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Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Heavance(m): 12:10pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
thesicilian:You just nailed it... You only didn't add "with immediate effect" 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Enugufirstson(m): 12:13pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
the best time to come around for us to settle a misunderstanding is after a CHELSEA MATCH.... she should just be sure Chelsea won... then cm around,... no too much talk... our dispute is already settled.. thats me!!!,,, Wify take note |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Heavance(m): 12:14pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
mejai:I hope this work wonders in your marriage (or future marriage). Because this is gasoline in fire again... someone is eating outside already, you are thinking he will ever get hungry in the house again? na wa o |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by realtalk19: 12:17pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Philadelphia: God bless u for this response 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by drealaz24(m): 12:25pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
hotmum: here the truth, forget any advice that says otherwise. if you love your husband and want a happy home. sit him down and go on your knees. plead and ask for forgiveness no matter how silly the problem is. He only wants you to be remorseful about a deed he considered offensive. my 2cent. 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by kokomilala(m): 12:25pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
@realtalk19,I get you, but I'll never advise anybody to divorce their wife or husband. Once married, I think there are no differences that are too irreconcilable to be reconciled. Patience, does a lot of good in this regard. The one who stoops will eventually conquer, even if they have to play the fool for a season. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by realtalk19: 12:28pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
gloria34: hmm it is well. d woman faced her fears and weakness which d husband neva expected . i can assure u its either d man wil repeat his childish behaviors nd look for another weakness to torture u. or he now realises u ar now strong emotionall nd he fears u wil leave him. he may decide to change for good coz he dont know what u ar capable of when nxt he makes his threats. God is ur strength |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by id4sho(m): 12:48pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
edimahgurl:no dulling, God won't pass you by this year |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by kelvinklein219(m): 12:50pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
hotmum:Anytime he is angry don't cook..simple. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Helju: 1:01pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Continue making his meals. When he says he is not eating, sit down and eat that particular food & let him see you eat. Crying & being emotional will not help matters. It has not worked over the years so it will not work now. If this is his usual attitude, then he is just using it to control you cos he knows you will be hurt. My dear, toughen up & don't let your joy be dependent on him eating your food. He is only being controlling. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by DAMMYORES: 1:15pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
thesicilian:You are absolutely right. I remember whenever I and my hubby have misunderstanding, he will say he is not eating but immediately I go to bed, he serve and eat the food I cook for him. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by soonest(f): 1:16pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
samsam2019: Oga, so a woman should not have any right or dignity again because she's married to you. Oya clap for yourself na that you allowed stupid little things to turn into something big that destroyed your marriage or was it solely your wife responsibility to stem the little things. Better lower your ego and make peace with your wife. Imagine you telling lilyfaith that with her mentality, you will be surprised she doesn't have a broken home. Are you free yourself? Or is it only the wives that have broken homes. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Burgerlomo: 1:23pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
thesicilian: Hmm just pray make yah husband no meet Calabar woman 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Nobody: 1:41pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Maybe it's ur manner of approach. U both need to go for counseling...u both got communication issues |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by ImaIma1(f): 1:58pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
The level of maturity and ego vary between different men. Some are not able to handle disputes and would rather shy away using malice and other tactics to avoid addressing the issue. My advice...let him be. You cannot force him to eat. When the malice period elapses,(it surely will)he will come back to his senses and eat. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by queenfav(f): 2:04pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Lol.. Eat the one u can and freeze d rest!When he is tired, he will ask for food. Why will a man punish his wife by not eating food he paid for , who lose? |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by rockyh(m): 2:57pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
hotmum:just make the food n serve him whether he eats it or not leave it there n continue serving him the food once he sees many plates of food left for him untouched surely he will be remorseful about his actions |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
