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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Feb 12, 2018
XhosaNostra:
I'm surprised at your age you still place so much importance on what people think.

Live life on your terms, girl!

You and your crazy memes bring me here grin

How are you feeling today?

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 7:32pm On Feb 12, 2018
Dimples129:


You and your crazy memes bring me here grin

How are you feeling today?

grin

I'm good, baby. How was your day?
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 12, 2018
XhosaNostra:


grin

I'm good, baby. How was your day?

Not too bad thanks hun kiss

Be good grin see you soon xx.x grin

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 12, 2018
Bleep means bleep on nl shocked
XhosaNostra:


grin

I'm good, baby. How was your day?

Hahahaha! I'm dying here so x.x.x. 3x's mean bleep on nl grin grin grin
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 7:44pm On Feb 12, 2018
Dimples129:


Not too bad thanks hun kiss

Be good grin see you soon xx.x grin

Where are you going?

Btw, I was beginning to wonder since I haven't seen you around since yesterday. I hope you're really doing okay.
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Sabaugo(f): 9:56pm On Feb 12, 2018
Dimples129:


Can't you do it by yourself?

You have 1 child

You have employment

Why don't you become independent?

If I was you, I would be so proud of myself. I would raise and obsorb myself into my child. I wouldn't need love and value from the outside world, I would source it from my Son....

You should be more concerned about self development than another damn man undecided

I'm just trying to give you a different point of view. No disrespect intended and if it comes across as that... Sorry.
Thanks. I really appreciate

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 12, 2018
Sabaugo:
Texas father is late
sorry for your loss.
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 10:41pm On Feb 12, 2018
Dimples129:


Can't you do it by yourself?

You have 1 child

You have employment

Why don't you become independent?

If I was you, I would be so proud of myself. I would raise and obsorb myself into my child. I wouldn't need love and value from the outside world, I would source it from my Son....

You should be more concerned about self development than another damn man undecided

I'm just trying to give you a different point of view. No disrespect intended and if it comes across as that... Sorry.

From what OP said... I think OP is already Independent but OP needs someone that will service her Veevee. She's human too who needs a proper sex life.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by sexdoll: 11:08pm On Feb 12, 2018
Caseless:
Being a lady is indeed tough.

Not all the time.

Initially it is usually women who dey enjoy with so many suitors than she can accommodate.

But in later years, it becomes the men's turn to enjoy with more than enough suitors to reject.

In short, it is a turn by turn thing.

Unfortunately, so many women fail to utilize the advantage properly when it is their turn.

Only to carry so much baggage looking for any available but unfortunate man they will dump the baggage upon.

But sharp guys sabi dodge such women well well.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by izmercy(m): 3:11pm On Feb 13, 2018
Dimples129:


Can't you do it by yourself?

You have 1 child

You have employment

Why don't you become independent?

If I was you, I would be so proud of myself. I would raise and obsorb myself into my child. I wouldn't need love and value from the outside world, I would source it from my Son....

You should be more concerned about self development than another damn man undecided

Your point is valid,good and sensible but it doesnt make an everlasting sense.
To be independent is good and i respect it.But what i want you to erase (ASAP) from your mindset is the belief that having a partner(mostly husband) means weakness and or over dependence. That's not so true dear. We all need companionship. Especially at the latter stage of our life when our friends would be busy with their life too.
Moreso,there are lots of vacum your child can't fill.
we should be careful when preaching this "female revolution" of a thing. Else,we would keep doing more damage.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Feb 13, 2018
Go marry Dog naw. sad angry
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 3:59pm On Feb 13, 2018
Odiegwu
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by marvin904(m): 4:08pm On Feb 13, 2018
Dimples129:


Can't you do it by yourself?

You have 1 child

You have employment

Why don't you become independent?

If I was you, I would be so proud of myself. I would raise and obsorb myself into my child. I wouldn't need love and value from the outside world, I would source it from my Son....

You should be more concerned about self development than another damn man undecided

I'm just trying to give you a different point of view. No disrespect intended and if it comes across as that... Sorry.




you made some good points..
buh from the other-side of it you sound as if your telling her she doesn't need a husband at all..
you said she should draw her strength from her son let me ask you for how long..
do you think that her son doesn't need a father..
will you be there with her when she alone on her bed..
will you be there for her when she is weak,sad,needs a shoulder to cry on.
or will you help her out when she Hot or do you wish for her to move from one bed to the other..
God that invented companionship aint a fool..
my advice to the op don't be desperate in your search..
look for someone that will accept your child as hes,love you,care for you..
if you see it in this guy go ahead..
all this feminism crap is getting annoying undecided

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Ladyjumong(f): 6:46pm On Feb 13, 2018
XhosaNostra:
I'm surprised at your age you still place so much importance on what people think.

Live life on your terms, girl!
Lol. you've sure got alot of meme.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 6:55pm On Feb 13, 2018
Ladyjumong:
Lol. you've sure got alot of meme.

Lol, I do. The thing is I'm an expressive & animated person in real life, so a meme helps me to be just that even online.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Ladyjumong(f): 7:04pm On Feb 13, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, I do. The thing is I'm an expressive & animated person in real life, so a meme helps me to be just that even online.
Lol. good for you. sounds like it's so much around you.


zarzar
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 7:06pm On Feb 13, 2018
Ladyjumong:
Lol. good for you. sounds like it's so much around you.


zarzar

Yes.

Were you using another moniker before this one?

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Feb 13, 2018
thegentleman:
From what OP said... I think OP is already Independent but OP needs someone that will service her Veevee. She's human too who needs a proper sex life.
chai! cheesy.. Better oil dey ur head cheesy
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Ladyjumong(f): 7:17pm On Feb 13, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Yes.

