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Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 1:08pm On Feb 05, 2018
luminouz:

N for the first time u got my attention!
Spot on!!!
there's a thread wey i go haha u.for d thread one babe with ukwu was cleaning her floor and she was wearing bra and wrappercheesy. Mehn dat ass was bomboclatt cheesy.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 1:20pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
there's a thread wey i go haha u.for d thread one babe with ukwu was cleaning her floor and she was wearing bra and wrappercheesy. Mehn dat ass was bomboclatt cheesy.
Lmaooo!!
I.don see early Momo today o....
Twitter niggas don paint d pic die!!! grin
But dat ASS cleared sleep from my eyes faster than d roar of a hungry lion!!
N it kept me awake till 7am!!!
Oh ASS!!!! Why dou doest me so
Is there no antidote to ASS..lefulefu tongue
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 1:28pm On Feb 05, 2018
luminouz:

Lmaooo!!
I.don see early Momo today o....
Twitter niggas don paint d pic die!!! grin
But dat ASS cleared sleep from my eyes faster than d roar of a hungry lion!!
N it kept me awake till 7am!!!
Oh ASS!!!! Why dou doest me so
Is there no antidote to ASS..lefulefu tongue
so u saw dat picture? Me na lastnight i see am oooocheesy.guys wey no get joy were just defacing her pix. Mehn Dat azzcheesy.antidote ke? cheesy... Ukwu itsef is an antidote nacheesycheesy.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 05, 2018
cruchenutii:


Me I was doing night vigil oh, You know what they say. Kingdom of heaven suffers violence Na ! grin grin grin







Yes o


But have done my own in Sunday church service and it was explosive yesterday morning.
Am still feeling the anointing till now.


Don't worry your prayers are answered in Jesus name amen
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:








Yes o


But have done my own in Sunday church service and it was explosive yesterday morning.
Am still feeling the anointing till now.


Don't worry your prayers are answered in Jesus name amen

Amen in Jesus name cheesy

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Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Jman06(m): 1:54pm On Feb 05, 2018
Truth is that money answereth all things!

With money comes confidence and swag.
With money you can afford those dresses, cologne, cars etc and all these boost your confidence.
Observe any guy who is always quiet and timid, you will discover that his account balance is on red alert. But once an alert of say 100k enters the account, there's always this sudden transformation. His confidence level goes up and everything changes.

My people, money is good o! Please run away from anybody who tells you that money is evil.

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Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 2:02pm On Feb 05, 2018
cruchenutii:



Amen in Jesus name cheesy






Amen too. smiley
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 2:13pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
so u saw dat picture? Me na lastnight i see am oooocheesy.guys wey no get joy were just defacing her pix. Mehn Dat azzcheesy.antidote ke? cheesy... Ukwu itsef is an antidote nacheesycheesy.
Lmaooooo!!!! grin grin
Ukwu izzzz an antidote!!!!
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 2:15pm On Feb 05, 2018
Jman06:
Truth is that money answereth all things!

With money comes confidence and swag.
With money you can afford those dresses, cologne, cars etc and all these boost your confidence.
Observe any guy who is always quiet and timid, you will discover that his account balance is on red alert. But once an alert of say 100k enters the account, there's always this sudden transformation. His confidence level goes up and everything changes.

My people, money is good o! Please run away from anybody who tells you that money is evil.
Money doesn't boost my confidence!!!!
It's either u have confidence or not!!!
It could give u a faux boldness dou!!! Just like drinking but then there are always d hangovers!!!!
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Betterwish: 2:26pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:











That's it!
That's why ladies are always close to him. Ladies love a touch of these little things have mentioned. Especially after working hours.
You need to come out of your shell. It's a must.
Few years back, I was a complete introvert with a serious face and I hardly smile. Then guess what? Guys were scared coming close to me.
Years down the lane, with experience in customer care in my fashion buisness. I realized I needed to be friendly, all smiles, relaxed and make customers feel at ease.
Now, am inbetween an introvert and extrovert.

At work, am an extrovert.
On my street with friends and neighbors am an extrovert
But with someone am dating and have feelings for, I suddenly become tongue tied, shy and back to my default setting : an introvert. angry
It's annoying.

