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About To Leave Home by Nobody: 9:31pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Okay guys! This is my first thread on romance section of this forum. I don't know if this is the right section for this thread, but since its the most populated, I'll give it a shot. I need your advice please. So yesterday, I got into an argument with my father. I'm 23+, currently doing my MSc. Will be 24 next month. I work as a freelancer (though he doesn't know). The thing is, he got into an argument with my mum a night before. It hurt me and I was annoyed. But its not my marriage so I kept shut. The next morning, I was having breakfast. He came into my room to ask when I'll be going to school. I responded 9am. I wasn't smiling though. He then started shouting, calling me a mad man...saying I like frowning at him...that I'm free to remove my clothes & go naked on the streets...bla bla bla. He is usually very abusive when he's annoyed and it happens often. If I get extremely angry, it could lead to me smashing his head with a stool, and that's something I badly want to avoid. Mum had the hint that I'm planning to leave. Today, her elder sister came to me...started begging and quoting Ephesians, talking about heaven & hell etc. She knelt and begged that I should make peace and not leave home. I've even found a room to rent. I badly need my space. Mind you, my parents stay in their own house, not a rented apartment. People, I need your advice. Thanks! Update: Apartment Painted. Lol! MODIFIED: I'm two weeks old as an independent guy. Thanks to all the advice's, criticism and general comments. Remain blessed. |
Re: About To Leave Home by ifex370(m): 9:34pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
MasterRahl: If you have the money.. Leave.. Its a better option.. Come home every once in a while to eat and collect food.. But let that distance create respect 2 Likes |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 9:48pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
ifex370:Lol! Eat & collect money . Not at all. I just want to leave without a quarrel. |
Re: About To Leave Home by ifex370(m): 9:53pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
MasterRahl: I feel you should.. I may not understand the full view.. But from what you've written, that's the best bet... .however, no matter what, your home is still your home, your father is still your father.. And nothing can ever change that.. So you're allowed to come home anytime 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 9:55pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 9:58pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
ifex370:Thanks bro. |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 9:59pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Cowbuoy:Say something bro |
Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 10:30pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Cowbuoy:Seriously? So no advice? |
Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 10:41pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
MasterRahl: OK, lemme ask you this then... Deep deep deep down in your heart, what do you think you wanna do?? 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Cowbuoy:I want my space |
Re: About To Leave Home by Jamariwolff(f): 10:45pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Cowbuoy:Oh darling why dat face? You stay with daddy too and eat 'mummy thank you'? Oya where are those romance section broke small boys that still live with their parents, show your faces. Let me know mentions I'll start ignoring from today. Iranu 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by dingbang(m): 10:45pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
I was just your age when I began my masters at Uniport.. Dad first gave me money for rent for a year, I never asked for money for feeding. I relocated and started doing things on my own.. And now... I fvcking pay my rent and even assist friends who are in need.. Its all about ur determination to leave the house. Don't listen to what your parents would say.. Yes they want u to stay back with them. But that's not who you want to be. Leave your comfort zone and go to a place where no one knows you and then grow from there. 3 Likes |
Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 10:47pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Jamariwolff: 3 Likes
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Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 10:49pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
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Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 10:51pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Cowbuoy:Lol. Yeah |
Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 11:02pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
MasterRahl: Well in that case, since you wanna leave so badly... You should try and sit Mom down and make her understand the reason(s) why you wanna leave so badly and especially how it's good for your own sake and of course hers too... In short, try and convince with the merits in you looking for greener pastures (just like this my typing color ) only and abeg do not walk away on her without getting her consent and maybe some blessings too... My 2½ cents!! And I hope you won't disappoint 'em and be a prodigal son few years later, shey?? Just kidding!! 3 Likes |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 11:26pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Cowbuoy:I'm never prodigal. But thanks! |
Re: About To Leave Home by Cowbuoy: 11:29pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
MasterRahl: Lol... You're welcome, Bruv... cc: lalasticlala... A brother needs some advice..!! 2 Likes |
Re: About To Leave Home by ashjay001(m): 11:59pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
MasterRahl: In d natural scheme of things, u shud av left home! But, e be like say, u self like drama, just like ur dad. U better man up n move out n on with ur life! 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 12:06am On Feb 09, 2018 |
ashjay001:Lol. Drama ke? Thanks bro. |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 12:12am On Feb 09, 2018 |
dingbang:Thanks. I appreciate this. |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 12:13am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Jamariwolff: |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 12:31am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Jamariwolff: and people decided to pick on airforce1.... 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 12:35am On Feb 09, 2018 |
brosci: |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 1:28pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Responses? |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
MasterRahl: Dude at 24 you are old enough to live on your own 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 2:56pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
efesodje:Thanks. Just paid the rent |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 3:32pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Well how on earth will frown at ur father 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 3:47pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
MasterRahl: Cool 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 5:04pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
No be to leave house be the koko o. Discuss with your mom and never leave your dad out of the discussion. He could be feeling guilty as a result of the night's event with your mom. You don't want to be at loggerheads with your parents 1 Like |
Re: About To Leave Home by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
efesodje: Na to break the news remain |
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