NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Ehen! Alas someone with an objective scope of the matter

if only he answer some of those question.I could deduce his social antecedent towards that line of sexual orientation.

1Sharon:
So you are dis gay ting

meaning?

Homosexuality is not natural". As in, not in consonance with original nature. It is a fallout of human degeneration. Every degeneration of man has its roots in demonology.
The Op's loss of peace in his state of affliction is a comforting signal that he has not totally lost his spiritual bearings in life. Redemption is available and it is free. But woe unto the soul who calls good as bad and bad as good. Woe also unto undefined disoriented personalities who assault people simply because they restate what the most high has long stated

Shut up. You're saying thrash.

JustCalMeDBoss:
@ op pls embrace ur situation. u see ur female chromosome are very high that's d issue. pls read about f science of homosexuality. ignorance is a big problem in this part of the world. though ppl like u are outcast u have to maneuver ur way. if u know u are truly homosexual, reach out
to kind. so u don't molest anyone.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I think you should embrace what you are.

keep deceiving yourself!

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

you are nt been homosexual,you just have a high labido...... It's aour sex drive that is killing you just like masturbation.... The only solution to this is for you to get married ASAP if you can,so you won't compromise your faith!! Trust me when one calabar girl ride that thing for you with reverse cow-girl ,bros your system go factory reset!!!! Been a gay is stupidity,don't take it as an options,think of yourself as an agama trying to mate another agama!!!

Witnesstony28:

I don't think there is any thing wrong with sharing it. Sin dwell and thrive in secrecy.

The problem is he shared it at the wrong place, why share ur problem dat is weighing down on u with people who tells u "it is normal", "that is d way God made u" etc. He shared it with d wrong people, people who care very less about your life, people who can't actually differenciate between their left and right but living in fallacy, people who are even searching for gay partners etc. That is my point, he should met people who are against what is fighting u so dat they can help u out.

Gays and lesbians are sinners and they will go to hell if they don't repent...

freshkpomo:
you are nt been homosexual,you just have a high labido...... It's aour sex drive that is killing you just like masturbation.... The only solution to this is for you to get married ASAP if you can,so you won't compromise your faith!! Trust me when one calabar girl ride that thing for you with reverse cow-girl ,bros your system go factory reset!!!! Been a gay is stupidity,don't take it as an options,think of yourself as an agama trying to mate another agama!!!

You just made my day with this. I needed the comedic relief

walepackage:
yes there is a solution to it if it stems from psycho sexual disorder when growing as a child or environmental factors.But,if it is biological as in 'innate'as believed by some behaviourists, then its a bit dicey to profer a solution to the sexual orientation.But,its not totally imposible

...but almost impossible abi...our society is not equipped to handle this and u know it...

Homosexuality is a sin against God and humanity. Don't listen to any one who says anything contrary. Lev 18:20, Rom 1:27-28.It is an abomination for a man to be drawn sexually to another man. Have you noticed that not even animals practice it . Remember God created Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve!

I am happy that you seek to be delivered and if you are ready follow these steps.

1.Rededicate your life to Jesus Christ by confessing him as Lord and Savior. Ask him to take over your life.

2. Ask God to forgive you of the sin of Homosexuality.
3. Fast and pray for 3 days to subdue your flesh and make sure to study the bible. . Believe that God has forgiven you and begin to confess Mark 16:17 and James 4:7 like this. I believe that Jesus Christ is Lord and according to his word I cast out of my life every unclean spirit, every demon of Homosexuality I resist you and command you to come out of my body in Jesus name.

Finally close every opportunity through which that immoral desire can rise up again. Cut off every relationship that has anything to do with it. Don't engage in pornography, immoral conversation, chatting that you know is dirty.
When ever such thoughts come to you resist it by praying against it . Tell the devil all of that is now in my past. I have received forgiveness and set free.

Find a Church where the word of God is preached, taught and practised.Become an active member and a doer of the word.May you overcome this challenge and fulfill your divine purpose as a member of the body of Christ in Jesus name.

shineeye1:
Homosexuality is not natural". As in, not in consonance with original nature. It is a fallout of human degeneration. Every degeneration of man has its roots in demonology.
The Op's loss of peace in his state of affliction is a comforting signal that he has not totally lost his spiritual orientation in life. Redemption is available and it is free. But woe unto the soul who calls good as bad and bad as good. Woe also unto undefined disoriented personalities who assault people simply because they restate what the most high has long stated

U can see some people fed with stupid biology analysing stupid chromosomes and DNA theory which they can't actually write a full page off hand about spewing thrash that it is normal, how God made u, embrace ur nature, with that we should agree that God made thiefs to be thiefs, ritualists and others the way they are.

oloriooko:

Devoted Christian my foot
If you like die fasting it won't move God an inch
You are supposed to be tied to a pawpaw tree and beat the demon out of your coconut head
Those supporting you are worse than you so you better get your head right and stop the rubbish
Omo ale akotileta alainironu oponu agbaya

really?r u guys this demented?

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

..

stupid fellow... I can't even allow my fellow gender to get close to me not to thinking of developing feeling for them, boy u are going for damnation, stop watching porn movies and make use of ur spare time, if you are less busy will be prone indecency , get ur self busy & watch hunger for sex reduce drastically

NwaAmaikpe:



People think I am partial because I love lesbians and detest gays.

