THE REASON LADIES DNT USE TO EXPRESS THEMSELF OR THEIR FEELINGS TO GUYZ WAS WHEN THEY DO SUCH A THIN WHEN THEY COME HAVE LIKE TWO OR MORE SEX INTERCOURSE, THE GUY WIL JUST ABANDONE HER AND LUK FOR ANODA FRERH CHICKS.

Eglobalma:


NIGERIAN FEMALES ARE SO USELESS. YALL JUST PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE

Eglobalma:


NIGERIAN FEMALES ARE SO USELESS. YALL JUST PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE

NO WE CAN'T

Nobodys:
stop spewing thrash. not too smart, not intelligent.. really??.... depends on d babes u roll with...stop d generalizations....


This is a topic I wud love to contribute to buh well nl kip losing it daily. A topic like this is supposed to be filled with comments from ladies buh these guys won't even let d girls talk first...they rushed into the thread spewing thrash and saying nonsense for a question that wasn't directed to them... reason y most researchers don't take this forum serious.......we are supposed to behave mature buh well o guess that's impossible.


now to the topic...... I find myself in the mess most times, am currently in it now and am like, how do i tell this guy....it feels depressing though, not being able to express my feelings . and it's not because am scared or something...it's just that d love is almost impossible..........

you not said anything.

trustyshoess:

Exactly! People are so obsessed with the Hollywood fantasy idea of "Love at first sight " which doesn't exist. It's the idea of being with that hourglass figured girl or that muscular guy that they're are in love with, not the actual person.
I totally agree with you

Na the simple truth.

So many sins/mistakes have been committed in the name of love...

Ive bin on d receiving end of ds repeatedly couple of times.

My major concern was nd still is making a babes understand dt man has d right to say NO

They don't just get it, they just believe ones they get out of dia "box" u shld just grab it in.

U can't date every guy dt likes u, same applies to d guy.

I've even bin viewing ds topic for hints to handle such situations as peacefully as possible

Some can be relentless nd stubborn..

Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside.

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there

trustyshoess:

Exactly! People are so obsessed with the Hollywood fantasy idea of "Love at first sight " which doesn't exist. It's the idea of being with that hourglass figured girl or that muscular guy that they're are in love with, not the actual person.
I totally agree with you

I like you can we be friends?

XhosaNostra:

I'd rather leave it to fate.

ehrh xup

sunnysunny69:
That woman that loves you but can't tell you need to go learn from mama. When a woman want you, she will get you, they have so many tools at their disposal , seduction is one of them. This is from a male perspective though .

The guy fall down dey do press up. Which kind suffering be this?

If na me, I go show am say I fall from the gym machine. Make she use her soft hand take touch me biko

Nobodys:
stop spewing thrash. not too smart, not intelligent.. really??.... depends on d babes u roll with...stop d generalizations....


This is a topic I wud love to contribute to buh well nl kip losing it daily. A topic like this is supposed to be filled with comments from ladies buh these guys won't even let d girls talk first...they rushed into the thread spewing thrash and saying nonsense for a question that wasn't directed to them... reason y most researchers don't take this forum serious.......we are supposed to behave mature buh well o guess that's impossible.


now to the topic...... I find myself in the mess most times, am currently in it now and am like, how do i tell this guy....it feels depressing though, not being able to express my feelings . and it's not because am scared or something...it's just that d love is almost impossible..........

You stop living the day you can't express yourself. If you truly like this guy, tell him.
Take care pretty.

trustyshoess:
Most of the time it's not love. It's infatuation and lust. True love is built carefully and nurtured to grow. People just throw the word love around anyhow these days

Yeah! I agree. Most times its love in the panties not love in the heart. In this day and age the the word love is a misnomer for lust.

Martin0:


ehrh xup

Good. How are things your side?

Luiz1:
No be say u go toast am na as she don already dey toasted.... Na to just dey roll the game dey go bro.

It depends... some you will still av to toast cos despite the fact they love u and they av been showing green light they will want u to show some kind seriousness so that they won't look cheap.. the good news is that u won't av to work too hard for that.

