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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by DeRay98(m): 2:50pm On Feb 19, 2018
NosoChic:
Hmmm...Very myopic response!

Let's get this right-The reward for being a good girl or bad girl is not a HUSBAND. The reward for being a good boy or bad boy is also not a WIFE.

Marriage is not about "na me first enter"-it should not be competition. This is what makes so many people be under pressure and "settle". When we now hear cases of women stabbing their husbands and husbands beating/cheating on their wives, we blame it on the devil and start getting all religious!

The work doesn't really lie in GETTING MARRIED, IT's STAYING MARRIED that's the hard part.

Spot on.

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by sokera: 2:52pm On Feb 19, 2018
tee59:
Not all of them end up been happily married after wards. Some don't enjoy their homes CU's of their promiscuous life styles. Some of them always regret bn bad den and can't com out to say it but weep within. Bn bad nor good doesn't make a good wife.You only attract who you are and not what you want.
you are wrong , the fact is that some bad girls are damn too lucky and they were able to be with responsible man and some don’t , same goes to good girls too ... a bit of luck is needed because ... 89 percent of men are beast in human body ...

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by sleem2017(m): 2:57pm On Feb 19, 2018
NosoChic:
Hmmm...Very myopic response!

Let's get this right-The reward for being a good girl or bad girl is not a HUSBAND. The reward for being a good boy or bad boy is also not a WIFE.

Marriage is not about "na me first enter"-it should not be competition. This is what makes so many people be under pressure and "settle". When we now hear cases of women stabbing their husbands and husbands beating/cheating on their wives, we blame it on the devil and start getting all religious!

The work doesn't really lie in GETTING MARRIED, IT's STAYING MARRIED that's the hard part.
sokera:
you are wrong , the fact is that some bad girls are damn too lucky and they were able to be with responsible man and some don’t , same goes to good girls too ... a bit of luck is needed because ... 89 percent of men are beast in human body ...
NosoChic:
Hmmm...Very myopic response!

Let's get this right-The reward for being a good girl or bad girl is not a HUSBAND. The reward for being a good boy or bad boy is also not a WIFE.

Marriage is not about "na me first enter"-it should not be competition. This is what makes so many people be under pressure and "settle". When we now hear cases of women stabbing their husbands and husbands beating/cheating on their wives, we blame it on the devil and start getting all religious!

The work doesn't really lie in GETTING MARRIED, IT's STAYING MARRIED that's the hard part.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by dyemida(m): 3:07pm On Feb 19, 2018
Rexnegro:
The guy with the ansa gave nothing but the truth .... I have one friend right now doing mummy girl , she's indeed a good girl but socially derailed , no going out unless mummy approves it or I go tell the mum. Tho we not dating but have told her she's dead socially if she dont change her social behaviour.

Because you wan yansh am abi? Leave her like that, she nor dey complain
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by sprints1: 3:14pm On Feb 19, 2018
this thing called marriage na luck even if u are a good girl or bad girl that doesnt affect your chances of getting married.it all depends on the kind of man u get married to.. and how well u have suffered with him... even if u suffer with some men they can still wake up one day and say its over.. so a word is enough for the wise... choose your husband wisely, but the issue is husbands are scarce so most rush into marriage becos of time... dont rush...even there are so many marriages out there that the woman in the house is the breadwinner tell me why that kind of marriage wont last.. it all depends on your luck
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Princewell2012(m): 3:19pm On Feb 19, 2018
NosoChic:
Hmmm...Very myopic response!

Let's get this right-The reward for being a good girl or bad girl is not a HUSBAND. The reward for being a good boy or bad boy is also not a WIFE.

Marriage is not about "na me first enter"-it should not be competition. This is what makes so many people be under pressure and "settle". When we now hear cases of women stabbing their husbands and husbands beating/cheating on their wives, we blame it on the devil and start getting all religious!

The work doesn't really lie in GETTING MARRIED, IT's STAYING MARRIED that's the hard part.

To add to what you just said. Most of all those bad girls too gets used for ritual for whatever reasons. So slots of them did not come back to tell the story. While the bad boys involved in all these cults activities going on today.

Devil is always a deceiver and nobody should listen to him.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Ernesthugo(m): 3:21pm On Feb 19, 2018
gloria34:
;Denter bush and compete
come let mingle i am already in d bush.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by mustafa006: 3:22pm On Feb 19, 2018
lemme set the record cos there are different types of bad girl in Nigeria, we have dem as follows
1 bad girls ( they konw when to act bad girl and when to act momy girl and they are not into fake life)

2 bader girls ( blac chyna type and u need money to keep the for yaself alone)

3 baddest girl (Nikki minaj type and u can't keep them even if u hv money they are motivated by big cassava)
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by redsun(m): 3:29pm On Feb 19, 2018
Because they know how to get the men on the toll. But it doesn't always last,because in a very short time they will show why they are bad girls.

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by jmao: 3:30pm On Feb 19, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

The truth is,
Bad girls know the koko,
Good girls don't.