So the same strategy,i use at work? The same, i use in my relationships outside office environment.

At home, when u stroll down the street or go buy some groceries ? There are some neighbors, who would like to gist you and wish to abit about u and what u do for a living, after the normal ,hello and hi greetings. Just give that neighbor audience as u explain your job to the person, smile ,laugh, and say certain funny things that happen sometimes at work.
Keep the neighbor entertained, mind u some ladies are already watching u from afar.
Likewise some guys were already watching me from afar.

In their. Mind, they will be like? Wow! So this person can. Be this friendly and with a cute smile too. Hmm it's seems I like him.

That's how it starts, from the eyes with what we see, goes into the mind and process every detail of your body movements .

Next time., when she sees u, she will murmur hi.

That hi is the que.

Then next time, u see her? You say hello with a huge smile and immediately blurt out, hmm excuse me. Please? Hmm, I hope am not appearing rude, but I like you. And I would. Like us to be friends. By the way forgive my manners, then smile innocently again and stretch yur hands, am Josh. And you are?
You ask her?
She will smile softly and say am Rose.

U will be like wow! Serious? I can't believe this! Do u know my cousin bears such name? And she has a heart of gold. Very nice lady.

She may not believe u but she will smile
And next is can I have your number? So I can call u up, we talk, chat? If you are on Watsapp? And please don't say no. I promise not to disturb, then place one hand on your chest, as u smile innocently but I will keep in touch once in a while . Pls say Yes? Then smile you again?

Learn how to practise on smiles with your standing mirror cheesy
Innocent smile
Tricky smile
Bad boy kind of smile.

All these smiles come. In handy on different occasions grin




Then she will smile back and say ok

She will then give u her number. Dial it, before u say ok Till next time, then. Have a lovely evening dear, thanks.

That's it

Then u get more familiar on chats. Next time u see her, look good, smell nice, appear laid back and hug her with a huge smile. Dnt forget the earpiece at home. Wear it!

With practice it's simple. And girls will start liking u.

Best of luck dude! smiley

wow!!!! bad gud girl,tanks alot dear.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Fazemood(m): 2:29pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:



God bless you! That's it!

You understand the coco smiley

Thanks smiley .
The way you're teaching with examples the manner and ways of getting a girl is nice, like just the way romance novelist writes it down. cheesy . I'm not that kind who seeks appearance to get attracted to a lady, I'm kind of a sapiosexual and also a incredulous disciplined person. Hardly puts up a smile when I'm at work and that has put me on the hard guy list and limited the number of ladies that come up to me.
Though I don't feel bothered, cuz I put hustle first b4 play.And I also believe that if someone likes you,he/she should like you 4 who you are not 4 what you make yourself to be just to get attention.
My ex used to say dat I'm nt what I appear like. I'm a gentleman and a romantic but from afar I'm like a Robocop grin .

I smile when I'm misjudged. B'cuz I know what I am.And when I want a woman, I want nothing less than a Lady who will be gentle outside @sametime a wh@re indoor
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 3:13pm On Feb 05, 2018
Betterwish:
wow!!!! bad gud girl,tanks alot dear.









Hehehehehehehehhe grin cool

You are welcome.

Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 3:25pm On Feb 05, 2018
Fazemood:


Thanks smiley .
The way you're teaching with examples the manner and ways of getting a girl is nice, like just the way romance novelist writes it down. cheesy . I'm not that kind who seeks appearance to get attracted to a lady, I'm kind of a sapiosexual and also a incredulous disciplined person. Hardly puts up a smile when I'm at work and that has put me on the hard guy list and limited the number of ladies that come up to me.
Though I don't feel bothered, cuz I put hustle first b4 play.And I also believe that if someone likes you,he/she should like you 4 who you are not 4 what you make yourself to be just to get attention.
My ex used to say dat I'm nt what I appear like. I'm a gentleman and a romantic but from afar I'm like a Robocop grin .