Don't think I am judging you because I already did.
All homosexuals will go to hell but lesbians will not because they are naturally wired to be at least bisexual.

Sadly, you can't change who you are. It's ingrained in your chromosomes.
You were predestined to be amongst the condemned.

Just enjoy your life and embrace who you are while you await your judgement in the afterlife.

Is this a solution?

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

Dont expect to get any reasonable advice from religious NLanders who don't understand your case.
Get yourself a bf, but dont make this public. This is Nigeria and they will lynch you. You can work towards a long term plan of relocating towards homo tolerating Country.

mvem:
....my bro I am very well against homosexuality but I hv studied it in details...for years science hv been struggling to find a solution with no result, that's why now they accept it as an anamoly that can't be changed.... Many hv come up with different psychologically, neurologically and even spiritual solutions but none are conclusive.... For me I don't have anything to say....but he may try different methods including the spiritual aspects but they are no guarantees.....maybe more researches can be studied but our society will already judge him..it will be difficult to have a solution in our kind environment/society where almost all are homophobic, including me

yes i understand where you are coming from that the aforementioned subject has defy all sort of solution but it can be ammeliorated through some techniques let's not forget these are behaviorial tendencies it might be influenced by the environment

efesodje:


You just made my day with this. I needed the comedic relief

ahahhahahah bros d guy never know him problem!!! By the time one dude drive 11inches into that him shit-hole, him eye clear lol...

VirginFinder:
Gays and lesbians are sinners and they will go to hell if they don't repent...

...repent as in how?...seems u don't understand...is no choice for most, is just what it is, how they feel....some hate themselves for this and contemplate suicide...if it was easy to choose they would hv be non-homosexuals....I am against it but sometimes I reason what the solutions might be....just as u see a woman and like what u see, same too for them but the other way round, is not something u just stop feeling...is neurologically, I think more research should be done about this and how it can be treated if there is....

Bullhari007:
stupid fellow... I can't even allow my fellow gender to get close to me not to thinking of developing feeling for them, boy u are going for damnation, stop watching porn movies and make use of ur spare time, if you are less busy will be prone indecency , get ur self busy & watch hunger for sex reduce drastically

STFU b"tch. How does porn make someone gay? Are the vast majority of people who watch porn gay. Were you thinking through your ass when you typed that?
Can you put yourself into another person's shoes? Do you think he CHOSE to be gay especially in a country like Nigeria?

fifty5:
yes i understand where you are coming from that the aforementioned subject has defy all sort of solution but it can be ammeliorated through some techniques let's not forget these are behaviorial tendencies it might be influenced by the environment

...some are innate (born with), some are learned...that's in schools or being abused at a young age...the innate ones is more genetic I think, will be very very difficult to alter...like I said, the result of failed experiments and researches had made the west to accept it as a normal tin

Lesbians have flooded this thread with 'embrace what you are 'slogan.
There is power in the blood of Jesus Christ to deliver you. Just show enough hunger and thirst for righteousness.

Unfortunately, there is no dislike button on nairaland.


People should stop misleading others with their comments.


OP, your case is a serious one. I may not be able to give you a proper solution to your problem, however, my little advice to you is that, 'don't listen to people encouraging gayism.' Also, don't be too hard on yourself(easier said though).


While others may have had no success breaking free from gayism, I believe others have had. Try a google search.

I pray you find a lasting solution soonest.

There are questions man will never be able to answer so they chose to accept their ignorance and wallow in whatever illusions they've spurned for themselves. The same liberal whites who most of you lots worship deemed homosexuality as abnormal and performed chemical castrations on victims of homosexuality but they later realized that homosexuality is one of the many things we can't understand. So they consoled themselves,made up theories which the vast homosexual sympathizers in Nigeria don't even understand but blindly follow..they made up the theories to stop the castrations and killings of homosexuals so that at least until a cure is found,the victims would live safe lives devoid of constant abuse because of orientations they never wanted. Homosexuality and it's kins will get their cure someday but until then let us all pretend they are normal so that everybody can live happy lives. Go and seek asylum bro,if you think you're past therapy. Nigeria is not a place for homosexuality

Daeylar:


Oh, OK then,
I don't think god exists though, or at least the Christian God. (As Adepeter2027 told me to always include )

Last time I was a Christian was before I asked Hopefullandlord about loosing faith

Ok cool

I think you need deliverance
It is better to be a cultist and an armed robber than to be a gay.

LostMyZeal:


I believe in God; above all else, & with God nothing is irredeemable...That child or whoever has such inclinations can be healed.

Lol like how SS turns to AA?

Bullhari007:
stupid fellow... I can't even allow my fellow gender to get close to me not to thinking of developing feeling for them, boy u are going for damnation, stop watching porn movies and make use of ur spare time, if you are less busy will be prone indecency , get ur self busy & watch hunger for sex reduce drastically

...you don't get it...they don't choose to be what they are, they even hate themselves...how will someone just decide to have feelings for his gender, it is not so....u need to read more about homosexuality, I don't accept it but it is good to know more so u don't appear ignorant.... And what has porn has to do with making u gay...that's nonsense

You havent contemplated suicide. Just close your eyes and drink otapiapia. Better than drinking spermatozoa

By your explanation, it is a mind thing, You better stop looking at the asses of your fellow men.

Bro, I feel ur pain, go to SCOAN Synagou church of all Nation. get morning water and pray with it, in the mean time start watching Emmanuel TV on DSTV