Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.


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This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

Only you know how much you're worth and what is worth you. The ball is in you court.

My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. That say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are in your own

Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. Thay say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are on your own

icebird25:
My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. That say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are in your own

I bet your mom has never contributed anything to your life since u were born. So sorry about that.

Materialistic fiancée of urs...hope u are ready to satisfy her excesses till death do both of u part.

icebird25:
My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. That say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are in your own

Bro. I want to raise a family.

She loves your money not you.

gabinogem:
Materialistic fiancée of urs...hope u are ready to satisfy her excesses till death do both of u part.

That's exactly my fear, because she knows I can afford that, tomorrow might be something more bigger

You don't want to spend too much yet your budget is 2M! 2M! Just 2M!!! God, you are on the throne and I look to you.

@op, please take your time. Why not test her commitment to you first? Cook some stories and claim you may not be able to spend the way you've been spending. See her reaction if she'll stay with you in trying times. But I see a gold digger who only wants your money though.

Don't marry a woman who will give you conditions. That's not how to be a partner.

Bridezilla.

Sometimes the present is the precursor of the future, so keep that in mind, in whatever you decide to do.

Personally I don't like ultimatums & threats. She wouldn't get a dime out of me with that attitude. I dislike when people act like you're dependent on them for oxygen.

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER... Biko just give her the money. issorite

What is freakin alright in giving that extortioner such a huge sum
What a lousy thief!

My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding).

From the above, it is obvious you are the boastful type..You have also mentioned in your post that you believe she is making that demand because she knows you have it..if thats the case, why seekin our opinion on the issue?
Your woman sometimes is exactly who you want her to be..

Some people and attention seeking sha..

Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.

nancyv:

I bet your mom has never contributed anything to your life since u were born. So sorry about that.

What is this one saying

Genuine love is UNCONDITIONAL!!!

It's marriage not bondage!

bidv:
That's exactly my fear, because she knows I can afford that, tomorrow might be something more bigger

I hope the love u have for her is worth more than ur life savings... smh

2m? That's much..anyway that's extortion. And am guessing it didn't start now.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

The woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

The woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.

Now I know you are a baad guy! lol

Never ever ever beg nor give in to threats and blackmail just to keep a relationship alive, you will eventually become miserable in it...

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

The woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.

And if I ever hear I LOVER HER again from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!

Chief adviser. Advertising adviser. Advising is my hobby. . Issokay

Simple advice, tell her u had 1m before. but Snake swallowed it.

Splinz:

What is freakin alright in giving that extortioner such a huge sum
What a lousy thief!

stop calling somebody's wife thief na...

dannytoe:
Simple advice, tell her u had 1m before. but Snake swallowed it.

lol... na WA oo

You're not yet married she's giving you this condition, well she knows you have the money. Lucky her.

LoL. If I were you, I'll just use common sense to decide on what to do without bringing this simple challenge to the attention of the whole continent. I strongly feel you're just trying to cook up a ridiculous gold digger cock and bull story tho

Good men falling mugu for bad ladies since 0000BC

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

heheheheheheeee....some of your comments are so funny to me..