I smile when I'm misjudged. B'cuz I know what I am.And when I want a woman, I want nothing less than a Lady who will be gentle outside @sametime a wh@re indoor







Smiles thanks.
But with the kind of woman u desire? A gentle lady, who's intelligent and also a who@re in the ooza room? U need to soften up your posterior look. Looking like a Robo cop is a No no sad
And you must look good, no need breaking the bank for it. But try and look good. Women are attracted by what we see, then what we hear.

I can sense you a disciplined and you hardly smile. But after all the hustles and making your money, to have a long life companion? U must loosen up, smile in conversations and be laid back.
All women, I mean all women including me won't feel attracted at your rigid persona.
Am sapiosexual too but not fully cos I know am too hard on myself to be perfect and make it in life, so an easygoing , hardworking guy who can separate work from home will be a perfect match for me. At work u can be Robo cop but at home, be soft, amiable, and flirt cheesy to be alone o. Lol

My dear it's well jare. One day everything will fall in place. smiley

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Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 4:26pm On Feb 05, 2018
luminouz:

Lmaooooo!!!! grin grin
Ukwu izzzz an antidote!!!!
see u!cheesy. ...Ukwu is the greatest antidote that can heal a mancheesy. It brings u to life,it revives ur body it strengthens ucheesy. UKWU is baecheesy. God bless dem ukwucious ladies cheesy.. Whoop! whoop!

Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:








Smiles thanks.
But with the kind of woman u desire? A gentle lady, who's intelligent and also a who@re in the ooza room? U need to soften up your posterior look. Looking like a Robo cop is a No no sad
And you must look good, no need breaking the bank for it. But try and look good. Women are attracted by what we see, then what we hear.

I can sense you a disciplined and you hardly smile. But after all the hustles and making your money, to have a long life companion? U must loosen up, smile in conversations and be laid back.
All women, I mean all women including me won't feel attracted at your rigid persona.
Am sapiosexual too but not fully cos I know am too hard on myself to be perfect and make it in life, so an easygoing , hardworking guy who can separate work from home will be a perfect match for me. At work u can be Robo cop but at home, be soft, amiable, and flirt cheesy to be alone o. Lol

My dear it's well jare. One day everything will fall in place. smiley
lol ppl who take things too seriously and are too rigid are more vulnerable to high blood pressure .just you ladies are very wary of men who are too serious so also we guys dey dey wary of women are too damm serious. Just an ordinary friendly conversation in a lady trying to get to know u,she go dey ask how much u earn in ur place of work, what's the currency they use to pay u at work,what brand of car u ride, is it a 2017 model,do u live in a duplex,how many girlfriends u have?...bla bla bla. They will be asking u with all seriousness and it will look as if u been cross examined by a lawyercheesy.na waoh.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 4:40pm On Feb 05, 2018
luminouz:

Money doesn't boost my confidence!!!!
It's either u have confidence or not!!!
It could give u a faux boldness dou!!! Just like drinking but then there are always d hangovers!!!!
gbam!

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Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 4:48pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
see u!cheesy. ...Ukwu is the greatest antidote that can heal a mancheesy. It brings u to life,it revives ur body it strengthens ucheesy. UKWU is baecheesy. God bless dem ukwucious ladies cheesy.. Whoop! whoop!
Gbam!!!
Seconded!!! grin grin

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Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 4:50pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
gbam!
grin wink
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 4:59pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
lol ppl who take things too seriously and are too rigid are more vulnerable to high blood pressure .just you ladies are very wary of men who are too serious so also we guys dey dey wary of women are too damm serious. Just an ordinary friendly conversation in a lady trying to get to know u,she go dey ask how much u earn in ur place of work, what's the currency they use to pay u at work,what brand of car u ride, is it a 2017 model,do u live in a duplex,how many girlfriends u have?...bla bla bla. They will be asking u with all seriousness and it will look as if u been cross examined by a lawyercheesy.na waoh.
Any girl asks me such mumu questions has lost my attention n d next she sees is d back of head....walking away from her
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 5:03pm On Feb 05, 2018
luminouz:

Any girl asks me such mumu questions has lost my attention n d next she sees is d back of head....walking away from her
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahacheesy
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by luminouz(m): 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahacheesy
Who get time for mumu question n answer session!!!
I dey do interview ni?
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Slaye: 5:08pm On Feb 05, 2018
kimbraa:
You don't have to be necessarily rich. Be hardworking, comfortable and most importantly; have some character. A tall, dark, and handsome guy with a mixture of the aforementioned is a catch.