How will I see a girl who will suck me,
give me doggy,
wear sexy gstrings,
sing along with me to Eminem,
wear bum shorts and watch porn with me,

Then settle for one who will only tie wrapper and allow me touch her only we want to make babies and insist we pray and sing hymns afterwards?

Life is not that hard abeg.

Good girls are not wife material period.
Their place is in the convent.
rubish!
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by DonEvarest(m): 3:30pm On Feb 19, 2018
tydi:
Getting married faster and getting out of marriage in a tinkle of an eye which is better FYI the so called marriages of bad gals does not last longer than a torch battery, cus no man in his right sense settles or plan to live his entire life with a LovePeddler.
a bitch is a bitch for life.. chase a chick never chase a bitch
wow..... Another maxim has been learnt..... ''chase a chich, never chase a bitch''.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Nobody: 3:30pm On Feb 19, 2018
This is not true at all
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by rita25(f): 3:33pm On Feb 19, 2018
the guy don hit the nail for head......good girls go to heaven but bad girls go everywhere...heaven hell and roam the earth.......gbam!!!!! grin
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Nobody: 3:42pm On Feb 19, 2018
rita25:
the guy don hit the nail for head......good girls go to heaven but bad girls go everywhere...heaven hell and roam the earth.......gbam!!!!! grin
really, you know he has paedophillic tendencies right.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Nobody: 3:43pm On Feb 19, 2018
Safiaaa:
This is not true at all
babe just leave him, we will just be observing him inflate his ego.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by mrdino(m): 3:50pm On Feb 19, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

The truth is,
Bad girls know the koko,
Good girls don't.

How will I see a girl who will suck me,
give me doggy,
wear sexy gstrings,
sing along with me to Eminem,
wear bum shorts and watch porn with me,

Then settle for one who will only tie wrapper and allow me touch her only we want to make babies and insist we pray and sing hymns afterwards?

Life is not that hard abeg.

Good girls are not wife material period.
Their place is in the convent.
Can you honestly make the kind of woman you just described your beloved wife. There's a huge difference between a f*v*c*k*mate and a life partner, what you just described above is a perfect f*v*c*k*mate, but life and marriage goes beyond sex. sex is just an aspect of marriage, we are talking about a life partner, soul mate , mother of your children, the woman to whom you are likely to entrust your children's welfare, your home e.t.c.

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by rita25(f): 3:51pm On Feb 19, 2018
but he did not mention any minor in his comment nau....so where did that tendency come from cos I did not notice sha o undecided
funmisticqueen:
really, you know he has paedophillic tendencies right.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Haddock(m): 3:52pm On Feb 19, 2018
NosoChic:
Hmmm...Very myopic response!

Let's get this right-The reward for being a good girl or bad girl is not a HUSBAND. The reward for being a good boy or bad boy is also not a WIFE.

Marriage is not about "na me first enter"-it should not be competition. This is what makes so many people be under pressure and "settle". When we now hear cases of women stabbing their husbands and husbands beating/cheating on their wives, we blame it on the devil and start getting all religious!

The work doesn't really lie in GETTING MARRIED, IT's STAYING "HAPPILY" MARRIED that's the hard part.

Very epic reply! Thumbs up!

They talk about marriage as if it is a walk in dream land. Silly people. They have forgotten the statistics of their so called "bad girls" who ended up as fish in wicked men's pot!

How many "bad girls" are struggling with some STD's?

How many "bad girls" wrecked their wombs?

How many "bad girls" are living their life in shame and embarrassment in their matrimonial homes?

How many "bad girls" are lying in unmarked graves around the world without any hope of marriage for them anymore?

The OP is being used by the devil to belittle the marriage institution, he is just being opinionated. No fact in his foolish vomit.

News Flash!!! Clean minded men are still busy seeking for good girls!

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 19, 2018
...if bad girl in this context means body showing dependent brazilian wearing slay queen who's always around the corner with em boys...yup....truth be told most "bad girls" in this context really are the social retards...like how can a lady not know the difference between a desert spoon and a good ol' table spoon...ever tried having a decent conversation with some so called bad girl...dayuum! Point is, mostly you marry what's in you...bad girl or no...so if the bad girls really are the ones getting married...it sure says alot of what's acceptable in society...You hear all manner of stories coming from the men married to the so called bad girls...to each his own...find out what works for you. BTW we celebrate mediocrity way too much around this clime

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Yoshy: 4:12pm On Feb 19, 2018
tee59:
Not all of them end up been happily married after wards. Some don't enjoy their homes CU's of their promiscuous life styles. Some of them always regret bn bad den and can't com out to say it but weep within. Bn bad nor good doesn't make a good wife.You only attract who you are and not what you want.

Thank you, to buttress this point, socially awkward does not translate to a good girl. There are BAD and promiscous girls who are not social. So what the girls should focus more is; at being social, unfortunately you see more Social people in the BAD girls category.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Anoti1(m): 4:13pm On Feb 19, 2018
ShitHead:




Maybe na me rape your mama make she born you.



