Oxster:



Is not a spiritual problem,,4m Experience

In less than 3weeks I slept with 8 prostitute,,,Not untill I had a girlfriend who is a prostitute,,,I only see her,,tho @ men's I see anoda

B4 she left prostituting business,she asked me 4 a favour,,Guess what....This gal begged me never to go to brothel again(it also sound as a warning,,since den,no Mata how Hot I feel,,either I have sex with a gal or I PRAY TO GOD 4 WETDREAMS)

IS not too late to stop,,,Stop by Counting Days and Weeks#

This is my 5 months

Anyway,,,Olosho sweet I no go lie#watching Porn with them was BAE then!!

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Hmmmmmmm, 5 months Are you serious about this Hard to believe though, how did u managed to do it sir, please i really needs to know please.

I won't condemn you. Most addictions are learnt at the dawn of youth years. You picked up a very bad habit that has entrapped you without mercy. Hey bro, you were deflowered by a marine demon-possessed prostitute. The demon now lives inside of you. You cannot break free by any human efforts. Only a supernatural intervention will be able to destroy its grip on you!

No kindergarten should quote me senselessly on this matter. Op, just look for a spiritually sound pastor to help you intercede through prayers. Try all you can, you cannot break free by yourself! You are dealing with a resident sex demon.

Oxster:
Also stop watching porn and get yourself busy

My last porn was also last 5months

Lol,anytime I wanna watch it,,I feel disgusting and rem how mny months I have been counting!

All Thanks To Happiness,She delivered ME

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Wow am surprised, 5 months is really a great achievement no doubt, how u managed to do it still beats my imagination up till this moment.

Atk1nson:
@amfinishedhelp, never say that to yourself bro, you'll fight it till you win.

I suggest you deal with factors that may promote such:

1. Completely avoid that location for any reason, take other routes to your destination. In this case out of sight could be out of mind

2. Bank you cash and don't keep an ATM

3. Avoid friends that encourage such habit

4. Consider being in a relationship and possibly settling down soonest. Once you get addicted to sex its very difficult to stop

5. Seek conselling.

6. Always remember you are playing with HIV and other dangerous STDs. There was a guy on NL too who kept boasting of his brothel exploits, till one day he asked for advice on an unexplained illness which was later confirm to be HIS.

7, pray

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Thank you very much sir, this is really helpful, mostly the part u talked about not keeping an atm, that might probably help alot, thank u very much.

sisisioge:
Oh dear! I sincerely sympathize with you. What you need is a new resolve, this time try to get help. You could start a platonic relationship with a sweet girl that would take your mind off sex but loving. Aids is real...your cousin sent in his write up last year too after treading same path as you. He wasn't lucky at all...need I say more? Whew! Too much fuss about sex .. It is just sex o.

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Tnk u very much for, i appreciate this
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Lalasticlala please help me push this to the front page to get more reviews, thanks.

You need to check your HIV status ASAP

find yourself a girlfriend. even if the one you love don't give you green light still still beg her so you can achieve your dream. if you have someone in mind that you gonna call, talk with and gist with definitely you won't go brothel again. or just watch porn during their period, trust me sex gonna pix you off

amfinishedhelp:

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Tnk u very much sir, sir like how many days fasting and where is the mountain located? Is it total dry fasting??

Op, contact the pastors of all those small churches around your area. Just tell them to refer you to a prayer mountain. Be careful about sharing ur problem with them Tho, b4 they make you a permanent member.

You can break after the setting of the sun. I recommend 7 days fast in top of the mount. You can come down to break and buy stuffs or package them b4 leaving. Make sure you take time to plan this trip. If you work, then a Friday evening - Sunday evening will do so as to not miss work. Also don't eat anything fancy, just light food and/or fruits.

Prayers
God should break the yoke of addiction to prostitutes
God should restore all you have lost
God should make you a brand new man.


Make sure you pray with all seriousness. Avoid internet through out. Don't on data. Also don't start watching videos and pictures when you are bored. You can meditate on Bible verses b4 and after prayer.