How about a not tall guy (average height), fair skinned and really handsome with a mixture of the aforementioned?

cheesy
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 05, 2018
luminouz:

Who get time for mumu question n answer session!!!
I dey do interview ni?
well they just trying to analyse if d guy they want to date has tarty billion in his akant cheesy.anyway na babes wey dey dig gold dey linger more on asking u questions about the money u earn or how big is ur house. The ones that have genuine interest in u would ask u more about ur parents or family.if dey must ask u anything relating to ur job na to ask u what do u do.but na dere e reachcheesy.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
lol ppl who take things too seriously and are too rigid are more vulnerable to high blood pressure .just you ladies are very wary of men who are too serious so also we guys dey dey wary of women are too damm serious. Just an ordinary friendly conversation in a lady trying to get to know u,she go dey ask how much u earn in ur place of work, what's the currency they use to pay u at work,what brand of car u ride, is it a 2017 model,do u live in a duplex,how many girlfriends u have?...bla bla bla. They will be asking u with all seriousness and it will look as if u been cross examined by a lawyercheesy.na waoh.








But do u know there are guys who ask how much a lady earns? If she has a buisness, they will ask, are u the owner or u work for someone. So it's both ways. For me? I feel there's nothing wrong or bad opening up to your man or woman on how much u earn? If there's trust.

A lady asking if a guy is driving a 2017 model of car? Have not heard such before. She can ask, are u mobile? And if the answer is yes. There is nothing wrong asking what kind of car u drive?

Then leaving in duplex? Have not heard a lady ask a guy such before. She can ask are u living in a flat? Or self con? And for me, I see nothing wrong asking such questions, cause majority of guys ask such.

And if she ask how many gfs do u have? I still see nothing wrong in asking such. Cos a guy who is serious and wants to start a stable relationship with me, will always ask me : Are u in a relationship?
If I become evasive to such question, that means am unserious and a player as a lady.

As a guy who is serious and ready for a clean and sincere relationship with no barriers and u truly want to build your life, with the lady uv been chasing all these while? She asking the questions I typed above is not out of place.

Even in marriage counseling, the counselor will ask both partners such questions. And it's proper .
It's unserious guys , players that will complain about what u are saying.

Anyways I can't take a man serious if he doesn't open up to me. It's no use.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Neurotika: 6:51pm On Feb 05, 2018
Do whatever fvck you want and the real, intelligent girls will come. Teenagers/insecure boys bother about looks. Funny thing is, the girls I treat like thrash (burst their nuts hardcore) are the vain ones - the ones always commending my looks atimes when I look fly and all. Those types are never loyal. Learning to be stingy with fvcks is an art you should learn. Real always recognize real.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:









But do u know there are guys who ask how much a lady earns? If she has a buisness, they will ask, are u the owner or u work for someone. So it's both ways. For me? I feel there's nothing wrong or bad opening up to your man or woman on how much u earn? If there's trust.

A lady asking if a guy is driving a 2017 model of car? Have not heard such before. She can ask, are u mobile? And if the answer is yes. There is nothing wrong asking what kind of car u drive?

Then leaving in duplex? Have not heard a lady ask a guy such before. She can ask are u living in a flat? Or self con? And for me, I see nothing wrong asking such questions, cause majority of guys ask such.

And if she ask how many gfs do u have? I still see nothing wrong in asking such. Cos a guy who is serious and wants to start a stable relationship with me, will always ask me : Are u in a relationship?
If I become evasive to such question, that means am unserious and a player as a lady.

As a guy who is serious and ready for a clean and sincere relationship with no barriers and u truly want to build your life, with the lady uv been chasing all these while? She asking the questions I typed above is not out of place.

Even in marriage counseling, the counselor will ask both partners such questions. And it's proper .
It's unserious guys , players that will complain about what u are saying.

