all from d opposite sex. The people in this category are ugly ones, broke ones, non talented ones, timid ones, etc.

Hardly can u see an attractive, rich & talented guy beg to be noticed. Even, dey run for too much of attention sef.

True that's why you should work on yourself first. The more you achieve as a man the more confident you become.