Were you using another moniker before this one?
nah. this is my first moniker. got to know you during my guest mode,that was before you deactivated. your comment always got me laughing. you're one crazy south african ass.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 7:26pm On Feb 13, 2018
Ladyjumong:
nah. this is my first moniker. got to know you during my guest mode,that was before you deactivated. your comment always got me laughing. you're one crazy south african ass.


Awww, thanks for coming out of guest mode & finally blessing us with your presence. Nice to meet you smiley Where are you from?

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Ladyjumong(f): 7:41pm On Feb 13, 2018
XhosaNostra:



Awww, thanks for coming out of guest mode & finally blessing us with your presence. Nice to meet you smiley Where are you from?
Lol, since last year. am Nigerian. nice meeting one cool South african. the rest of your folks i ve come across so far here are some kind of online warriors. grin

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 7:48pm On Feb 13, 2018
Ladyjumong:
Lol, since last year. am Nigerian. nice meeting one cool South african. the rest of your folks i ve come across so far here are some kind of online warriors. grin

Lol, likewise. You sound like a breath of mint yourself. Btw, don't mind some of my compatriots, they're really nice people once you get to know them tongue

Here's to a new friendship

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Ladyjumong(f): 7:55pm On Feb 13, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, likewise. You sound like a breath of mint yourself. Btw, don't mind some of my compatriots, they're really nice people once you get to know them tongue

Here's to a new friendship
Lol, funny you. thanks tho tongue

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by XhosaNostra(f): 8:03pm On Feb 13, 2018
Ladyjumong:
Lol, funny you. thanks tho tongue

kiss

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Feb 13, 2018
lefulefu:
chai! cheesy.. Better oil dey ur head cheesy
hehehehe, thank you.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Ladyjumong(f): 8:14pm On Feb 13, 2018
[quote author=XhosaNostra post=65040624] see you around some other time kiss

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Sabaugo(f): 11:48pm On Feb 14, 2018
marvin904:




you made some good points..
buh from the other-side of it you sound as if your telling her she doesn't need a husband at all..
you said she should draw her strength from her son let me ask you for how long..
do you think that her son doesn't need a father..
will you be there with her when she alone on her bed..
will you be there for her when she is weak,sad,needs a shoulder to cry on.
or will you help her out when she Hot or do you wish for her to move from one bed to the other..
God that invented companionship aint a fool..
my advice to the op don't be desperate in your search..
look for someone that will accept your child as hes,love you,care for you..
if you see it in this guy go ahead..
all this feminism crap is getting annoying undecided
.Thanks so much for your advice unlike others saying what I don't know. I will come back in due time for my invitation card.
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by samtol4(m): 2:30am On Feb 15, 2018
roarik:
a better man will find u..dnt b too desperate ma'am..PRAY.
* Better man will find you * is he security man not better than remaining single ?if the man is sincere and having potentials for greater future why not give a chance ?Money is not everything in life

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by samtol4(m): 2:36am On Feb 15, 2018
At late 30s your family should not dictate where your husband should come from . Security man with sincere heart and potentials for good future should not rejected based on his employment status . 1.Is he ready to accept your son ? 2 . What plans does he have for the marriage ? 3 . Do you see qualities you desire in a husband ?4 . is he sincere or he want to use marriage to get entrance to your body?
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by marvin904(m): 8:34am On Feb 15, 2018
Sabaugo:
.Thanks so much for your advice unlike others saying what I don't know. I will come back in due time for my invitation card.




smiley smiley smiley smiley smiley expecting it ooooo
Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by marvin904(m): 8:36am On Feb 15, 2018
samtol4:
* Better man will find you * is he security man not better than remaining single ?if the man is sincere and having potentials for greater future why not give a chance ?Money is not everything in life




some people mentality sha..
just cause hes a security man he is not worth marrying..
and that make him less of a human being undecided undecided

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Re: I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. by Saintdaprince(m): 11:48am On Feb 15, 2018
Sabaugo:
I thank God so far for me and my son. Please from my previous post, I am in my late thirties and no man to be called spouse. One security man came into my life recently and seriously talking about marriage by Easter. He is 38yrs but not a graduate, from Imo but am from Enugu and my people keep on telling me that he's not worthy to marry me. They said that if I want to marry outside my state, the person should be doing reasoble work. Am tired of staying with uncle, my fear now is,if I still have chance of getting another person since I am a single mother and also considering my age. Though am teaching now and also train my son in school.

Thank you dear Sabaugo. I really understand your situation. There must be a way forward.

I also want to hail Obinovictor for his sincere thoughts and factual questions which are as follows:

That you desperately need a husband now should not blind you such that you won't see the future.

*Can his salary coupled with yours sustain your proposed family?

*Can he accept your child like his own?

*Do you see him doing something better to earn more in the nearest future?

These among many others are questions you should be able to answer before deciding.

Remember, your child might suffer if you make the wrong decision.

He is a realistic guy with good intention to save or assist a fellow Nairalander.

Find a way to answer those questions without centiment or excuses. This is your life, your future. Think wisely before answering anyone.

There is a Man who is more than a mere man, He walked upon the sea, raised the died,feed multitudes with few breads and had reminat to keep, He changed water into wine, defeated the laws of gravity and He is now in Heaven interceding for us, after answering all these question, take it to Him in prayer as when a daughter is talking to her father.

Also remember to knee down in humility and talk to Him. He has the final word and your future is in His hands. God bless you. Remember that someone is praying for you. Thank you.

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