Kudos to you bro, it take a strong will to type all this epistle. I feel your pain.
First and foremost, i want you to know that everyone has battled with one addiction or another. Like me, i was a chronic game addict and porn addict.
Thank God for all the beautiful well wishers i was/am amongst. So you are not alone.
Secondly, know that every reality began with a thought backed by faith and persistence. You have been unconsciously repeating to yourself consistently for many years that you have no control over it, so you mind believed it. Which shows in your moniker.
So the first part of solution lies with your thoughts.
It will be better if you to stop all the unconscious negative autosuggestion and take a lead on conciously constructed positive ones. Very sure with time you mind wil take it up. It is POSSIBLE.
something like
" i release the need to visit brothels
I am overcoming the need to be controlled by sex
I can achieve anything i set my mind on
I am the master of my destiny
I am getting over any sort of addiction by the day...etc.
You can construct more.....start with continuous tense then transit to affirmations. Make sure to write them down and read
Read it first thing in the morning and a moment before you go to bed at night .

Also, PRAYER...i mean fervently. You need it the most

Fasting...pray when you wanna break your fast

Avoid FRIENDS that do the same like abomination.
Mingle with righteous ones. This will go a long way

CHARITY...GIVE MORE and MORE and MORE alms to the needy... THAT'S a SHORTCUT

Help and satisfy your mum, make her happy and Make your Mom pray for you everyday...it works like MAGIC

Someone had advised you on money.. .heed.

On gynaecomasta...(abeg no comot my teeth ).
It is curable, seek medical assistant.

Why did you sentence yourself to prison....tomorrow wear no shirt to bathroom and bath at the normal time you used to bath before. People gossip the dead.
Set yourself free. Be brave, take the bold step.

About opposite sex.... You can get any girl you want bro, it all down to your confidence erase the thought that because of gynaecomasta you can get girls. You will find your missing rib. Carry yourself above high. Get out of your shell, stop finding excuses

Lastly... Follow the various advices given and HAVE FAITH! HAVE FAITH!! HAVE FAITH!!!. You need it, can't emphasize it enough.

From a muslim

anoda:


truly, but u don't need to go to a mountain, pray with faith! And watch things change

Seclusion is important for somethings to happen. If he stays at home, he may masturbate. I don't think it's possible to masturbate on a mountain during the day or night due to the weather conditions there

op i think your problem is psychological.
from what you've written ,you are an introvert and you come from a family with problems, coupled with your
gynaecomastia, you developed a very low self-esteem and feel unaccepted by everyone around you, i cant imagine how u feel, living with a junior brother you are afraid off..
the prostitues are like an escape for u, they won't judge you, wont look down on you, and they wont belittle you like you junior brother.
Op you can't overcome this on your own, you need help, if only you had someone u could trust a confidant, that'll look out for you and help you come down from the high you feel when the urge comes..

one thing I'll advise u too do is to start body building, it'll help with your gynaecomastia..

Op don't mind all those talking about one useless prayer, fasting or any mumu church. You don't need anybody at the moment except yourself, no one will save you except you. It is addiction, and you've just taken the first step to getting out of it by complaining/voicing it out.. It literally means your soul and spirit is now tired of it buh tour body is still in control.. Just give it time, you'd get there. You can get yourself a girlfriend or turn a player for fun in a bid to help controlling your flesh. As time goes by, sex will mean nothing to your flesh anymore cuz it'd have had its fill. And then try class yourself in the society, i think this will bring shame to your flesh anytime it's requesting for a prostitute again, the fear of being seen by people that respect you will help you shun any brothel around. So you don't need any prayer or any fasting or any pastor. All you need is you.

amfinishedhelp:

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Hmmmmmmm, 5 months Are you serious about this Hard to believe though, how did u managed to do it sir, please i really needs to know please.

Twas God grace and strength oh,,I can't even blv it also,,,Just after that my Olosho Gf warned me and left de business I also left,,,,I don't even try to go there b4 am tempted

amfinishedhelp:

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Wow am surprised, 5 months is really a great achievement no doubt, how u managed to do it still beats my imagination up till this moment.

Me too

No more porn,All you can see in my photo r things related to sex,,,Just 4 seduction of gals if de should com across it,Which I hardly watch but kip it there 4 som1

Bruh,,I won't lie to you,Porn don't help at all

Hm. This is a big shocker.

For those that are upcoming A.Q patronisers or you have it in mind to go there, learn from the OP today and know that just 1 night of pleasure can turn your life into a complete mess.

As the OP talked about 460. I was amazed. Sex is like a soul tie. Imagine your soul being tied to 460 persons.
Lets look at it this way.

