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Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Jogunomi1: 10:48pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Can God ask me to marry someone I don't find physically attractive? She is of very good character, gentle, well suited for my career, but I don't find her sexy. I have a dream in which someone like her was described for as a good wife. Without hitting on her, she is now after me, throwing green light almost everyday. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by gabinogem(m): 10:51pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Yeah |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 10:51pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
The Lord works in mysterious ways The eyes of man can never be compared to what God sees It’s recognizing that God has plans for you and he wants what’s best for you 1 Like |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Jogunomi1: 10:57pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
sirusX: I like everything about her apart the fact that she's not that sexy and not young. I'm older than her though. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
jamb question |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by ibkayee(f): 10:59pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Lol this is actually a good question |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Jogunomi1:u already having misgivings.if u go ahead and marry her u might cheat on her |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
ibkayee:d question get as e be |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by ibkayee(f): 11:03pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
lefulefu: 1 Like |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by iambibi(f): 11:04pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Lol |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by dollyjoy(f): 11:06pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Op,who is God? Have you seen him before? Have he spoken to you before? How can he possibly ask you to marry someone you don't like or find appealing? It beats my imagination. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
pray bro |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by dollyjoy(f): 11:07pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
sirusX:I'm interested in how God asked him to marry someone he is not completely attracted to.. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Obinovictor(m): 11:07pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Jogunomi1: There is a huge possibility that you'll cheat on her if you marry her. But what do you consider as priority in your dream woman? |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 11:12pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Jogunomi1:What intrigues you about her...what attracted you to her in the first place. This really counts When it comes to relationship....truly one would say physical appeal and attraction matters That’s one of the many reasons some men cheat in relationships...when they find someone with a physique they admire |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Jogunomi1: 11:12pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Obinovictor: I want her to be sexy like those indian actresses, a fiery Bible scholar, trustworthy. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Obinovictor(m): 11:16pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Jogunomi1: If you don't find her sexy enough, go find another person. Don't become that husband that will have numerous mistresses outside because he feels his wife is not pretty enough |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Peachess(f): 11:23pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
God don't ask you to marry anyone, He has given you wisdom to be able to know the right person 1 Like |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 11:24pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
dollyjoy:The beauty of a person goes beyond the physical It’s in the heart...and how the person makes you feel It’s in the smile...and knowing you are the reason for that smile I could go on and on....but one needs to recognize that our imperfections define us and makes us who we are Marriage goes beyond physical attraction...cz one day beauty fades and what remains is who you fell in love with |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by rawpadgin(m): 11:52pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
This one one problem with young people nowadays. & that is why relationship/marriage don't last anymore Physical endowment shouldn't even in ur top 5 criteria for picking a wife |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Alariiwo: 11:56pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Sexual compatibility is a strong criteria for marriage else you'll end up sleeping around cos you won't fancy her after marriage. On a second thought, she might be the one for you.. Who knows? My own advice is.. Don't start what you won't finish. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Macgreat(m): 12:24am On Jan 29, 2018 |
God does not tell you who to marry. There's difference between GUT and GOD. Green Light is like sport to women. It is possible she is testing you. Honestly, marry someone that you are comfortable with, someone you have peace with, someone who will not fight you at every chance she got. You don't truly know someone until you are very close. You saw her in your dream does not make her your idea woman. You got to know what you want in a woman, and attraction should be at the top 5 on the list. Don't marry a Sister, Marry a Friend!.. Someone you can spend all day with and still wanna do some private soft. Marriage is not all about sex and touching but you can't take it out of it. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Macgreat(m): 12:38am On Jan 29, 2018 |
sirusX: If you are the reason for someone's smile, you are in a big mess. Someone should be able to be happy with or without you. If your own existence can not put smile on your face then you are out to frustrate other people. That's way too much responsible. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 1:12am On Jan 29, 2018 |
rawpadgin:we all have our specs when we want to choose a partner and apart from that,the way the lady smiles at u or holds her head might get u attracted to her.lets not deceive ourselves here. If u happen to get married to a woman u don't find attractive just because a pastor told u that God choosed her for u then u will into the temptation of cheating on her.by the way how will a man be able to have sex with his wife that he feels no attraction for and has no feelings for her. Abi dem no go do za oza room? . |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 1:17am On Jan 29, 2018 |
sirusX:all this one na grammar. Lets say for example u love slim babes and the pastor in ur church recommended u to one fat ugly girl with bowlegs as this lady God choose for u. Now since ur spec is slim babes then how will u be able to do the stuff in za oza room?.abi na bible una go dey read throughout the night? . |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 2:03pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
lefulefu:Lol ...I get you Anywayz, I was never a fan of “my pastor says” |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by sirusX(m): 2:06pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
Macgreat:Hey...what do I know?? There’s a lot involved in marriage, and there ain’t no laid down rules for a successful marriage that works for all Just find what best works for you as an individual and commit all to God |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by mastermaestro(m): 2:59pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
GOD only recommends but the final decision is yours. However, turning down His choice comes with grave regrets. The last thing GOD looks at when recommending anyone for you is physical appearance. The most beautiful souls and destinies are not always very elegant in physical appearance. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by mastermaestro(m): 3:02pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
rawpadgin: You are very correct. Most people are chasing physical beauties instead of people with clear purpose, beautiful souls and wonderful destinies. It's a sad situation. |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
From experience, if you don't have feelings for her? My brother no need marrying her. Or else later on you will cheat on her ,and it's either you seek for divorce with kids involved or one lives a miserable and double life afterwards. This is not about physical endowment but feelings and endearment which one can't explain. Feelings of the heart, one cannot explain why. One simply loves whom the heart ticks for. That's the way it is. 1 Like |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
lefulefu: Abi o! Lefulefu. How can one marry opposite of what he desires and like. And how does he even know it's God's will for him to marry a woman he had no feelings for? Even if my Pastor tells me a short Slim man is my husband, I will question it and pray about it. If my feelings still does not change towards the man? If I still detest his hands around me, then Pastor sorry, this can't work. God knows me, he created me and know what will make me happy. He can't be so cruel to make me unhappy all the rest of my life? |
Re: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
mastermaestro: But seriously, is it only ugly people that have clear purpose, beautiful souls and wonderful destinies? While beautiful and good looking people have unclear purpose, ugly terrible souls and bad destinies, abi? I wonder how some people reason. Make una fear God. To be a good wife or good husband material is not boiled down to looks It's an individual thing. People should stop judging good looking people unfairly, it's very bad and a sin before God. If you are ugly, that does not mean u should castigate beautiful and lovely women it's wrong. I call it jealousy in the highest order. |
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