tosyne2much:
When your girlfriend sits you down telling you she no longer wants sex in the relationship, something is definitely fishing

mikejj:
i smell this relationship has no future..sex&money.wrong foundation

Patented:
you have two choices, move on or comply............any reasons for the decision?
its about the value u place on the relationship......
you can comply and put forward your own conditions, as contract don vary now
na relationship.....its not by force but negotiations are allowed

Xinzu:
e don be for you be that.

tosyne2much:
You sef know abi

Xinzu:



My brother, that conversation always spells doom for every relationship.

FluidQueen:
Did you ask why she abruptly put a stop to your sexual life? Maybe you just weren't playing your cards well. Or she might hate having sex with you.


Find out her reasons and stop sounding like a broken record. Relationships shouldn't be about bargains.

aurxtino:
My dear is has a future oo, because she knows that she's my only gf and that is why she's misbehaving. And me I don't care anymore. Though it hurts but I believe I would have to respect her decision. Seriously we've discussed about our future several times.

aurxtino:
IT difficult for a lady to confess to a man that he is the best and all she's ever wished for to have in a man right? My gf told me this several times and even told some of her friends too that i am the best man for her, but this decision she took is getting me confused, to her she said she wants to focus on her church activities, which i know her too well that there is a little comma there if you get what i am trying to say.

krissconnect:
What nonsense? Should you even engage in premarital sex? It's morally and spiritually wrong to have sex before marriage.
TeamVirgin

MostBanned:


Common, shut up your mouth

krissconnect:

Cc: lalasticlala

MhizAJ:
What's wrong with youth of this generation

How can a relationship be built on sex and money

If there's no sex in the relationship will men die? I don't understand

If she's a virgin and she's saying she doesn't want sex then respect her decision even if she's not still respect her decision

Men especially Nigerian men don't have regard for ladies...They don't know how to apply wisdom in relationship...I can't deal!

They think they can use money to just trap women

FluidQueen:
do you trust her? Have you guys built some level of trust between yourself?


Since you mentioned church, that must be the reason for her celibacy. It's A no brainer. Church brainwashes people.
Anyways, talk to her about it. Tempt and flirt with her even. If she really did like having sex with you, No amount of Brainwashing would make her Refuse an Orgasm. Thanks a lot dear, the main issues now I see that she's insisting we meet in a fast food joint , instead of us meeting in my house or a hotel, she said if we don't meet in a fast food joint then she's not coming for sex, so how can I play with her, or stimulate her in a fast food joint to have sex with me.

mikejj:
if i get you right you said you will stop giving her money since she wants to close her legs for you.,..thats means you are paying her for sex?na wa.the money you are giving her is because she gives u free airport. too bad bro.

aurxtino:
Nah you got it totally wrong, this is my serious gf that we intend to settle down together , my point is why would she just sit down and take this kind of decision and stand on it, not putting me into consideration and how I feel. To me is kinda selfish okay.

aurxtino:
My gf told me last year December that she doesn't want to be having sex with me anymore, but yet she still wants me to be giving her money as usual and taking care of her. Is this right? Cos she never put me into consideration when she sat down on her own and concluded. So for me no sex anymore at least once in a while then no money anymore. Have I done anything wrong by refusing her money?