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Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 11:47pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
LaudableXX: Sorry your examples are random strangers who need help, it doesn’t play out the same way in this context. Be mindful of how you make outlandish comparison, apples and oranges should never be made to look the same. Work on your logical reasoning. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by paulibling(m): 11:48pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Oga op make I give you mumu advice. Since the woman say you be him son which means the girl be your sister kuku carry your bag go dey live with her. Case close. Next. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 11:48pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
sekem:oh well ,I can see your foolishness is beyond redemption, your mind has been programmed from birth, I guess the stench from your mama's pussy was what welcomed you into this world, so it will be hard to convince you that not all pussies smell like the one you came through, anyway I can only pray for a woman that ends up with a the son of an onye iberibe like you. If he is willing to throw away a 5 years relationship over something as petty as this when people have serious issues that they have scaled through, he can go ahead instead of disturbing nairaland with it.from the comments here, he obviously didn't get a pat on the back he created this thread for. That she was a neophyte for 5 years is commendable but hey I guess your dumb brain wouldn't want to agree ![]() That she even went through her mother even shows the op is stingy and she was banking on it that shame will over ride his stingyness to oblige her mother, or don't you think that could be another angle, rather than this your myopic thinking ,dumb son of an onye iberibe ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Sarah20A(f): 11:49pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
U dated a girl for five years and she never asked u for a dim ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes
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Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 11:52pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
olaboy1:Nothing in my examples suggested that these were random strangers who need help. They were people, I knew personally. If you cannot help someone close to you, is it a total stranger that you would now help? There was nothing outlandish in my post. So work on your comprehension ability, please. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by delishpot: 11:53pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
This bros go stingy o. 5 years and your babe NEVER asked for a single thing, even sibblings ask from sibblings, husbands ask from wives and parents even borrow from their kids yet you have shown the girl howmuch you hate askers*I am sure you term it beghing) I hope she know wetin she dey enter o. Me, I will not console any my husband doesnt give me feeding money kinda wife o. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 11:54pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Sarah20A: The message is when you start having your own daughters make sure you work harder because nobody owes you sh$t. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by deanxy: 11:54pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Maychang:Cmon babe, I ain't stingy. I gus gave a problem with the mother asking me for money. I bought this same girl and expensive phone last month and I do send her money like every month once salary is paid and I recharge her at least four of three times a week,not #200 #200 naira recharge ooo |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by deanxy: 11:55pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Nigga44:yeah, I asked her although not point blank and she told she had paid the money three months ago. The problem is it's possible she hasn't paid but told me she had paid cos she feels Its not my responsibility for now and it's possible she hasn't paid. She I talk to her again?how do I ask her? Wat do u fink Bruv? |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by delishpot: 11:55pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
frenzyduchess: Ignore that person. He has been frustrated by women in the past hence his hatred for women. He prolly has mummy issues to deal with. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 11:56pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
delishpot: That girl will suffer in that marriage. I have a feeling the OP will also physically and mentally abuse her. Kai. I pity the poor girl. She is not matured enough to see that the OP is a potential monster. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by paulibling(m): 11:56pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
sekem:But these chiidren wey dey do back yard love wey still dey chop mama thank ma no go understand plus the gehs wey follow dey protest dey see am say we dey put sand for their garri. But na true we dey tell them. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 11:57pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
LaudableXX: My point is you can’t compare OP and his GF relationship with the examples you gave. The dynamics are quite different. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Nobody: 11:58pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
delishpot:I know dear, but it's been long I put some of these motherfvckers in their place, I am taking a break from important issues to put this Mysoginistic maniac back in his retard3d shell. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by delishpot: 11:58pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
olaboy1: My friend no one is economically strong 24/7. Even countries borrow from countries. Bill gates prolly has debt to pay to banks. So yeah, that she asks doesnt mean she did not plan. Even op said in 5 years he dated the girl she did not ask for nada. Doesnt that show you that her immediate needs were being met? Swear that you have never asked anuone for a loan in your life. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ggoldmine(f): 11:58pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
deanxy: Your kind of person won't even allow her associate with her family once she gets married to you coz you don't want anyone coming to you for money. You also want to break up with her just because her mom asked you to 'lend' her money not even dash? You see how wise she is, otherwise, she'd have asked you to pay it up. Guy, I never wanted to type this in the first place, but I must say, you're inconsiderate and wicked to have thought of breaking up with her over this diminutive issue. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 12:00am On Feb 14, 2018 |
