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Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by luminouz(m): 9:38pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
kmcutez:Will u please pay my school fees too? Oponu!!! 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Kotodoctor: 9:38pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Rubbish! I thought you were even gona relate it to the poor girl. Explain what her Mother did to the girl. See if she approves of it. It's her duty then to go talk to her mother But for me your a man.if she is asking for a loan for a boy school fees and you got it. Give her the benefit of doubt and loan her. See if she will pay back ok? She might! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 9:39pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
I here by declare ur relationship with that girl null and void, u too stingy, akagum is a sin.... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by wristbangle: 9:39pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Being a prudent spender is different from being stingy. One of the marital criteria is rendering financial assistance to your family and that of your in-law which doesn't mean you should become father Xmas. For the fact that you have been in relationship with your fiance without asking for money shows she is a responsible lady. I mean her mother reinstated it that it's loan. Even if she did not return it back, you have done a rightful obligation to make her spirit bless you. It would be a wicked act if you fail to grant the old woman's wish. From the moment you turned down her request shows u are a wicked soul. How many ladies can you date nowadays for a period of weeks without asking for expensive gift items? If you decide to break up on her, abeg I will apply asap. Na her type I dey find ![]() On a final note, u are the reason ladies are calling guys bad name. You should be ashamed of yourself and as a matter of fact, you are big disgrace to men. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Dontquit: 9:39pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
kmcutez: The goddess have spoken gbam!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by luminouz(m): 9:39pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:How little ![]() ![]() U see how u reason now? Like u have relaxer in your brain! |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Rubbiish(m): 9:39pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
abike12:See this one lol Are u saying there are no people u can help around u... 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Diso60090(m): 9:40pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Letzdothething: You need upper down cut slap not devil 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by FarahAideed: 9:40pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
I am sure they are really in dire need if not the don't sound like people who would disturb you ...if you can help help if you can't tell them the truth about your financial situation 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Raylight2(m): 9:40pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:O girl I get the account number ooo 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ebby9z(m): 9:41pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
This guy gotta be joking sha. You've been dating a girl for five years and has probably known the mother for give or take, three years. She requested for a loan, A LOAN!!! While other mothers would have just demanded from you straight up without blinking am eyelid. She even told you she confided in you because she views you as a son already. Haven't you borrowed people you knew for lesser period money? And you're here spewing poo talmbout dumping the girl. What kind of son in law would you make anyway? Gosh!!! 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Trustme2(m): 9:41pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Culin:Hey cute chic ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by kollinpowel(m): 9:41pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Honestly all of you on nairaland no understand the guy ,all he is saying is the borrow me request should not be coming from the mom ,cos if she decides not to pay back will he be able to ask her to return it as his in-law. It's even an indictment on the moms part ,what if the guy does something wrong to the daughter will she be able to correct the guy? It's a no so many reasons are attached to the reason he raised. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by chronique(m): 9:41pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
deanxy: It's funny how you claim to love a person and the only one time that you are asked to help out due to the fact that they see you as family already, you came to Nairaland to type this nonsense. Some of us assist families who aren't related to us in any way,with house rent and tuition fees for the kids and heaven has not fallen. If you can't assist a family you are marrying from,who else can you assist? Life is small and nothing we have is permanent. You don't need to have a billion before you impact in people's lives. From the little or much you have,be able to give and help out. If you can afford to help,call that woman now and ask for her account details and send the money to her. Finally, I detest/dislike stingy people. In other words, I don't like your person one bit. ![]() 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Chrisychuks1(m): 9:42pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
You've dated someone for 5yrs no one naira..now just to loan money to her mum you're doing maths??Guy you are stingy... PERIOD!!! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Letzdothething: 9:42pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Diso60090:time wasted enjoying is not wasted I like that quote. Nice to meet you |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by gcof(m): 9:42pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
abike12:so she has no friends nor family members or even pastor since you have dragged Jesus into this she could desperately ask for help other than her daughter’s boyfriend, behind her daughter? That action is unreasonable 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by koolg: 9:43pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
clemmonce: Even if her mother has been disturbing him for such assistance before, there's joy in assisting people especially your wife's family 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by jericco1(m): 9:43pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
you've already given an answer, you now have insecurity because of it.
I'm disappointed in you.
you're not ready. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by andyanders: 9:43pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Mehn, I see your refusal as an act of wickedness. If you are in a position to help her and you felt it was wrong for her to ask you for assistance despite getting to know her for over 5yrs 2ru her daughter is to show how wicked and inhuman that you are. What will make me not assist a woman like that? Nothing. I've been privileged 2 give someone that I dont even know 300k, takless of a woman I want to marry her daughter, I'll go extra mile 2 take care of her same way I'ld take care of my mother if I'm in a position to give. Op,you are just a stingy and heartless person. 16 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Dontquit: 9:43pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
raphafire: ...then the gods soaked don't quote me ol English master. |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 9:43pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:ah i don't understand this guy here o. I hope the lady finds this and move on to something better. This is your fiancee that you want to marry, and you will rather she be homeless while at university than help her out with rent? No wonder she didn't ask you by herself because she already knows your personality and the fact that you won't help her at all, must have taken a lot for her to tell her mom to ask you. Poor girl deserves someone better, not because you do not have the money, but because you are considering leaving her after her family asks for your help to take care of someone you want to get married to. You are a terrible human being, honestly. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by sonofoluku: 9:44pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
UjuJoan2: As a guy ,it's so shameful reading OP's story.The mum is even asking to pay back.Its a loan not even a gift.He plans to wife the babe.He met her in secondary school.She probably may have been a virgin and he may av been her first.The mother is even acknowledging him as her son in law.i am so ashamed on behalf of all men on Nairaland. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by phreakabit(m): 9:44pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
This OP must be a tight handed Shylock. Na wa o. @ OP abeg use shame go sleep. 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by nuland(m): 9:45pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
OP, For your Girlfriend's mum to reach out to you for financial help for the first time I five years shows how cultured and considerate that family is. You also attested the fact. that your. girlfriend too hasn't been making demands. so why the fuss about this.? 10 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ireneony(f): 9:45pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Your own don finish for life... For nairaland guys to say you're stingy and u don't deserve your fiancee know that your village people are using your picture to dance every night. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Diso60090(m): 9:45pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Letzdothething: You welcome bro don't forget to inbox me for more information about street credibility |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by wiringdpt(m): 9:45pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
You should be ashamed, 5 years she never asked you for anything. deanxy: 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Letzdothething: 9:46pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Diso60090:no thanks. Bye |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by PETUK(m): 9:48pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
kmcutez:I'd rather have the girl asking me for money than the mother 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Diso60090(m): 9:49pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by PETUK(m): 9:50pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
nuland:I'd rather have the girl asking me for money than the mother 2 Likes 1 Share |
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