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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Able4christ(m): 10:22am On Feb 17, 2018

Incase she is in the same class with you, she will be trying to comment on everything you talk. Just from my experience .

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by yashau(m): 10:23am On Feb 17, 2018

EdenChuk:
God! I feel miserable...like I'm feeling now!

Baby what happen? cheer up or u can dm me.... let talk

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by mvem(m): 10:24am On Feb 17, 2018

Viicfuntop:

How

...why keep quiet and not show interest believing the guy should somehow automatically know as if he reads minds

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:25am On Feb 17, 2018

[quote author=Randy91 post=65137749][/quote]

Ouch! That hurt! OK, I love you.

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 10:25am On Feb 17, 2018

WowSweetGuy:
Question for ladies but na guys go still full thread. I think Nigerian ladies are kinda too preserved in a low way, not intellectual,not too smart and dont know how to really communicate but are very good at asking boyfriend for money and dressing up to go get fvcked somewhere. Thats all

you are right, intelligent naija ladies are very very scarce

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by 2lateBiafra: 10:26am On Feb 17, 2018

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Peter1900(m): 10:26am On Feb 17, 2018

...JUST PASSING ANYWAY...

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by BdorianGray(m): 10:27am On Feb 17, 2018

AntiBrutus:
The thread is directed at ladies, with over 90% comments from males and some of them dissing females. This is the exact reason women don't even tell men anything in reality. They can't shut up and allow you talk. Damn!

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by zinaunreal(m): 10:28am On Feb 17, 2018

Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside.

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there

Ive watched alot of them suffer .lol . I enjoy it like mad. They eventually wear themselves off and go. Only the bold make the move

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Ellabae(f): 10:28am On Feb 17, 2018

I feel bad whenever I see him but sometimes I have to summon courage to tell him. Good or bad

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:28am On Feb 17, 2018

nairalanduseles:

you never will get what u want.......u need to wake up to urself Cinderella

No, some of us are traditional at heart. It just doesn't sound right to me.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobodys(f): 10:28am On Feb 17, 2018

WowSweetGuy:
Question for ladies but na guys go still full thread. I think Nigerian ladies are kinda too preserved in a low way, not intellectual,not too smart and dont know how to really communicate but are very good at asking boyfriend for money and dressing up to go get fvcked somewhere. Thats all

stop spewing thrash. not too smart, not intelligent.. really??.... depends on d babes u roll with...stop d generalizations....

This is a topic I wud love to contribute to buh well nl kip losing it daily. A topic like this is supposed to be filled with comments from ladies buh these guys won't even let d girls talk first...they rushed into the thread spewing thrash and saying nonsense for a question that wasn't directed to them... reason y most researchers don't take this forum serious.......we are supposed to behave mature buh well o guess that's impossible.

now to the topic...... I find myself in the mess most times, am currently in it now and am like, how do i tell this guy....it feels depressing though, not being able to express my feelings . and it's not because am scared or something...it's just that d love is almost impossible..........

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 17, 2018

Most of the time it's not love. It's infatuation and lust. True love is built carefully and nurtured to grow. People just throw the word love around anyhow these days

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by braine(m): 10:31am On Feb 17, 2018

Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside.

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Sike(m): 10:33am On Feb 17, 2018

Ladies thread. I'm out

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 10:33am On Feb 17, 2018

Nobodys:
stop spewing thrash. not too smart, not intelligent.. really??.... depends on d babes u roll with...stop d generalizations....

This is a topic I wud love to contribute to buh well nl kip losing it daily. A topic like this is supposed to be filled with comments from ladies buh these guys won't even let d girls talk first...they rushed into the thread spewing thrash and saying nonsense for a question that wasn't directed to them... reason y most researchers don't take this forum serious.......we are supposed to behave mature buh well o guess that's impossible.

now to the topic...... I find myself in the mess most times, am currently in it now and am like, how do i tell this guy....it feels depressing though, not being able to express my feelings . and it's not because am scared or something...it's just that d love is almost impossible..........

It's appalling.
They won't allow the ladies comment, if you even dare comment...before you refresh, they must quote you with nonsense. Too many kids in this section.

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by nairalanduseles: 10:33am On Feb 17, 2018

XhosaNostra:

No, some of us are traditional at heart. It just doesn't sound right to me.

i hope ur traditional enough to
cook
clean
take care of the home
and be submissive to ur man

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by sexdoll: 10:34am On Feb 17, 2018

Any girl that tells a man she loves him is in serious trouble already.

And this is because the man will not value her again.

