FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me start by telling you, YOU ARE AMAZING!
You are what you are, A Gay, Beautiful man.
No amount of prayers and anointing oils would change that, but it's okay. Your god obviously made you that way. In his words, he created man in his own image. You're his image, and your sexuality too.


Stop torturing yourself. Go find love and happiness. Embrace your sexuality. Find a dude. It is who you are. If you eventually meet God and he judges You, ask him why he didn't change you. His fault, not yours.

PS- Send me a message. A DM. We need to talk. Suicide isn't the option. Life's too short to feel this way. Pursue those Orgasms, boy!

You are mad. He is struggling with a heavy burden and you are encouraging him to embrace homosexuality. Something tells you you are hip right ?

correctguy0900:


Seems the guy already found a partner here. So case solved. So go yee and bang ur anus off

Simpleton..

Deicide:
Lol see this one

what happened to this one?

Rozaytee:
very bad advice

Baba give your own advice and don't call mine bad jarey.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Baba give your own advice and don't call mine bad jarey.

some one is trying to get out of a problem and u are advising him to embrace it....u dont have sense

Shankieboy:
thank you, Queen. Already added you on Facebook.

I hope I come to terms with my Sexuality soon. Don't know if I ever would.

You're not in anyway ready to let go of this disgusting act, did you read her comment? And u thanked and followed her, follow her to do what? Someone who said you should embrace the filthy act that's killing you.

Some people are just mad!!!!

Vinx4Christ:



Bro u can dm me let's talk
You can as well read Roman's chapters 4 to 8 twice daily and pray in tongues at least 1 hour every day
Blessed

"Pray in tongues" . Do you people think that Westerners haven't tried all the concept known to man before they accepted gays? No they didn't wake up one morning and just accept gays. They tried Churches, flogging, electric therapy, conversion therapy, conversion camps, death, rebirth therapy and so on... but guess what? None of that worked, and they gave up and accepted them as part of society and the earlier we do so, the better.

Deicide:

Lol see this one

One thing I like about u lots is dat u feel so civilized whereas u civilization or whatever u think it is starts and ends on nairaland.

Daeylar:


As for the god you are praying to.
Don't mind that unserious God that says he doesn't like homosexuals but still created you as one. ( PS he doesn't exist )

Lol i thought you were a Liberal Christian

Rozaytee:
some one is trying to get out over a problem and u are advising him to embrace....u dont have sense

The fact that he is battling within himself is making him suicidal. You are actually very stupid if you cant take a moment to assimilate his issues.

Shankieboy:
thank you, Queen. Already added you on Facebook.

I hope I come to terms with my Sexuality soon. Don't know if I ever would.

really?.... u are gonna follow that path instead of seeking change......u think u will change by fasting and prayer.... better get a psychologist to table ur matter......I have seen someone who changed entirely from being gay to straight and from straight to complete gay.... nothing like " in-built sexuality"....... it's has to do with ur head...that's y u need a well trained psychologist to put u through therapy.......

FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me start by telling you, YOU ARE AMAZING!
You are what you are, A Gay, Beautiful man.
No amount of prayers and anointing oils would change that, but it's okay. Your god obviously made you that way. In his words, he created man in his own image. You're his image, and your sexuality too.


Stop torturing yourself. Go find love and happiness. Embrace your sexuality. Find a dude. It is who you are. If you eventually meet God and he judges You, ask him why he didn't change you. His fault, not yours.

PS- Send me a message. A DM. We need to talk. Suicide isn't the option. Life's too short to feel this way. Pursue those Orgasms, boy!

Fluidqueen

FluidQueen:
so, This Comment is HEAVEN!

You make me blush

LZAA:

another fairytale in *surprise surprise* romance section
back to the fairytale op hve u wondered why trannys are banned from the army in the states?u know the liberal states?
cuz the behaviour is not normal.
most homos are victims of child abuse(sexual) or straight pervs.
homo was,is and shall continue to be abnormal.
how person fit get sexual relations with im fellow man instead of better kitten is beyond me

Shut the hell up mister.. a federal cou4t ruled that Trump's executive order won't take place. The US Constitution clearly states that all human being have the right to pursue happiness. So Trumpity lost!! Even his secretary of Defense didn't defend the law... lol.

Martin0:


we aren't still connecting well unlike last year .

let talk offline .

OK

Deicide:

Lol i thought you were a Liberal Christian

Lol not a Christian at all, why did you think so?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Perversion? But the op is a devoted Christian. Why do u think some guy behave like sissys from early age?

Of course behaviour is learned but not always 100% so, some of it is innate especially temperamental disposition. Some kids steal like adults, some kids smoke, some kids have committed atrocities. Would you affirm such behaviours just for the fact that they set in early?
My point is I don't believe and I disagree that homosexuality is good because one 'feels'
that they are attracted to the same sex. The same I sometimes feel to kill my enemies, but I don't because it is 'wrong'...

bola4dprec:
Fluidqueen

hello?