olaboy1: They are not! The OP and his girlfriend have been in a relationship for 5 years. The people in the examples that I gave, were already acquaintances and friends to those they helped. Free your mind. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 12:01am On Feb 14, 2018 |
kmcutez: Yimu yimu... calling someone a monster, anyway this forum has all age brackets, what do I know. |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by delishpot: 12:01am On Feb 14, 2018 |
kmcutez: She need someone wise to open her eyes. This bus na #1Chance |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Reeberry: 12:01am On Feb 14, 2018 |
deanxy:Don't mind these Nairaland hungry golddiggers . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Lexusgs430: 12:04am On Feb 14, 2018 |
olaboy1: Money makes the world go round...... If you can easily give N100 out of your N1000, given N10K out of N100K, should not be an issue..... We are not referring about casual strangers here.... A girl he probably sleeps with (free), she cooks for him (free) etc etc etc I am not saying both don't benefit from such joint activities, what I am saying is, simply use your right hand to wash your left hand, to enhance effective cleanliness...... That African American blogger, is simply already a slave to the westernised credit enabled society..... He probably does not need to render financial assistance, because credit facilities are available in their societies.... Do we have such in Nigeria? Let's tailor our situations to and within the provisions of and obtained within our economies..... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by ChiefSweetus: 12:04am On Feb 14, 2018 |
Brother man, Disregard the foolish, ENTITLED leeches trying to guilt you for your legitimate and valid decision. A mother-in-law may ask her son-in-law for money, but no self-respecting woman will ask her daughter's boyfriend for money, WTF! She no get brothers? Sisters nko? Cousins nko? Colleagues nko? Cooperative nko? (Note i didn't mention husband sef o).. na who dey doke your daughter you wan obtain. That is manipulative, immoral and desperate! And you don't want your children inheriting those traits when grandma comes for omugwo. I hope she doesn't see her daughter as Business. I know a woman that used to pìmp her half-caste daughter to men. Right from junior secondary school. Tufia!!! Your concerns are valid. The idiòts complaining have no iota of shame or family pedigree. If your girl hasn't shown such despicable tendencies in 5yrs, safe to assume she inherited her father's noble genes rather than the mom. I'd proceed on that note, but with caution cos the mama will forever feel scorned. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by efficiencie(m): 12:04am On Feb 14, 2018 |
Na wa for you oh! Your woman is not gold digger and she is loyal. So you want to call it off because her mom made a request that you could either politely turn down or contribute to by rendering your punny mite...dey dia...beta guys go soon thief dah geh for yur hand! |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 12:05am On Feb 14, 2018 |
LaudableXX: That’s because you are still using duration of knowing each other to give your opinion. My point still stands, I’m using what kind of relationship and the possible nuances. Find your comment below, the examples are not boyfriend and girlfriend. “I have seen ordinary teachers help others to pay house rent in rural areas, even when they themselves did not have much. I have seen people pick up medical bills for the sick, even when they were not millionaires themselves. I repeat: generosity is a mindset. But you won't understand it, because you do not have it. undecided The OP has dated the girl for 5 years, so she is not a new girl to him. Instead of showing commitment to her, he wishes to dump her without investigating the reasons behind the mother's actions. And you support such a pathetic decision.” 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by deanxy: 12:07am On Feb 14, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:babe calm down. I no stingy like that oooo. That she never asked, does not mean I don't do anything. I send this girl money like every month, unless when I don't have. I just feel the mother shouldn't be the one asking. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 12:07am On Feb 14, 2018 |
ChiefSweetus:Did you read the story at all? ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Lexusgs430: 12:08am On Feb 14, 2018 |
paulibling: You call her dating him for 5 years as escapades? He is also contributing to the escapades then... Prostitution is the oldest profession and would continually be, their is nothing we can do about that.... Prostitutes would have no role, without customers.... The female prostitutes, mainly have male customers. So we are also to blame, for contributing to the decadence and escapades........ So how long should a man date a lady before marriage? 1 hour or 1 day? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by sekem: 12:09am On Feb 14, 2018 |
frenzyduchess: How much did the pat on the back fetch or didn't fetch the op? The problem with _whore minded biatches like you is that your mind has been programmed to think only about your own gain or advantage If the Op were to be your blood brother and he tells you something like this Biko nne m, tell me, what will your response to him be? You are here castigating the op for being stingy meanwhile you will applaud your own blood brother for being so wise if he did the same thing You stupid ladies are so lucky there are so many pussy niggaz out there killing themselves just to satisfy your inordinate desires If not lemme see how you will be standing there and be calculating my money for me and telling me who to help or not upon my own money Because of what? Because of your rotten pussy Ötü gbakwaa gï ökü dia Onye iberibe nwuru anwu 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by olaboy1: 12:09am On Feb 14, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: What’s up with a girl he sleeps with, now you need to stop. |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by LaudableXX: 12:10am On Feb 14, 2018 |
olaboy1: I am not using duration...I am using the fact that they know each other. ![]() The reason for mentioning the duration of the relationship, was to show that the girl was NOT a random stranger to the guy.Can you understand that, or are you still too obtuse to figure it out? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by Lexusgs430: 12:11am On Feb 14, 2018 |
olaboy1: We should be asking him..... I need to stop what? |
Re: I Want To Marry Her, But I Am Having A Second Thought Because Of Her Mom by deanxy: 12:11am On Feb 14, 2018 |
StarUp:yeah I know but that the girl never asked doesn't mean I don't do anything. I buy gifts even for her younger ones and the mother knows about this. I just feel it's not okay she asking. 1 Like |
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