IYANGBALI:
baaaaaaaaaad guy. I love your style chop knuckle. Na the thing wey I dey do labake1 be dat and she is dying in silence

Y are you sounding like FriendofPeace

Oh God! This reminds me if an incident that took place

In Church I always notice dis slayer staring at me those ones that form one dirty forming giving me enough green light but I was not just interested it was actualy irritating but seems the less interested I get d more she flashes with her cat walk, skimpy dresses, finding my sit position n sitting close by. One faithful Sunday I got fed up with it, talked with her, obliged to take her home, stopped by an eatery that uses complete set of cutleries, ordered fried rice chicken n salad come n see drama

Chai! Some women sha

trustyshoess:

Exactly! People are so obsessed with the Hollywood fantasy idea of "Love at first sight " which doesn't exist. It's the idea of being with that hourglass figured girl or that muscular guy that they're are in love with, not the actual person.
I totally agree with you

Kindly permit me to disagree with you on this one- Love at first sight does exist. I think it is called Déjà vu! . In my own words, Lovers that were in a dharmic relationship in a past existence reunited at first sight in a current life. Like a reenactment of the same blissful love of their past life.

Nobodys:
stop spewing thrash. not too smart, not intelligent.. really??.... depends on d babes u roll with...stop d generalizations....


This is a topic I wud love to contribute to buh well nl kip losing it daily. A topic like this is supposed to be filled with comments from ladies buh these guys won't even let d girls talk first...they rushed into the thread spewing thrash and saying nonsense for a question that wasn't directed to them... reason y most researchers don't take this forum serious.......we are supposed to behave mature buh well o guess that's impossible.


now to the topic...... I find myself in the mess most times, am currently in it now and am like, how do i tell this guy....it feels depressing though, not being able to express my feelings . and it's not because am scared or something...it's just that d love is almost impossible..........

Nothing is impossible dear, just try at all. The guy might be feeling the sane with u. Or is inferiority complex having the better side of u?

trustyshoess:
Most of the time it's not love. It's infatuation and lust. True love is built carefully and nurtured to grow. People just throw the word love around anyhow these days

Learning a new thing from u

sunnysunny69:
That woman that loves you but can't tell you need to go learn from mama. When a woman want you, she will get you, they have so many tools at their disposal , seduction is one of them. This is from a male perspective though .

ok

girls are ready to spproach but hardly do so as a result of the indisciplined and childish attitude of some boys

some guys are childish,that's why the girls will never approach

Hmmmmmm...Speak the word and that prayer point might just come to pass....Fate doesn't answer all calls atimes.


W=

XhosaNostra:


I'd rather leave it to fate.

ok

Johnsown1:


Nothing is impossible dear, just try at all. The guy might be feeling the sane with u. Or is inferiority complex having the better side of u?

far from it.....it's impossible...I know why am using dat word ....it's actually impossible dear.

This girl gave me green light so tey... I fall in love, but could not approach her, she knows sha... But was still a kid then, got her 2go username somehow, she knows I'm the one, I told her I wan to see her, she said no chance, eh Ehn, Oya I want to tell you something, she said I should forget it that she doesn't want to know... She even updated status that "just forget about me "...i almost wan die... After she don make me fall in love finish.

trustyshoess:
Most of the time it's not love. It's infatuation and lust. True love is built carefully and nurtured to grow. People just throw the word love around anyhow these days

I celebrate you.

Here to read comments

Seenyo:
2 ladies had asked me out;
my cousin and a former course mate!.

Did you go out with your cousin?

karli4nia:


Kindly permit me to disagree with you on this one- Love at first sight does exist. I think it is called Déjà vu! . In my own words, Lovers that were in a dharmic relationship in a past existence reunited at first sight in a current life. Like a reenactment of the same blissful love of their past life.

Well seeing as I don't believe in the idea of reincarnation, I stand by my assertion

labake1:




Y are you sounding like FriendofPeace

a mo ra wa o,ta ba ri ra wa

Martin0:


I like you can we be friends?

Sure

[quote author=alexistaiwo post=65137281]It takes a great deal of maturity from a guy to keep a woman's dignity intact after she makes the first move on him.

Cultivate that act of maturity and no woman will ever be out of your league.



And some people wonder why I keep having an endless supply of potential dates.

#alex, i need some clue on how to get an endless supply of potential dates. can u help?