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What Would You Do If You Were Him? by girlinnaija: 8:36am On Jan 31, 2018 |
As seen on Twitter. My friend is devastated right now & totally confused.He gave me permission to post his story. He caught his fiancee with his best man. (best friend) They’ve been dating for over 5yrs & got engaged last year and the wedding is suppose to happen in 3weeks. He love this babe so much, he’s done stuff for her, he treated her like a Queen and respect her.. most times wen she comes around to his place. His friends are around after work.. He introduced her to one of them who is his best friend years ago and not best man but I guess they went behind his back and took the introduction to another level.. although he said he was suspecting the closeness. But he thought he was just paranoid and didn’t think a thing like that could happen between them..cos he trust both of them.. but for years they’ve been doing stuff behind his back..They all hang out, eat together and gist but nothing prepared him for this. He traveled few days ago and was suppose to come back Thursday..but 4 days ago, another friend called him to inform him that something is not right with his bride to be and his best man that he is only telling him cos he feels it’s d right thing to do. My friend thought dis guy who told him stuff was just one of those bad Belle people who don’t want u to settle down..he kept thinking about it but didn’t tell anyone.So yesterday he decided to leave Abuja for Lagos but didn’t tell anyone he had changed his plan. He cancelled his travel from Thursday and moved it to yesterday..he arrived Lagos and went home straight but in mind he was praying that everything he heard was not true..he got home (his fiancee stays with him) and used his key. He went straight to the bedroom and when he opened the door, he said he almost fainted.. everything was true.. she was in bed with his best man and he said he didn’t know what to do but that if he had reacted,he would have attacked his friend because he betrayed him. So he said he just turned back and closed the door and left the house for them .. he went to his mom’s house but don’t know what and how to tell her what he saw .. How do u tell u mom u saw ur bride to be in bed with your best man 3weeks to ur wedding? Everything is done and ready .. invitation cards sent out, hall booked.. and the funniest thing she’s been calling and texting that it’s a mistake and she’s sorry but he should not cancel the wedding cause people will shame her and insult her She even got her mom to call him to talk to him but she didn’t tell her mom d reason y he’s angry with her, she just told her mom that they had a fight and he’s not talking to her.. my friend said he doesn’t know how and if to tell his fiancee’s mom what he saw. He’s confused and doesn’t know what to do, if to cancel d wedding or tell his mom or his fiancee’s mom what really happened but according to him he can’t trust her again or his best man and can’t have d wedding with her and he has told her already But how will he tell his family and her family about his decision to cancel the wedding..visitors coming for d wedding, how will he inform them.. he needs to know the right way to handle this situation. Via Jenniieey www.girlinnaija. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Were Him? by meneski(m): 8:51am On Jan 31, 2018 |
I can't marry for marriage sake! Never! 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do If You Were Him? by Skepticus: 8:53am On Jan 31, 2018 |
Don't take a hoe for a wife. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Were Him? by Nobody: 8:53am On Jan 31, 2018 |
Of course d next step is obvious...cancel d wedding. But if he was that expectant, he should have prepared his phone for a capture of both of dem. So instead of talking when ppl ask him why he cancelled d wedding, he'll just show them d pic. Simple! |
Re: What Would You Do If You Were Him? by Daniel2289(m): 9:23am On Jan 31, 2018 |
Marriage end for me.
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Re: What Would You Do If You Were Him? by FIJOD(m): 9:31am On Jan 31, 2018 |
The right thing to do is that let all party involved in the marriage know what had happened and why the marriage will not hold. Also please do not marry for pity... |
Re: What Would You Do If You Were Him? by Ilekokonit: 12:23am On Feb 01, 2018 |
girlinnaija: There is no right way, there is only one way to handle the situation and he knows it. Call off the damn wedding and stop cohabiting with her to avoid changing his mind or being trapped with an emergency pregnancy. He should cut off his disloyal friend as well. The eye that will last you till old age will not start getting sticky in your youth. 1 Like |
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