Anyways I can't take a man serious if he doesn't open up to me. It's no use.

hmm a lady meeting me for the first time and asking me how much i earn monthly is kinder weird. Except both she and the man na contract relationship dem wan do and yes their are money/contract sort of relationship.the man go marry the woman and the father of the lady wey the man marry go employ the man and make am manager of the business or the woman marry a rich man and she can be made a trophy wife.i won't feel at ease if a woman marry me cos of the type of car i ride or d type of house i live in.such women when little gbege dey inside the marriage dem go waka go look for the nxt rich husband.na so e be..and likewise d men wey marry u cos u have a thriving business or wey marry u so he can ride ur clean lexuscheesy.and as for asking ur intending partner if he's or she is in a relationship dats a complete waste of time cos if he wan lie to u then u then there's no way u will know.d only way to know na for u to observecheesy.if he's in a serious relationship and using u as a sidechick u will definitely know cos he certainly be engaging in underground movementscheesy.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 05, 2018
He has swag that is why he get ladies not because he is light skinned, most light skinned guys here no dey get ladies cos dem no get package, speaking of the devil, that k-brule as he light finish, no lady dey trip for am for bbnaija house.

It's all about how you package yourself, I love dark tall guys.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 9:51pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:
hmm a lady meeting me for the first time and asking me how much i earn monthly is kinder weird. Except both she and the man na contract relationship dem wan do and yes their are money/contract sort of relationship.the man go marry the woman and the father of the lady wey the man marry go employ the man and make am manager of the business or the woman marry a rich man and she can be made a trophy wife.i won't feel at ease if a woman marry me cos of the type of car i ride or d type of house i live in.such women when little gbege dey inside the marriage dem go waka go look for the nxt rich husband.na so e be..and likewise d men wey marry u cos u have a thriving business or wey marry u so he can ride ur clean lexuscheesy.and as for asking ur intending partner if he's or she is in a relationship dats a complete waste of time cos if he wan lie to u then u then there's no way u will know.d only way to know na for u to observecheesy.if he's in a serious relationship and using u as a sidechick u will definitely know cos he certainly be engaging in underground movementscheesy.










It's awkward when a guy ask, are u the owner of your biz, and the babe will then lie? And say am working for a lady whose married. If the guy ask are u mobile? She will say no, she doesn't. Whereas she has hidden her car somewhere he wouldn't find out. Or maybe she will just keep quiet and make the question slide.
But lieing and later, one is caught? Will definitely crumble the relationship.
Or. Ignoring and refuse to answer? Will make your partner feel suspicious of. Moves u make.
Then asking him if he has a gf? Is a way of holding him by the balls when he's caught cheating. Ignoring to ask such question of gf? Make him get away with any plan he has up his sleeves.
Cause after sleeping with her, and possibly he's preparing for his wedding with another girl. He can conveniently say babe but u didn't ask me and I allowed it slide.

This other lady is my fiance but when I saw u, I couldnt resist this beauty of yours, Pls forgive me babe.

Just imagine how she will feel with such statement?
She will feel awful and blame herself for not asking him, about his lovelife.

For me I must ask . I can't be used blindly, not even for a day
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 10:11pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:











It's awkward when a guy ask, are u the owner of your biz, and the babe will then lie? And say am working for a lady whose married. If the guy ask are u mobile? She will say no, she doesn't. Whereas she has hidden her car somewhere he wouldn't find out. Or maybe she will just keep quiet and make the question slide.
But lieing and later, one is caught? Will definitely crumble the relationship.
Or. Ignoring and refuse to answer? Will make your partner feel suspicious of. Moves u make.
Then asking him if he has a gf? Is a way of holding him by the balls when he's caught cheating. Ignoring to ask such question of gf? Make him get away with any plan he has up his sleeves.
Cause after sleeping with her, and possibly he's preparing for his wedding with another girl. He can conveniently say babe but u didn't ask me and I allowed it slide.

This other lady is my fiance but when I saw u, I couldnt resist this beauty of yours, Pls forgive me babe.

