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Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by BLESSMME: 10:51pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
kmcutez:Op this is your answer 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Adebowale89(m): 10:52pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
the question I expect you to ask is which mountain can you go, to pray for you to be a blessing to others for her to come straight to you then it means she has no other alternative na the lady wey won marry someone like you, I dey pity you see big deal in things and that alone won't make the lady enjoy the marriage you think she's comfortable not demanding money from you for that 5yrs, she must have studied you and notice you might insult her in return 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by MichaelBukamzy(m): 10:53pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
insigne: Tottenham is better than juve |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by tradepunter: 10:54pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Guys need to be strategic with women.. Always put it in the back of your mind that you asking her out and her agreeing to be with you is a responsibility you must undertake at different capacity. A woman should be able to sustain her self also because it will you gauge he potential in growing strong interest in what you passionate about especially in the areas of business. Lastly some ladies are rushing into marriages because of financial situation. I can testify to this because a lady I know wasn't interested in finding a job because she just wants office job. Rather she was asking for a talk dark handsome guy to come her way and ask her hand in marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 10:54pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
For her to ask you then she’s truly had no one but please apply wisdom it’s not a loan anymore it’s between family if you intend to marry her daughter I know exactly how you feel but sometimes it’s best to do for the love of and give as well but if you do want a pay back specify a date and sign off on it I don’t support you just becoming CBN o Just take as God has given you the grace to assist if you can 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 10:55pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
LaudableXX: His role should not be a sole provider for her and it doesn’t matter how long the relationship has been. They chose to enjoy the companionship together and she is not doing him any favor for dating him. You are the one that needs to change your mentality. Chances of her dumping him is higher than any good stock crashing. Once he starts paying her rent and school fees, then no turning back because he has just put himself in a provider role. Her parents should find close family members to lend money from, not a boy friend. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Ferguson0709: 10:56pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
insigne: You should have allowed the match to end before you post this ��� 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 10:57pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
sekem: Saying that she considers him as a son, is not being manipulative in my view. ![]() This particular woman does not strike me as being manipulative, because not once in 5 years has she manipulated him, according to this story. So why would she suddenly start doing so, now? ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ALAYORMII: 10:58pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
fatymore: He's financially obligated to help not only her but also her immediate family He's dated her for five fockin years 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by dupzy05: 10:58pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Y not help the needy so God can enrich your pocket more, SMH I pity the poor girl for falling in love with this stingy dude *spit on thread * |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by paulibling(m): 10:58pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Bros shine your eyes. She is not your wife yet. If she marries another posh guy now you have no claim. If a man dumps a woman after 5 yrs of dating the women folk will say that men are wicked but if she dumps the idiot the women folk will say is it by force. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by andyanders: 11:00pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:You're right. In fact, the guy stingy pass federal government of Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 11:01pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
sekem:I think you were referring to your mama sha ![]() ![]() ![]() That your mama whored around to have you doesn't mean you go around thinking everyone else lives the life she lived, have a little faith in humanity bro. I am not a wh0re like your mama, thanks ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 11:01pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
olaboy1:Did you read the entire story at all?? In what way has he been the sole provider for her? ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Lexusgs430: 11:02pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
olaboy1: Are you married? Do you understand the dynamics of dating another man's daughter for a whole 5 years? If the first port of call for financial assistance, is not from within, due to our very stingy nature. Our societal values are completely broken down. Would it be appropriate for his mother, to ask his gf? In my summation, I never blamed the government. I put the blame on his selfish attitude and the way he views his gf. She has not requested anything for 5 years (according to OP)..... And you think the request is too much? For all we care, his future mother in law might simply be testing him...... 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by sekem: 11:04pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
LaudableXX: See let me tell you the realities of this life People always have a motive And most times it's always a selfish motive Don't ever forget that 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Lexusgs430: 11:06pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
olaboy1: Every relationship is a gamble..... We all invest in relationships (financially & otherwise). Some gambles pay off and some don't....... You date a girl for 5 years and she eventually marries someone else.... Big deal..... What about the new girlfriend you meet again? Another man might have spent some raw cash on her and her family, for 7 years. He also never got to marry her..... Should he cry blood? 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by daclemx: 11:07pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
deanxy: My guy, you are very lucky she isn't asking you a dime. The mum asked because she needed help. Do you know how difficult it is to beg someone? Okay, let the girl be. Na you go regret the next bus stop wey you go land. You sef go see say she better. Help her if you can. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ireneony(f): 11:07pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
wristbangle:hi..How are you doing? Happy Valentine in advance |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by paulibling(m): 11:07pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
I can tell you that marriage is not by force. If you like spend one million on a woman and she decides to marry another man you have nothing to claim. Women are not treasury bill. No guarantee for money back. The worst part is when she be gone you will not even have mouth to talk cos truly she did not ask you for money na you and her mama get business. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ngobaby2264: 11:08pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:poster is stingy period |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Damscy: 11:08pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Don't mind the poster. stingy man! |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Offpoint: 11:09pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Dude seriously? I'm a 100% disappointed at you. The woman loves you as an in-law that's why she's even bold enough to request for money from you not using her daughter shows she's matured. You think everyone is lucky enough time have such an in-law today be? there are some that wouldn't even drink water offered by you talk more of money. it seems you're still below 25. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 11:10pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
sekem: Guy, it is not everyone that always has a motive. Sometimes, they just need help. Stop viewing all those you meet through your jaded, prejudiced lens. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by vickydevoka(m): 11:11pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
fuckboys:fuckboy u too get sense. I swear. I go also advice any guy make him no sponsor any girl for school way him never marry unless wain happen to my neighbour go happen to am 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 11:12pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
daclemx: Savage! ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by fuckboys: 11:12pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
brainpower:I'm sorry bruv but, you are a FOOL |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by paulibling(m): 11:13pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Lexusgs430:The future mother in law go test test come taste one day. Shame go finish me if my mama try that kain nonsense testing. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by khome(f): 11:13pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:I swear, i go run without looking back |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Elzends(m): 11:14pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
1st, you should have told us your financial situation. A lot of people call you stingy, mind them not. Never let love and romance keep you away from the rule of lending(never lend an amount you cannot live without). If you are financially buoyant, please lend her, if not, kuku use ya head. I think you need to have a long discussion with ur girl shaa, it's obvious that ur relationship lacks communication. Meanwhile I think you are stoopid for thinking of breaking up with her due to this minor issue.. Five years and she's asked of nothing, bros abeg ur girl get sister? I need that kind babe. Finally, if you are not spending on her, u need to start no matter how little.. ✌️ 2 Likes |
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