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My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oladimejyy(m): 10:26pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
I am grieved,The boy i saw when he was given birth to,The boy i backed,The boy i trained etc. We all started living with my grandfather when we were born because he(grandfather) wants an happy family. Everything changed last year,the family separated because we(grand children) want to live with our parent. My 10 years old cousin got admission into SS1 in a private school last year,he started coming home with much cash but the mother(A single parent) over looks it because she do give him huge cash as pocket money. On wednesday he came home around 12pm from school,stole his mums 30k to buys a BMX bicycle,the mother was angry to the extend he called my elder he told him everything.We had to return the bicycle but we couldn't recover the whole cash because the bicycle seller turned it to a fight, but we settled everything. The mum took him to school for him to be punished but revelations started revealing itself 1.It been long he attended school,every blessed morning he do leaves home saying he's going to school which is false 2.His school fees which was given to him by his mum he spent the whole 50k. 3.He's a gambler,he rolls dice. 4.He's a smoker. We haven't descipline him because we believes we(my elder brother and i) should tell him the dangers of his behaviour but he still smoke yesterday in an hiding place but my neigbhour caught him. What should i do... I'm suggesting the mum should send him to navy or army boarding school. The mum is tired of him. I told him that if he joins any cult i wouldn't mind joining the Nigeria force just to take him down.. Please help me 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by spiritedtete: 10:36pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
Find a way to take him to army school sharp sharp... Nothing you can do anymore... He is already getting ready to become a future criminal The mum is at fault here though.. She needs to be flogged. 127 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oladimejyy(m): 10:38pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
spiritedtete:Please how is the mums fault,she loved him wholeheartedly because he's her only child 5 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by OkpaAkuEriEri(m): 10:39pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
Ur Cousin is an ajo nwa si owerre ba nne ya afo Tk hm 2 church E has marine spirit 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by spiritedtete: 10:40pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
Oladimejyy: She must have been so soft on that boy and allow him have his way all the time. And this isnt love 118 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by spiritedtete: 10:41pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
OkpaAkuEriEri: This is not a church matter... This is a physical issue here And he needs a physical approach... Army boarding school will "bend him" or "make him hard"... Either way the former is more feasible 19 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oladimejyy(m): 10:50pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
spiritedtete:Very soft.The silly boy even threaten the mum that he will kill himself when the mum was disciplining him,I had to give a terrible blow on his neck because i was furious 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by spiritedtete: 10:54pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
Oladimejyy: She already knows the mum... And will continue to do what he likes as long as she stays with her. Please take the boy away from the mum.... How i wish that boy was mine... He go hear am... With love combine 36 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by dingbang(m): 10:57pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
Army boarding school... 7 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by newyorks(m): 10:57pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
we call them dragon. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oladimejyy(m): 11:07pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
spiritedtete:The silly boy even told my grand father this afternoon when he was interogated that he deliberately took the money.He didnt show any remorse at all |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by mikeywise(m): 11:12pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
I am finding too hard to believe that a ten year old was given his school fees. 225 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Spacless(m): 11:16pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
physical torture(beating) is not the best way to make him change it will just be adding more salt to the wound. like the poster above side take the boy away from the mum. The mum is petting him so much as he is the only child and he will just be growing worst as far as he will continue to leave with his mum. 6 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oladimejyy(m): 11:39pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
mikeywise:The boy is wise,honestly the boy do count 500k for his mum |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by UjuJoan2: 12:01am On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy: How can a 10 year old boy be in SS1? Did he enter secondary school at the age of 6? 189 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oladimejyy(m): 12:29am On Feb 11, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:His education is very,i mean absolutely fast 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:44am On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:I agree with the poster that the Mom is at fault 100%. God through the Holy Bible commanded us never to spare the rod when a child err because sparing the rod means spoiling the child. Same God stated that He "chastises those he loves". Your Aunt, his mum has already failed in discharging her duties. she refused to show him love by administering disciple when she ought to but took to pampering instead. It is a shame and highly unfortunate. My man, only prayer and advice can change the boy right now as no amount of punishment would reconstruct his attitude. In fact, it will make him more hardened!!! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by consultancy: 12:45am On Feb 11, 2018 |
trust me, i have seen and handled more terrible kids than this one. the problem here is that he was allowed to harden before solution was sought. as that child is now, he has seen and felt all that you or his mum or any other family member may do to him, as such, he fears non of you neither does he have regards for any of u. the solution her is to show him sumtin that he has never felt. Make him realize that there are worsts things, scarier things in life than he has seen already. how do you do this? now listen; either take him to a military academy and dump him der, or get a few new faces and carry out a 'fake' kidnap and 'fake' assasination attempt on him. act a little drama, let him see knives, cutlasses, maybe a gun too, make it look real like he has had a very close shave with death. at the end, allow him to escape from where he is kept. believe me, when he thinks of all he saw in the hands of the 'assasins/kinappers', he will mellow. this strategy has worked on even the most evil child, believe me P.S: the idea is for him to feel he was kidnapped for money rituals, and God saved him from death, so he would turn a new leaf from there automatically 79 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 1:42am On Feb 11, 2018 |
He's being neglected by his mother. He's also lacking a father figure in his life. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by jericco1(m): 2:14pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
I'm coming let book space first. 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by AntiWailer: 2:14pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
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Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:14pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
DEVIL @ WORK! But who gives a 10 year old #50,000 to go pay his school fee personally? ! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by eezeribe(m): 2:15pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:Poor home training and upbringing;even the use of English in this post needs 'home training'... Who gives a 10 year old 50k to pay school fees by himself... Both the grandfather and single mum should be called out;what nonsense... If the boy likes,he should self destruct.... Nobody really cares. 4 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by hopilo: 2:15pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:Lies 22 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Suspend him from school and take him to a military handler. Let him spend some months there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Miamibutch(m): 2:16pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Problem child 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Tydie0: 2:16pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
10 years old? I'm not understanding 11 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
That was how Snoop Dogg started.
Don't be quick to judge you never know his destiny 3 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by tempest01(m): 2:16pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
LIES...10 YEARS, SS1? 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
mikeywise:My thought too. I want to believe that the OP meant the boy is in JS1, not SS1. But then, how can the mother give a 10yr old 50k to pay his own school fees 16 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by EweduAfonja(f): 2:17pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Lies 15 Likes 1 Share |
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