aurxtino:
My gf told me last year December that she doesn't want to be having sex with me anymore, but yet she still wants me to be giving her money as usual and taking care of her. Is this right? Cos she never put me into consideration when she sat down on her own and concluded. So for me no sex anymore at least once in a while then no money anymore. Have I done anything wrong by refusing her money?

aurxtino:
My gf told me last year December that she doesn't want to be having sex with me anymore, but yet she still wants me to be giving her money as usual and taking care of her. Is this right? Cos she never put me into consideration when she sat down on her own and concluded. So for me no sex anymore at least once in a while then no money anymore. Have I done anything wrong by refusing her money?

goldenceo1:



she's probably fucking another d**k or planning to ride another d**k... My ex always run that line on me before men wise up, she will always come up with one silly excuse to avoid s*x before going back to school. The babe dey give me religious, health reason where as she done get one nigga wen dey bleep her for skul.

Fast forward to Val Day I was having a nice time with one babe where as the real nigga dey cry for phone give babe to come see am saying he respect/accept the girl reason for saying no sex for now. I have no idea she stopped f**king her BF since I met her.
Na wa for some girls oo, bro sometimes ogbanje dey worry some sef , cos some of them are just confused they don't even know what dey want

Crossbow:
She could have turned a practicing Christain or a Muslim (religions exaggerates the effects of sexual activities before marriage). If this is so, you should preach to her too about the vanity of their expensive make ups, hair, lastest phones and other wasteful expenses. She should not be living on one principle and neglecting the others.

It could also be she's not into u anymore, she could be getting the D from another guy.

Study her and know what's applicable.. But don't be spend on anything that gives u nothing in return.. If the relationship falls apart, you will be drained in all aspects
Exactly bro, she said she needs and IPhone 7 in exchange for her iPhone 6. Told her point blank that her future is more important to me than giving her money for an iPhone, then she keeps telling me no other guy in her life except me, I mean she should just open up to me that she's no longer into me . After all it not difficult to say. But I will no send her a dime anymore. I told her to come see me since I got back to my state now , but she's reluctant, and asking me for money then I would pay her cab fair to and fro, then probably still give her money. I mean this is not done na haba

FluidQueen:
do you trust her? Have you guys built some level of trust between yourself?


Since you mentioned church, that must be the reason for her celibacy. It's A no brainer. Church brainwashes people.
Anyways, talk to her about it. Tempt and flirt with her even. If she really did like having sex with you, No amount of Brainwashing would make her Refuse an Orgasm.

No church can brainwash any right thinking lady from ever loving a guy except maybe the lady in question wants to leave.

I don't see any celibacy here. I smell something fishy. Let the OP open his eyes and will see that doom is about to befall him

Slaye:
Lol. She done turn you to "undercover maga o"

tosyne2much:
When your girlfriend sits you down telling you she no longer wants sex in the relationship, something is definitely fishy

This always spells doom for every relationship so it's time to stop labouring for another man to eat

Misscaring:






What has no sex any longer in a relationship got to do something is fishy?

They have been having sex since God knows when and the lady with her reasons best known to her felt it isn't fair enough having sex any further,hence the stop.

Yes there's something fishy.


Abeg let's leave matter FOR LAWMA jawe and let's stop using God to cover up.

I repeat, when a lady sits her boyfriend down telling him she no longer wants sex in the relationship, something is definitely fishy.

I will continue to say this a thousand times

Misscaring:



And she wants me to keep giving her money.I mean this is absurd you know.


What has no sex any longer in a relationship got to do with something is fishy?

They have been having sex since God knows when and the lady with her reasons best known to her felt it isn't fair enough having sex any further,hence the stop.

tosyne2much:
No church can brainwash any right thinking lady from ever loving a guy except maybe the lady in question wants to leave.

I don't see any celibacy here. I smell something fishy. Let the OP open his eyes and will see that doom is about to befall him

MhizAJ:
What's wrong with youth of this generation

How can a relationship be built on sex and money

If there's no sex in the relationship will men die? I don't understand

If she's a virgin and she's saying she doesn't want sex then respect her decision even if she's not still respect her decision

Men especially Nigerian men don't have regard for ladies...They don't know how to apply wisdom in relationship...I can't deal!

They think they can use money to just trap women

aurxtino:
My dear is has a future oo, because she knows that she's my only gf and that is why she's misbehaving. And me I don't care anymore. Though it hurts but I believe I would have to respect her decision. Seriously we've discussed about our future several times.

Misscaring:



Hummm, Just because she decided to be born again

aurxtino:
IT difficult for a lady to confess to a man that he is the best and all she's ever wished for to have in a man right? My gf told me this several times and even told some of her friends too that i am the best man for her, but this decision she took is getting me confused, to her she said she wants to focus on her church activities, which i know her too well that there is a little comma there if you get what i am trying to say.

MhizAJ:
What's wrong with youth of this generation

How can a relationship be built on sex and money

If there's no sex in the relationship will men die? I don't understand

If she's a virgin and she's saying she doesn't want sex then respect her decision even if she's not still respect her decision

Men especially Nigerian men don't have regard for ladies...They don't know how to apply wisdom in relationship...I can't deal!

They think they can use money to just trap women

lefulefu:
She's no longer into you bro

MhizAJ:
What's wrong with youth of this generation

How can a relationship be built on sex and money

If there's no sex in the relationship will men die? I don't understand

If she's a virgin and she's saying she doesn't want sex then respect her decision even if she's not still respect her decision

Men especially Nigerian men don't have regard for ladies...They don't know how to apply wisdom in relationship...I can't deal!

They think they can use money to just trap women

mistyebby:
She needs you to take the relationship serious! Marry her! If you are couples, she can't deny you sex. If I may ask, how much do you give her that can be compared to her chastity? If you need sex get it the proper way.

Twoclans:





Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

mistyebby:
She needs you to take the relationship serious! Marry her! If you are couples, she can't deny you sex. If I may ask, how much do you give her that can be compared to her chastity? If you need sex get it the proper way.

mistyebby:
She needs you to take the relationship serious! Marry her! If you are couples, she can't deny you sex. If I may ask, how much do you give her that can be compared to her chastity? If you need sex get it the proper way.