Dating a feminist might sound like a good thing if you are looking for a financially dependent lady who is outspoken. Oprah Winfrey actually made feminism sound like something great and Chimamanda Adichie who also called herself "a happy feminist" changing the normal believe that we guys have that most feminists are pained ladies.

But that shouldn't fool you, what people say on TV and social media does not actually reflect the kind of lives they live. They might make feminism sounds like a woman rights movement for the greater good but the character of many wannabe feminists are just nothing to write home about.

Here is are 4 Reasons Why We At MensCabal Believe Nigerian Men Should Never Date Feminists

1. They See Men As Opponents

A feminist will always see men as her opponent and is more likely to challenge you in anything she thinks she doesn't want. Feminists believe that men are always trying to compete with her and trying to bring her down just to glorify themselves. So they are more likely to mistake your good intentions as an infringement on their rights.

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2. Things Can Get Weird Socially And Culturally

Should you hold the door for her? who pays for the wedding? should you still pay bride price? should you pay for the date? These questions will keep coming up and your views will keep clashing. Face it, a feminist just wants to be equal to you which is not the normal norm and you might be wondering what you should do and not do.

According to African cultures a woman's place belongs in the kitchen (and other places), and it's completely okay for a woman to help out, but according to feminist it is also your job as the man to cook, clean, wash and do every other thing in the house while hustling because she is not a slave.

3.Feminists Are More Likely To Cheat

In the Western World, divorce is as normal as eating three times a day, you can get married today and divorce 2 hours later, it is normal and it has happened. A woman can get married up to four times in her life after dating more than 10 men, it is normal, it is accepted, they are feminists after all.

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Back in the African society, it is outrageous, divorce is a really terrible thing and the stigma that follow female divorcees cannot be over-emphasized which is why Africa had one of the lowest divorce rates until feminists came alone.

A feminist believes that it is her right to be happy and she is would easily walk out of her marriage or cheat whenever she feels she is not getting what she dreamed of. According to them, if men are allowed to do it why not them?

4. She Will Always Challenge You

Yes, she will likely challenge everything you say. And if any of your decisions make her feel like you are trying to control her or even tell her what's right, she will likely walk out of the relationship.

Source: http://www.menscabal.com/2018/01/4-reasons-why-nigerian-men-should-never.html

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Lol

i cannot comman kill myself.

The emphasis on the female gender is too blown.

great post,i'll definitely be following this site

Seriously. That's how I innocently responded to a post (without any ill-intentions) then these she-voltrons (defenders of the she-universe) just started coming from nowhere and attacking me . I tire

I will date and marry a feminist because I want the best for my daughters.

Fela use am sing.. If you see an African woman call her woman, she no go gree.
She go say "I be lady o"

Wetin be lady? Lady na master.
Feminists or whatever they call themselves are jokers. They will always be under men.

...Feminist are already in self-distruct mode.

What they teach themselves will kill the movent. So me I have start encouraging them allow their foolish path since they have refuse to listen to wise counsel.

NB: You can have two pilot trying to Navigate without cooperation and understanding.

Jman06:
I will date and marry a feminist because I want the best for my daughters.

No body go tell you. Experience will teach you

amokeme:
The emphasis on the female gender is too blown.

dont lie.
we did talk about sex dolls a few weeks back and you freaked out going crazy for being ignored

Jman06:
I will date and marry a feminist because I want the best for my daughters.

You are a wise man.

Proudly feminist.Thank God the OP said Nigerian men.

Alariiwo:
Fela use am sing.. If you see an African woman call her woman, she no go gree.
She go say "I be lady o"

Wetin be lady? Lady na master.
Feminists or whatever they call themselves are jokers. They will always be under men.

really

theophorus:
...Feminist are already in self-distruct mode.

What they teach themselves will kill the movent. So me I have start encouraging them allow their foolish path since they have refuse to listen to wise counsel.

NB: You can have two pilot trying to Navigate without cooperation and understanding.

They didn't beg you to give them a counsel and feminism is going nowhere if it was going to self destruct it would have years ago.

sekxyqueen:

really

My igbo beauty. Hope you ain't feminist o.
Don't let them confuse you dear. You're a woman, a pretty one.
*winks

Alariiwo:
Fela use am sing.. If you see an African woman call her woman, she no go gree.
She go say "I be lady o"

Wetin be lady? Lady na master.
Feminists or whatever they call themselves are jokers. They will always be under men.

See this otondo deceiving himself.If it was a joke we would not be where we are today.

Ladyhippolyta88:
They didn't beg you to give them a counsel and feminism is going nowhere if it was going to self destruct it would have years ago.

Ladyhippolyta88:
See this otondo deceiving himself.If it was a joke we would not be where we are today.

Where are you now o jare

You don't want to cook, do laundry.. what else?
Maybe you'll leave the sex part for sex dolls too.
Feminists my foot.

Alariiwo:


My igbo beauty. Hope you ain't feminist o. Don't let them confuse you dear. You're a woman, a pretty one. *winks

I'm not.
what's your fear about feminist?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Proudly feminist.Thank God the OP said Nigerian men.

You are not a feminist.

Do you even know what "Feminism" means?


Can't stop laughing

efesodje:

Seriously. That's how I innocently responded to a post (without any ill-intentions) then these she-voltrons (defenders of the she-universe) just started coming from nowhere and attacking me . I tire

she voltrons..defenders of the she- universe...iyam dead

sekxyqueen:

I'm not.

what's your fear about feminist?

Feminists are asking for too much..

They want to have equal rights but don't want equal responsibilities as men.
It's not easy being a man and it gives us that ego and pride taking care of our women.

#No hard feelings really.. I just feel it's a joke taken too far.

donstan18:


You are not a feminist.

Do you even know what "Feminism" means?


Can't stop laughing

You are not in my life so you can't decide for me or tell me what I am by the way you can continue laughing.

Alariiwo:


Feminists are asking for too much..

They want to have equal rights but don't want equal responsibilities as men.
It's not easy being a man and it gives us that ego and pride taking care of our women.

#No hard feelings really.. I just feel it's a joke taken too far.

lool,,

that's btw,how you

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are not in my life so you can't decide for me or tell me what I am by the way you can continue laughing.

wanna have a profound knowledge about this feminist of a thing..

as a feminist, what can you offer to the society..

?

sekxyqueen:

dem no go kill person with laugh i swear

sekxyqueen:

lool,,

that's btw,how you

I'm sweet as ever.
And you?

lefulefu:
dem no go kill person with laugh i swear

lol..really,nl is full of comedians

Alariiwo:

I'm sweet as ever. And you?

I'm alright.
stay cool...

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are not in my life so you can't decide for me or tell me what I am by the way you can continue laughing.

Na so

Awon Nairaland strugglers funny set of people be forming feminist when they lack the idea of what the word "Feminism" is all about

Still laughing hard

You ladies will not kill me