YOUNGrapha:


and whom among them are you....the baby or the mammy?

mistel:
but wait o! our girls starts slaying from age 15, sleeps with assorted teachers n headmasters through secondary school, area boys get their full share, university empties the brezst, BBnaija takes its cut, Nysc frenzy fvcking bastardizes the kpekus more, Facebook/social media hoeing takes its toll....and so on, so at 35 or +, the unfortunate husband is actually buying tokunbo or better still, 'a vandalised pipeline.' (evening newspaper)

centboy123456:






lol see who is talking old slay queens for ur information this is africa and if u think marriage is not important get to 30 or 35 and let's see pls if u like marry no marry na ur problem be that not my old slay queens na people like or na when u reach 30 u run to church asking God to show u ur husband I know ur type old cargo ask all those ex slay queens they will tell u more if u like stay there u are getting old u need a man in ur life go go go and marry oh go and marry ur family want to see ur husband go and marry

akeentech:
I married my wife @ 22 and that is the best age for every sane girl to get married. If you marry 30+ girl after 5 years her beauty will begins fade away reason why we see so many cases of cheating nowadays. My take.

desreek9:



So you this guy your married and you're saying nonsense to me today abi, smellos

safarigirl:
Marrying a guy above 30 must be the same

Kennybix:
So I have been following this topic since yesterday.

I must say that guys should stop 'carrying this topic on top their head'.

I'm of the opinion that everyone is entitled to live his/her life. I guess that's one thing I like about westerners; they mind their businesses and don't poke nose into other people's affairs.

Also, I am attracted to only matured and career oriented ladies; they are less drama. I wouldn't even date a lady that's is still struggling with school. I think they should concentrate and not be disturbed.

It's a busy world, please let's get to work and stop shillyshallying about this topic.

LordKO:
Truly, academic excellence doesn't cure mental parochialism. The guy is an idiot.

It takes time - little advancement in age - for a lady (person) to achieve self-realization. And this is hardly achieved by many before the age of 30. Therefore, personally, the age a woman achieved self-realization should be her best moment to marry. A woman who's achieved self-realization will always remain a top pick for me, age is irrelevant. . . Yet the irrelevance of age in this regard doesn't invalidate the importance of rationality. There's always need to maintain balance.

Gamesmart:


Marry them at 65 then. That is top pick for you.

They would have self-realised completely by then, achieved everything career-wise and retired so they would have all the time in the world for you.

Deal?

braine:
Currently talking to a chic 5 years older. Very open and down to earth with good self esteem. Better than all the younger ones I ever dated. Plus, she's so pretty and got a great body for her age.

LordKO:


Direct your question to your lunatic mother and wretched father. Bumpkin.

Only bumpkins like you failed to understand the meaning of the accompanied statement therein: "yet the irrelevance of age in this regard doesn't invalidate rationality."

MISSCONGENIALITY:
but you yourself know that we have so many kids and some silly old ones here on nairaland who have refuse to leave their dream world where everything goes as planned and perfect too. You not need their pix or age, their cooments expose them all the time.

amakadihot87:
.............lol......u know na ......d mum

Gamesmart:


Why you dey vex after all the nonsense wey you talk na.

I understood: "Therefore, personally, the age a woman achieved self-realization should be her best moment to marry. A woman who's achieved self-realization will always remain a top pick for me, age is irrelevant."

So you dey talk like mugu abi?

LordKO:


You and your ilks always amused me. For instance an enlightened person knows that free will doesn't mean absence of decorum. Just as irrelevant of age as I stated therein doesn't make rationalism useless - a man that needs children from a female companion needn't be told that it'll be risky to consider a woman from say 50 years and above suitable for same purpose. This scenario like I presented herein doesn't equally make an unmarried woman of any age useless.

I really don't like to join issue with people but most of you can get on one's nerves with your conceited and parochial attitudes.

I wish you all the best. Peace out.

Gamesmart:


Bros, you no get sense o.

So you no know say women over 35 getting pregnant face high risk pregnancies that are more likely to result in birth defects, miscarriage, premature birth etc. and you still said the nonsense you said about age is irrelevant and self-actualisation of the woman is what should count?

Abeg, next time, speak sense instead of trying to shine in the eyes of NL women.

streamsofjoy:


So at age 22 when I'm struggling to go to medical school or law school I should go and Marry and dump school. And what if there are no reasonable men around? My dear, na girls wey no get too much ambition than being married and having kids na them be sane women be that o. Cos at the end of the day if the husband is not so financialy buoyant OYO is ur case.

LordKO:


Now you've automatically validated my opinion that you're a typical bumpkin. My last message in particular and previous posts herein in general are lucid enough for any sane and sound mind to understand.

Mention me again only if your mother is truly lunatic and your father wretched.

Gamesmart:


If you want to go to medical school and afterwards find reasonable men who are financially bouyant, you might have to focus mainly on older guys.

PDPGuy:




This is savage as Bleep

streamsofjoy:


I don't get u.

YOUNGrapha:
are u married

charain:

The bold comes with age, any lady under 25 that have had so much experience as a 30 year old
lady can also be said to be "settling" for you.

At the end of the day, everybody(male and female) "settle" for their partner.
I have friends who end up marrying ladies that didn't match their "specs" because they
life taught them a lesson that compromise is a must.

If you examine yourself and compare which lady you will choose to be in a relationship with
if the world were perfect and you can choose whichever lady you like
and the one you are dating or married to you will realise that she didn't meet all your specs.

Gamesmart:


I am assuming when you say there are no reasonable men, you mean maturity.

You also want a financially bouyant man, while you also plan to spend years in medical school.

All those point towards you marrying an older guy because they are the ones more likely to meet your financial and maturity expectations and you would be more advanced in age by the time you finish setting up your medical career.

streamsofjoy:


Kk, I get u now. But funny enough, these older guys go for small girls. That's by the way.
One of the reasons I would want to be a Lil established is not to be a financial liability. So, if I, on my own I have money I wouldn't be looking so much for a guy with plenty money-cos I have the money already. I'd rather go for a hardworking, intelligent and any guy I knw I can do life with. And not someone who will bear all my liabilities. That's my idea.

amakadihot87:
.............now you are getting very personal........its a ghost forum remember!!

gloria34:
I prefer to b 30 with a balanced account and peace of mind than to b married go a useless, disrespectful and unfaithful man