Just imagine how she will feel with such statement?
She will feel awful and blame herself for not asking him, about his lovelife.

For me I must ask . I can't be used blindly, not even for a day
but wait oo if a guy who is interested in you starts asking u how much money u make in a month in your business or how much u rake in a week will u just open up to him? a person u just seein meeting for the first time all in the name of relationship? na naija we dey oo cheesy.u dont just trust anybody u just met just cos he said he likes u.u need to be with him for some time b4 trusts starts coming in.he could be a con artist so thats why u dont have to be too trusting.if i am with a lady and all she talks about all day is money money and money i will certainly not take her seriously.
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Betterwish: 11:04pm On Feb 05, 2018
Chikita66:
He has swag that is why he get ladies not because he is light skinned, most light skinned guys here no dey get ladies cos dem no get package, speaking of the devil, that k-brule as he light finish, no lady dey trip for am for bbnaija house.

It's all about how you package yourself, I love dark tall guys.
thanks,you care to elaborate on dis(cos dem no get package)
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 11:11pm On Feb 05, 2018
lefulefu:

but wait oo if a guy who is interested in you starts asking u how much money u make in a month in your business or how much u rake in a week will u just open up to him? a person u just seein meeting for the first time all in the name of relationship? na naija we dey oo cheesy.u dont just trust anybody u just met just cos he said he likes u.u need to be with him for some time b4 trusts starts coming in.he could be a con artist so thats why u dont have to be too trusting.if i am with a lady and all she talks about all day is money money and money i will certainly not take her seriously.










I didn't say a guy asking me how much I make. It's awkward Nah
Lefulefu u like thinking of the extremes in relationship but it's not like that.
He will ask are u the owner of this business or your work for someone.
And when I say yes it's mine. He does not need to know how much I earn again. He has already calculated.. OK she should be worth this and that.
A guy or lady cannot be talking of money money money all thru the date Nah, where have u seen such

So relax with your vivid imagination. It doesn't work like that.
That's it




The bf when we started chatting, he asked about my buisness cos he saw it on Nairaland and wanted to buy some 3piece suits. But I referred him to Trendsviva. Then later one thing led to another and we liked each other .
And he asked if you are not the owner of this suit buisness? Then what kind of biz am. I into? I said Fashion, other aspects of fashion. He said ok Thats cool. As long as you are working, and also adding value into people's life? I like u already.
The next day, he took pics of himself in the midst of his workers and clients and his company. And everything he was doing that day.
I was like wow!
First! Am tripped that he's not hiding his profession from me, cos he's a big shot and his staff number is amazing.
I got to know what he does everyday with pictures and av never seen such kind of guy before. Who is an open book.

Ordinary guy who is a marketer will be hiding stuffs from. Me , and filling me up with so many lies. I had to break up with my ex, cos he lies too much. The lies were so suffocating. I had to cut him loose. And hes just a hustler, lying like crazy.


So at the end, am glad there are guys out there who do not live their lives lieing to their babes, it's annoying. All because of what?
Re: Tall Dark And Handsome,women Hypocrisy And The Plain Truth by Nobody: 11:29pm On Feb 05, 2018
alexialin:











I didn't say a guy asking me how much I make. It's awkward Nah
Lefulefu u like thinking of the extremes in relationship but it's not like that.
He will ask are u the owner of this business or your work for someone.
And when I say yes it's mine. He does not need to know how much I earn again. He has already calculated.. OK she should be worth this and that.
A guy or lady cannot be talking of money money money all thru the date Nah, where have u seen such

So relax with your vivid imagination. It doesn't work like that.
That's it
its because u havent met such ppl.money is their life and it is all they breath and live for. for a lady u have to take her on constant shopping.if u short for a day na quarrel.same with a man that will ask u money for this and dat..someone that will leech and feed fat from u.they are the same ones who cross examine u,,know ur financial status before they strike.if u no let them dip hand into your savings then they men of the underworld.i have heard stories about wives hiring assasins to eliminate their husbands or using poison to in getting rid of him so as to inherit im money just because the man no allow am touch the money as she wan touch.thats d nigeria we are living today.i no trust anybody except my immediate family.

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