Re u done talking? Insecure rapist with low self esteem grin Pele.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by mrdino(m): 4:20pm On Feb 19, 2018
In my honest opinion, this is simple analysis:
1. The population of wise men is fewer compared to the foolish ones. Only a foolish man will knowingly take a 'bad girl' as his wife. Hence, the increase in the number of bad girls getting married, resulting in bad marriages.
2. The population of 'bad girls' is far greater than the 'good girls', therefore the chances of marrying a bad wife is higher (which can even be computed from basic probability calculation ) than marrying a good one.
3. 'bad girls' easily make themselves available.

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Nobody: 4:24pm On Feb 19, 2018
When heaven opens just make sure na you and your spouse dey go
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Creamcustard: 4:25pm On Feb 19, 2018
Haddock:


Very epic reply! Thumbs up!

They talk about marriage as if it is a walk in the dream land. Silly people. They have forgotten the statistics of their so called bad girls who end up as fish in wicked men's pot!

How many "bad girls" are struggling with some STD's?

How many "bad girls" wrecked their wombs?

How many "bad girls" are living their life in shame and embarrassment in their matrimonial homes?

How many "bad girls" are lying in unmarked graves around the world without any hope of marriage for them anymore?

The OP is being used by the devil, he is just being opinionated. No fact in his foolish vomit.

Clean minded men are still busy seeking for good girls!

Unfortunately,all you listed can be experienced by both good and bad girls.

The problem is falling into the hands of a bad promiscuous spouse.

The so called 'bad ' girls seem to know how to fish out innocent guys and pitch tents with them.

Even ordinary NL the biggest LovePeddler of a man is looking for virgin to marry..imagine the unfortunate girl.that ends in his trap.

Good or bad girl should be careful about choice of spouse that's all.

Marriage isn't all its cooked up to be ,there's more to life than being a Mrs.

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by forayfleo(m): 4:26pm On Feb 19, 2018
Bad once are always the same they can't change so be careful about that.
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by 1miccza: 4:29pm On Feb 19, 2018
tee59:
Not all of them end up been happily married after wards. Some don't enjoy their homes CU's of their promiscuous life styles. Some of them always regret bn bad den and can't com out to say it but weep within. Bn bad nor good doesn't make a good wife.You only attract who you are and not what you want.

Waa gba yi jare, you go school....
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Kingsley10000: 4:32pm On Feb 19, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

The truth is,
Bad girls know the koko,
Good girls don't.

How will I see a girl who will suck me,
give me doggy,
wear sexy gstrings,
sing along with me to Eminem,
wear bum shorts and watch porn with me,

Then settle for one who will only tie wrapper and allow me touch her only we want to make babies and insist we pray and sing hymns afterwards?

Life is not that hard abeg.

Good girls are not wife material period.
Their place is in the convent.
crazy funny man

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 19, 2018
Nonsensical! So you're saying that BAD is good and GOOD bad?

"Bad girls" are for stupid childish young me who don't want to grow up.

A wise man would go for a good young lady.... to spend the rest of his life with, not a "bad lady" that f*cks around.

Dating is different from marriage.... I don't need to be married to know that.

Confused people turning things upside down just to sound "socially correct"

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by brownsoldier(m): 4:47pm On Feb 19, 2018
tee59:
Not all of them end up been happily married after wards. Some don't enjoy their homes CU's of their promiscuous life styles. Some of them always regret bn bad den and can't com out to say it but weep within. Bn bad nor good doesn't make a good wife.You only attract who you are and not what you want.

You get sense eh. Chai
Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by DONFASZY(m): 4:48pm On Feb 19, 2018
We need professional studies on dis and answers
I no of a lady dat is still single and above 40yr of age and stil lives wit her younger bro wit 4kids

She always complain den dat she can't go out on a date or leave her house until she get married

D last time I saw her while I was driving?i quickly remember hw decent and brilliant dis lady is back den but nw?she is old

Bt olosho get proposed too every day in bar or club or shopping mall and we don't see much in church

Why

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Re: Man Explains Why "Bad Girls" Get Married Faster While "Good Girls" Don't by 49cents(m): 4:51pm On Feb 19, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

The truth is,
Bad girls know the koko,
Good girls don't.

How will I see a girl who will suck me,
give me doggy,
wear sexy gstrings,
sing along with me to Eminem,
wear bum shorts and watch porn with me,

Then settle for one who will only tie wrapper and allow me touch her only we want to make babies and insist we pray and sing hymns afterwards?

Life is not that hard abeg.

Good girls are not wife material period.
Their place is in the convent.


Most of what you listed are what boys desire. Men look forward to more.

If I die suddenly can she raise the kids well?
Can I trust her totally that she won't cheat?
Will she still be there if I loose my job or business nose dives?
Will she be a companion on my journey of faith?
....

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