*Cheating Between Married Men & Women & Love Pleasantries Between Consenting Business Partners!*

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*"A mans greatest undoing is his sacred indulgence without consideration for rationality that could compromise or guarantee progressive or retrogressive values."* By Kelvin Adewale

Cheating between men & women differs from cultural quarters & Its arbiters from the socially developed and evolved part of the world to the underdeveloped counterparts and relegated social or cultural setting.

Just as cultures are yardsticks for social morals on what is acceptable or not, a popular *Yoruba proverb* underscores that the fact that *"There's a reason for everything, why we either eat the yam with the oil due to an object of interest in the oil or eat the oil because of something of interest that exist in the yam"*

*"Analogy of Cheating In A Socially Developed Or Socially Evolved Setting Between Men & Women"*

In the diaspora and among the developed world cutting across religious and cultural ties and social class, it almost an amoral political or diplomatic tryst and common for lovers to have extra marital affairs. Men and women, dont necessarily cheat for the same reason and opinion to which a lot of us subscribes to in Africa except for greater business opportunities and political exploits for a progressive enterprise and value adding.

In the developed world and among the socially exposed French oriented class, and bourgeoise, it is a norm for a man to pitch his woman to other men for political gains, progressive value exchange and the women pitch their men on other men for feigned political gains, values or business advances but such matter is sacred and not open for public consumption or consensus opinion as it is often considered highly amoral & relegated discussions but yet at large practised behind the closet of the low and high profiled quarters and considered as a dirty linen.

*"Africans And The Under developed Countries Analogy of A Secular Cheating Between Men & Women"*
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.

Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near. It is true that runs girls, call girls and slay Queen all over the world can handle going to bed with 15 to 20 men withing 24 hours a day and still call it business without emotions attached neither do they call it love. However true that may be, it is not true on the league and part of love as true love is infinite and at the same time detailed and well substantiated. It is true and a trend these days to find a jobless, frustrated and hopeless young guy or young lady day dreaming been in love with a sugar mummy or sugar daddy in a Jupiter lairs, but it is a dream that often in the end eat up its its editor like the determinant of a cocaine dynasty or narcotic empire crumbling in the short run!

*Interpretation & Conclusion:*

*The Up turn And Down Turn Of Sexual or Relationship Contraction Between Two Business Consenting Partners As Male and Female.*

It must be noted for men and women that pleasure must never be mixed with work. Men & women must be able to define their buffer zone and objective of partnership with a business or non spouse partner. Not every business relationship must end in bed as it is a bad omen for business. Going the extent of Sex, pleasure or love affair should not be mixed with business nor adds any value to business. Intact, it culminate, commission and precipitate the collapse of business on the edge of oblivion. For the success of a business venture between two (2) partners of opposite gender, avoiding sex or love affairs shows a deep sense of maturity and endowment of wisdom. For both men and women, mixing pleasure with business can run an entire business project hammock and can pose a big threat to business as subject partners are vulnerable to contracting chains of similar affairs that would over turn and cripple a business venture. If sex, love making must be exchanged or exist between such partners. It must be clearly defined and ridden of sentiments but supplied with cogent reasons.

It is also a known fact that not all women who keep extra marital affairs or keep the company of a man does that for the purpose of sex. It is often contrary to a consensus opinion, some women are emotionally mature and train to smoulder their sexual contraction or need when with a man. Some women keep the company of men because they just want to be heard or they just need some respect or audience the men in their life are not providing while some con and unscrupulous men covet or take advantage of that soft spot and vulnerability.

As most uncultured and unrefined men would say that women are object of pleasure looking for comfort, then that should literally equate that men are object of comfort looking for pleasure or greed or more display of power and achievement with a showcase of different type and class of women as trophy Dame. To me, this is share plagiarism and wholesomely unsubstantiated. It is a known fact that most men senses and reasoning is aimed at satisfying their lustful and promiscuous sexual needs and escapade and a lot would take advantage of any woman in their reach be it their ex, colleague, female friends, relatives, in-laws, friends to spouse and even nieces and sister in law. Its a way to say most men senses is locked up in their cock just like a fly would gullibly follow a copse to its grave.

A good number of women respect men who have total control over their hunger for sex because a man's undoing and weakness is his lack of control over sexual appetite. A few number of responsible women, have the natural instinct to identify a promiscuous man when they see one and to them, such a fellow would always be a bad market or bad investment. Most men today who end up with a polygamous home with wives and children scattered everywhere is born of a man's lack of control for sex and contraction of baseless sex advances. My candid advice is that men should keep matters in their subligerian and in their loin as matters below the belt without the thought of wetting the ambrosia of their lustful desire. Men who dont try to take advantage of the female folks or at every opportunity of sex always tend to go farther and do better in the literal sense than those who tend to toll the reverse and obscured path.

Considering religious and cultural tolerance, the same subject is met with different audience and reception depending on the requirements of the customs and tradition of the subject theme host country as for example, The Islamic culture and a host of other psychological evolved society today are advocating for men to take up more women as such persons believe it is Ok to have as much as 3 to 20 women to 1 man so as to alleviate the pains of women due for marriage but ages unduly due to insufficiency or lack of competent for marriage. In a rigid religious context, women over the centuries have been made to look like an over the stock market merchandise awaiting the highest bidder. Women have a lot in this regards to dispute this seemingly advance slavery and relegated image without recourse to double standards of opinion. Religion is a beautiful tool of humanity and to promote social harmony but that we follow religion on the other hand does not mean we must impair nor impeded our brains from working so that we dont truly become stupid in the long run as some people and rumor professes that we are stupid.

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Written And Compiled By Kelvin Adewale
www.agrocashnet.com

So for your mind now, Nigerian girls cannot have sex without attachin' emotions abi?



All those oloshos, slay queens & runz girls that keep 8 men nko? They are shemales abi?

ShyCypher:
So for your mind now, Nigerian girls cannot have sex without attachin' emotions abi?



All those oloshos, slay queens & runz girls that keep 8 men nko? They are shemales abi?

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Meti99:


The guy has presented a very intelligent point, I don't think you have to be abusive (look at this slowpoke) before presenting your views

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ebonyeyes88:
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Meti99:


Don't judge me by what you see

I don't know who you are, I posted my opinion...I don't judge people