OP's first contact was a prostitute who had probably slept with about 500 Men (depending on when she started her trade before OP met her). So OP was joined to 500 souls instantly. Lets say Olosho number 2 has soul ties with 300men. So lets add 500+300= 800

Then the List goes on and on SOtey Op reach 460 (lets assume he repeated the same prostitute 2 times) that would give an average of 230 women who each of them has an average soul tie of 100 Men/Women (each (which is more than 100, but lets use this figure not to scare you)

230×100= 23000.

OP you currently have nothing less than 23000+ demons. Let me be truthful. It would be very Hard to break. But here is good news.

If Jesus could cast out "Legion" from that Man in the bible, then he can do yours as well. The journey wont be easy i must tell you. The enemy would even make things difficult for you in order not to break loose. He would fight you but you must fight it to the end.

Dont mind those telling you not to go to church. Trust me, its the fastest route. Else you would keep going in circles and may not find life worth living.

I wish you well my dear. JESUS LOVES YOU

Acidosis:
You need to check your HIV status ASAP

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Lol, i did last 2 months it came back negative

adetoroamos:
find yourself a girlfriend. even if the one you love don't give you green light still still beg her so you can achieve your dream. if you have someone in mind that you gonna call, talk with and gist with definitely you won't go brothel again. or just watch porn during their period, trust me sex gonna pix you off

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Sometimes i will be with friends discussing and gisting, but i always finds a way of sneaking out and the next thing am at the brothel already, majority of the time of has happened is when am at the club drinking and dancing, i always sneaks out.

blessedvisky:

Op, contact the pastors of all those small churches around your area. Just tell them to refer you to a prayer mountain. Be careful about sharing ur problem with them Tho, b4 they make you a permanent member.

You can break after the setting of the sun. I recommend 7 days fast in top of the mount. You can come down to break and buy stuffs or package them b4 leaving. Make sure you take time to plan this trip. If you work, then a Friday evening - Sunday evening will do so as to not miss work. Also don't eat anything fancy, just light food and/or fruits.

Prayers
God should break the yoke of addiction to prostitutes
God should restore all you have lost
God should make you a brand new man.


Make sure you pray with all seriousness. Avoid internet through out. Don't on data. Also don't start watching videos and pictures when you are bored. You can meditate on Bible verses b4 and after prayer.

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Thank you very much sir, this might be really helpful... Thank you

SAMBARRY:
Oko asewo

Kanwulia's Asslicker,you are very st..pid! your Madam is back at the food section.

You troll him because you are perfect ,abi?

amfinishedhelp:

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Thank you very much sir, this might be really helpful... Thank you

You are not finished,you can ovrrcome it.

Dunno what to say but you are in my prayers,for the sake of your mum dont llook back.

Maychang:
Hm. This is a big shocker.

For those that are upcoming A.Q patronisers or you have it in mind to go there, learn from the OP today and know that just 1 night of pleasure can turn your life into a complete mess.

As the OP talked about 460. I was amazed. Sex is like a soul tie. Imagine your soul being tied to 460 persons.
Lets look at it this way.

OP's first contact was a prostitute who had probably slept with about 500 Men (depending on when she started her trade before OP met her). So OP was joined to 500 souls instantly. Lets say Olosho number 2 has soul ties with 300men. So lets add 500+300= 800

Then the List goes on and on SOtey Op reach 460 (lets assume he repeated the same prostitute 2 times) that would give an average of 230 women who each of them has an average soul tie of 100 Men/Women (each (which is more than 100, but lets use this figure not to scare you)

230×100= 23000.

OP you currently have nothing less than 23000+ demons. Let me be truthful. It would be very Hard to break. But here is good news.

If Jesus could cast out "Legion" from that Man in the bible, then he can do yours as well. The journey wont be easy i must tell you. The enemy would even make things difficult for you in order not to break loose. He would fight you but you must fight it to the end.

Dont mind those telling you not to go to church. Trust me, its the fastest route. Else you would keep going in circles and may not find life worth living.

I wish you well my dear. JESUS LOVES YOU

Religious people can be silly at times.
How do you know he has any demon not to talk of 23,000 demons?
Soul tie ko
So shirt ni.

LadySarah:


Kanwulia's Asslicker,you are very st..pid!
your Madam is back at the food section.


You troll him because you are perfect ,abi?

customer dada awon asewo


You don go do hiv test?

I can't wait to see the look on your face when you're tested positive to hiv and herpes


Ass licker awon asewo


Shey you don go your customer brothel this morning to do what you know how to do best


Oniranu oshi.onishekushe omo

Make sure you remember to collect your change per each round o


E pain AM

Btw so your real moniker is lady Sarah meanwhile you're hiding behind "YOU are finished".