Topestbilly:


You're not in anyway ready to let go of this disgusting act, did you read her comment? And u thanked and followed her, follow her to do what? Someone who said you should embrace the filthy act that's killing you.

Tope if it were easy to flip the switch, we won't have homosexuals in Nigeria. He needs someone to lead him out. Anyways, God can do it.

Why are feminist always accepting and even encouraging men to be gay??
Could it be that they want to eliminate REAL MEN from our society?
Their plan is to leave the human society filled with weak men, girly boys and transgenders.
This is the future that feminism offers the human race!
Smh

Daeylar:


You make me blush

It was on my todo list actually.

√√ done and dusted!

Shankieboy:
I was never molested.
I was never initiated.
My orientation started since nursery school.
Gayism wasn't even a thing then.
It was never learned.
I never knew I wasn't alone till years ago.

i need to ask you again.When you are young did you suffered from 'peer rejection' and 'peer isolation',or your father possess some of these traits;cold attitude,distant,selfish or aggresive father.Which could lead to loss of"masculine".If you didnt tick the above factors then it may not be a psycho sexual development issue as a child growing up or environmental factors as i thought.Rather,it may be a biological disorder which i fear has a more long term consequence in changing your sexual orientation.

Daeylar:


Lol not a Christian at all, why did you think so?

I guess from your previous post. You never used the word explicitly that "God doesn't Exist"

FluidQueen:
It was on my todo list actually.

√√ done and dusted!

Really , awww I feel so special

Congrats Op.
How many PMs in your inbox now ?

Daeylar:



Nobody should dare insult you.
If they do, they are mad.

You are OK. There is nothing wrong with you, it just that you live in a society where people think homosexuality is wrong, but you need to know that there is nothing wrong with your sexuality.


As for the god you are praying to.
Don't mind that unserious God that says he doesn't like homosexuals but still created you as one. ( PS he doesn't exist )

Stop being so hard on yourself, don't allow yourself wallow in depression,
There is nothing wrong with you,

Wish you the best, and wish you happiness and peace, so you can get out of depression

Be honest...Would you wish for a gay or lesbian child...

ibksiv:

Of course behaviour is learned but not always 100% so, some of it is innate especially temperamental disposition. Some kids steal like adults, some kids smoke, some kids have committed atrocities. Would you say those kids are natural devil's?
My point is I don't believe and I disagree that homosexuality is good because one 'feels'
that they are attracted to the same sex. The same I sometimes feel to kill my enemies, but I don't because it is 'wrong'...

No one should misconstrue my Posts. Never said loving same sex is good. But I leave the judging to God d ultimate Judge

fifty5:
Don't let people mislead you. being attracted to same gender is abnormal it is a learned behaviour and you can unlearn it. Let me know your family history first.all you need is a psychological and sociological intervention.

....my bro I am very well against homosexuality but I hv studied it in details...for years science hv been struggling to find a solution with no result, that's why now they accept it as an anamoly that can't be changed.... Many hv come up with different psychologically, neurologically and even spiritual solutions but none are conclusive.... For me I don't have anything to say....but he may try different methods including the spiritual aspects but they are no guarantees.....maybe more researches can be studied but our society will already judge him..it will be difficult to have a solution in our kind environment/society where almost all are homophobic, including me

donstan18:


You are a DEVOTED christian battling with homosexual feelings, I think there's something you ain't telling us.

Tell us, how did it start?
Did you attend a seminary school?
Were you intimidated and molested by anyone?
Have you checked your family history?
What fear pushed you into it?
How many of your friends are aware of this?
Are your parents and siblings aware?
Since you are alternating, why not open up and tell more, for people to know how to direct, advice and lead you.




Sometimes, there are issues we just don't facelessly or privately solve, no matter how hard we try.

I'll advice you to tell your family members about this, your pastor(if you have one), some of your male friends(especially the rugged and women type of ones), tell some of your female friends(The naughty ones).

, it MIGHT help.

I know how hard it will be for you to open up, I know how much gays are being condemned in our society, but you'v got to brave up and look for solution to your problem, remember it's your happiness we typing about.

I hope and pray you get out of this, brO

Goodluck!

How did it start?

wrong question. That's his nature. Guy is trying to find a cure to a screwed aspect of his nature. He can't answer d question but he can go astray trying.

FluidQueen:
Simpleton..

Ozwo

LostMyZeal:



Be honest...Would you wish for a gay or lesbian child...

Be honest if you do have one what would you do? or even better if you were told while your was wife was pregnant that the child is gonna be gay would you abort it?