The male ego is so vain glory.

A woman telling a man she's in love with him will only stoke that male ego to the highest.

Thus making the man feel like he's on top of the world.

And when you're on top of the world; naturally you start looking down on others... starting from the very same girl who gave you that feeling.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 10:35am On Feb 17, 2018

Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside.

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there

Cheii.... see wickedness o

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by byemx06(m): 10:36am On Feb 17, 2018

Viicfuntop:
I tell him but never use the word love. Rather I flirt with him so that he comes to me on his own. For example I stare at him a lot and once our eyes meet, I look away. That’s just the trigger that a guy needs to walk up to me.

Ok that’s a lie. I die inside.

u sabi the game ..........

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobodys(f): 10:37am On Feb 17, 2018

AntiBrutus:

It's appalling.
They won't allow the ladies comment, if you even dare comment...before you refresh, they must quote you with nonsense. Too many kids in this section.

...sure thing dear. kids are too much here.....

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 10:38am On Feb 17, 2018

XhosaNostra:

Ouch! That hurt! OK, I love you.

I hate u

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by kirchofff(m): 10:39am On Feb 17, 2018

alexistaiwo:
It takes a great deal of maturity from a guy to keep a woman's dignity intact after she makes the first move on him.

Cultivate that act of maturity and no woman will ever be out of your league.

And some people wonder why I keep having an endless supply of potential dates. What is maturity in this sense?

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by addictiv(m): 10:42am On Feb 17, 2018

I have never asked a girl out, don't need to cos they do the asking. It has always been like that. they come off as sweet little angels at first but when they are turned down they become ur worst enemy. They start hating u for no reason. Back in the days one went as far as going to meet my folks while I was in uni and telling them I was spending hundreds of thousands on a school chick. Just to get me in trouble with my folks. Another one started stalking my then gf and threatened to embarrass her publicly. So now whenever they ask, I say yes and then switch to arsehole mode and the sensible ones eventually get tired and walk away on their own. Hell hath no fury than a turned down chick,
Another thing I noticed is that whenever a girl asks you out she will never believe that you also did genuinely like her. Whenever you have an argument she will start saying "it's because I asked u out that's why u re behaving like this" even when she is at fault. Discovered it's also used as a ploy to manipulate and make u give in. But like someone said earlier. It's fun to see them die inside and if u just dangle a little bait for them, they will burst open like a volcano.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:43am On Feb 17, 2018

nairalanduseles:

i hope ur traditional enough to
cook
clean
take care of the home
and be submissive to ur man

TBH, I believe in gender roles. Like, I believe a woman should be able to do certain things. I don't understand it when a lady cannot cook etc. I take pride in doing some of the things you mentioned because I like a clean house & I like to eat.

On being submissive, with me you get the respect you deserve. I will NOT bend over backwards for you if you don't deserve it. Sorry but not sorry.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Gangster1ms: 10:44am On Feb 17, 2018

NoDulling4here:

You wicked sha.........

Luiz1:
Cheii.... see wickedness o

You like woman na you go toast.. woman like you na you go still toast. Them swear for men? grin

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by nairalanduseles: 10:45am On Feb 17, 2018

XhosaNostra:

TBH, I believe in gender roles. Like, I believe a woman should be able to do certain things. I don't understand it when a lady cannot cook etc. I take pride in doing some of the things you mentioned because I like a clean house & I like to eat.

On being submissive, with me you get the respect you deserve. I will NOT bend over backwards for ybou if don't deserve. Sorry but not sorry.

a true african traditionalist respects her man unconditionally

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Fabulousgal(f): 10:46am On Feb 17, 2018

alexistaiwo:
It takes a great deal of maturity from a guy to keep a woman's dignity intact after she makes the first move on him.

Cultivate that act of maturity and no woman will ever be out of your league.

And some people ask why I keep having an endless supply of potential dates.

I wish every guy would be matured enough to respect a woman's feelings wen she makes the moves.
Some guys see it as an opportunity to want to 'dig' bc dats the first message it sends.
Lets try to change our orientation and mindset abt a woman's moves.
I raised this as a topic somewhere n i was surprised to see ladies criticise the act, bt i got more support frm the guys. I am pretty sure that some of the experiences d female folks had wasn't funny n dats y they prefared to die in silent.
Guys make una still help us to make this a reality. We also need to have wot we wish for.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:46am On Feb 17, 2018

Randy91:

I hate u

Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:48am On Feb 17, 2018

nairalanduseles:

a true african traditionalist respects her man unconditionally

Only if he respects me too.

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