You're really finished indeed

Guy, get tested for HIV first...... If you test negative, cram up your entire schedule, keep your body and mind extremely busy... Eat well, exercise daily.. Register in a Gym if you have to....
More importantly, stay away from porn.... Prostitutes are dirty people, on the average, they sleep with 4 men daily. Respect your body....

@op u dont need anybdy advice here. u're re ur own problem. it al depends on ur commitment nd descipline. i was once like u b4. d last time i visited d brothel was last yr september wen i got my august salary. after settling my debt d remaining money which i suppose used to follow up in september i took dat mony to d brothel i couldnt believe myself i just spend everytin in oneday. d money i'm suppose to used transport to work, buy small foodstuff to add 2 d one on ground, fill d already finished gas cylinder nd 4 my upkeep i just waste it like dat in one day. in dat month of september i saw hardship. i was accusing villa pple dey most had hand on my matter nt until i realized i'm d only one doing myself. frm dat day i made a vow i wil never use my hard earned money to patronized any prostitute. dis month feb making d 5th month i ve kept my promise. as i'm typing now i've 15k with me dat i witdrew 4r my acc. for feeding nd others. unlike b4 i dont think d money wil last days on my hand.

amfinishedhelp:
Hello my fellow nairalanders, i created a new moniker to hide my identity, i really don't know how to begin but i will try as much as possible to make everything clear
It all started on the 13th of February 2013, after i and a friend of mine was returning from a football center a match between Real Madrid and Manchester United, there is a brothel close to the matching hall, although i have been passing there most expecially when coming from church but i have never gotten the guts to branch to see how it looks like even though i really wanted to, so on this faithful day when coming from the match hall my friend decided to branch and asked him to follow him, which i did i was still a very strong virgin then and never had sex or masturbated before, i was 19 then but am 23 now, so he called one of the prostitutes and had sex with her i really wanted to also but i didn't have anything on me and it was very late because i had the intentions of getting home to collect money and go back again, but it was really very late already and they must have closed at that time before i could make it there so i decided to sleep and go the next day, that night i could not sleep, the sexual urge that gripped me was too much that i was trembling and can't really wait for day to break and gets dark again so i could go, note : i didn't ever knew that there was anything called masturbation then or that stroking ones genitals will give him/her pleasures, so the day eventually got darker and it was night already, i went to meet my friend and told him about my plans and told him to accompany me because i really thinks i won't be able to approach one or talk to her that i wants to have sex with her, so we got there and i pointed the one i likes and we went in, so she collected 5h from me and we had the sex, i didn't lasted 2 minutes before i ejaculated, i came out but couldn't find my friend then i knew he was in, so i waited for some minutes before he eventually came out, "that day was when my problems started" next day i went selected one and had sex with her, since early 2013 up till date i have been going...going...and going, since that day till this date not a single week have passed that i had not have sex, there is a note Facebook note i have been writing which is privacy is set as "only me" the number of sex i have had, as of last two years before i stopped writing was 244, no exaggeration and no subtraction i said this because many here won't believe what am saying or might probably thinks or making this up, all what am saying here is the truth and definitely 101% true "if am lying concerning anything i says here then let God take u my life, "let me sleep this night and not see the break light of tomorrow, let me not see 2019" i started going and going, most of the time i would have sex with two different prostitutes, i always do so because i lasts more on the second round, sometimes i will go twice on same girl, last year 2017 was when this thing really got worst because i was actually masturbating daily "every morning" when bating before going to work and would still come back in the evening and go to the brothel to have sex all this sex i have been having are all with different prostitutes except for some few which i had repeated sex with, sometimes i would have sex with 2 different prostitutes, and sometimes 3, i no longer sleep with just one prostitute any time i went it's always 2 or 3 different ones the highest scenario i have done so far in the four years i was visiting the brothel was a day i had sex with four different prostitutes and during my night browsing the urge came again and i masturbated, i felt so weak the and pains all over my body the next day that i could not go to work, i have become so thin and laggy that i don't have physical strength to fight or work because of the amount of sperms i waste daily, the highest day i have stayed without having sex in all this period of 4 years that i started was 11 days, i was able to stay long because of what happened between i and my younger brother whom i am older than with 4 years and a month but he is much bigger than me, although same height but he is far more thicker than me with much muscles, "he is always fund of abusing my mum and threatening her all the time, so this particular day i can't really recall what happened between him and my mum so my mum slapped him and he returned the slap to her and kicked her, i was still on the chair pressing my phone that day, immediately i saw this i rushed him, but before i knew it i saw my self on the ground with blows raining on my faces, he held me down with one hand, i could not move after a few minutes a papa, our next door neighbor came to the rescue, "since that day up till this moment as am typing this now, i have always been afraid to confront him whenever he abuses my mum or does anything wrong, sometimes when he is finding something and shouting on top of his voice my heart will be pounding so fast" probably because of fear i really can't explain. that was when i really knew i had to quit because i have become so weak with pains all over my body every single joints on my body is paining me, so after that scenario i was able to hold the urges for 11 days clear before it overpowered me and finally i broke my vow, this past Christmas watching night day i had sex with 3 different prostitutes and still went the next day which it Christmas day, a day after Christmas day and a day after that day, same thing i did on new year day after praying and crying that night not to ever and ever step do it again, that same night was the night i broke my promise, the total of prostitutes i have slept with is more that 460+ within a space of 4 years since i started, everytime i would vow never to go again but the next day i will be the first to get to the brothel with a strong feelings of sexual urges, i really don't know how to stop this, last week i went 5days of the 7days of the week, but this week after vowing not to do it again i have only gone twice and as am typing this now am trembling with a strong sexual urge right now i for sure know i will be going this night, i have written down all the negative impact it's having on me so that when the time comes i will be able to read in and not go anymore, but whenever the urges surfaces i won't dare be able to read them all that would be on my mind that moment is to go to the brothel and have sex, i have tried all i could to stop this and also to stop masturbating but i have not been able to succeed all this while, i really don't know what to do with my life anymore as it is affecting me physically and spiritually, since this year only once i have gone to church which is first Sunday, throughout last year also total number i went to church is was not more than 6times, please fellow nairalanders help me, isn't there something that could be done to stop this powerful sexual urges and thoughts from coming every now and then, i have been unable to save any money all this years, i could remember my mum begging me one day to give her 100# that she wants to eat suyabi refused because i have budgeted the money already to visit the brothel that evening, i ended up wasting 2,700 i was so full of rage, anger and regrets after reaching home but still next day i went again, sometimes i will use the last drop of money i had on me to go to the brothel and the next day i won't have any single thing to eat, i will be filled with so much hatred and regret for my self and vow never to go again, but before i knew it am there already. the amount of action bitters i have drank can fill a paint rubber, i always took action bitters all the time whenever am going so i could last long and not ejaculate quickly, i really needs to quit please i needs solutions, different solutions am ready to try any, please help me nairalanders. I can't really continue like this, there is actually none of the brothels in the city i lives that have not gone to. Please help me nairalanders.