linearity: Thanks |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Nobody: 3:47pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
femi4:Lol |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Nobody: 3:51pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
I can never eat anything prepared by an angry woman.....lai lai |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by agyo(m): 3:52pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Kpele, Just keep apologizing even if he is wrong and you are right. One thing that melt the angry heart is the power of the words SORRY or being apologetic. The man's mind will just soften. But if you are a position prover or always wanting to prove a point, sister u are in for a long thing. Men are proud people o! I must be candid with u. Keep being apologetic, I assure u he will calm down. Sorry eh! I understand how it feel. Cos I did this sometimes ago and could in min heart really felt for my wife, after he apology I then sat a dissect the matter. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Philadelphia: 3:57pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
realtalk19:Thank you. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Creamcustard: 4:04pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
You know he's eating out so why exactly are you worried? If he was fasting or starving it would be different.This not eating thing has been an old school form of emotional torture,once you respond to it by paying attention and getting upset,the offender will keep repeating it forever. When a child throws a tantrum sometimes it's best to.ignore till the child settles down. You may have to toughen up and let this play out till he is tired then you both can sit down and discuss like adults . If you start by always begging even when you are not wrong,he will keep on behaving like this for the rest of your life.How about both of you talking through whatever issues before it escalates to this level.. Cook enough and freeze.All these threats of losing him to another woman,pure nonsense.If he wants to go to another woman he will do it even if you force feed him or hang leg 360 degrees in bed. Live your life and stop giving in to childish acts. If you are desperate though,red pant and bra method are always an option. Not all men are babies,there are truck loads of them who are mature and would rather sit down to trash out issues instead of engaging in infantile nonsense. Good luck. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by lizyb: 4:04pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
MY DEAR MEN ARE FUNNY CREATURES THAT ONE NEEDS PATIENCE TO STAY WITH THEM,IF U HV APOLOGISED AND HE HIS STILL ACTING FUNNY,PLS MOVE ON WITH UR DAY TO DAY RUNNINGS,WHEN HE HIS TIRED NOBODY WILL BEG HIM TO EAT. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by realtalk19: 5:18pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
kokomilala: wat happens when ur patience isnt working. i can tel u xcept if both partieas ar willing to make it work dats where patience and understanding prevails. there ar partners dat ar impossible to work wit no matter hw u try to understand them. may u not marry d devil as a wife or fall into d hands of wrong spouse. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by realtalk19: 5:25pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
agyo: sir dat system only works for some men out there. for some it wil take forever for them to accept apologies even wen wrong until they frustrate u to ur limits. |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by kokomilala(m): 5:51pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
@realtalk19, I get you. � |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by samsam2019: 6:02pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
soonest:madam, I'm separated from my wife and proud to say it anywhere. You know why? So everybody here can learn from our little little mistakes. And I didn't put the blame entirely on my wife. I have my faults too but one thing is certain, the ship has already left the shores. Il be filing for divorce asap. That said, in having a partner men hold all the aces (you can disagree as much as you like). Cos tomorrow I can decide to have another wife. She can't do the same hence all her background running from pillar to post but I know I'm done with her bullshit. In marriage mutual respect is key, in fact it is what we need most. But in a situation where a woman wants to play voltron In a man's house she will be well and truly put in her place P.S I never said women should lose their rights or dignity for marriage. Fact is I get angr when I see people treating their significant other badly or without respect |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by god2good: 8:09pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
hotmum:Not all man can't handle tear, you can use it to get him too |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by valentineuwakwe(m): 8:13pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
GambaOsaka:ok now dnt eat the food but wen month end, you go still bring out money for feeding una and una children....by then you don waste money eating outside |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by valentineuwakwe(m): 8:16pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: my sister u see una women I fear una...I don learn my lesson ooo....even my wife dey beg sef nake small wuarel come so thst dhe go eat all d food for house Thegeneralqueen: my sister u see una women I fear una...I don learn my lesson ooo....even my wife dey beg sef nake small wuarel come so thst dhe go eat all d food for house |
Re: How To Handle Husband That Eats Out When There's A Misunderstanding by Newboss(m): 9:15pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
hotmum:Would you eat the food of someone you're angry with? |
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