Give ur life to Jesus and go for spiritual deliverance. This is beyond what mere efforts can handle. Only Jesus can

Wow this is deep. God help those with this addiction.

One thing will kill a man( 2) Locate Neither TB Joshua NOR pst MUOKA

amfinishedhelp:

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Sometimes i will be with friends discussing and gisting, but i always finds a way of sneaking out and the next thing am at the brothel already, majority of the time of has happened is when am at the club drinking and dancing, i always sneaks out.

OP pls try as much as possible to avoid those friends that lure you in to drinking and clubbing. Make friends that will draw you closer to God.In as much as you are HIV negative today, you might not be lucky enough tomorrow. you still have time to amend your ways. Good luck.

this is serious... please OP get yourself a sex doll

I PRAY YOU GET HELP VERY FAST .
THIS IS SERIOUSLY SERIOUS.

YOU HAVE to try as much as possible to make up your mind as much as you can to stop.
That is the first step.......

this life sha. you mean you have boobs and you are hiding it? if you know how most women hate flat chest eh?

apart from work, please look for other activities to get involved in, can you register somewhere to go swimming, here it's 1k per session. if you are registered, you can pay weekly or monthly, and please don't tell me about people seeing your boobs while swimming

egopersonified:
this life sha. you mean you have boobs and you are hiding it? if you know how most women hate flat chest eh?

apart from work, please look for other activities to get involved in, can you register somewhere to go swimming, here it's 1k per session. if you are registered, you can pay weekly or monthly, and please don't tell me about people seeing your boobs while swimming

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