bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Lionessza:



Lol, maybe you know how to cokovisa. Ouch! . Hayi maan , how are these Gogos kanti ? . That's so sick , I can't imagine looking my grandmother in the eye after that , yho lol. Like I said the other day some cultural things I sense buloyi kuzo . This is kinda over the top, haybo. So basically , we are incompetetion with formally trained sistas sinyile mos.


Ja , I know about the natural ones but le ka girl was something a little bit graphic for me . It's disturbing to look at , even for 1 sec lol. Aqinile amadoda out there yerrr.

LaEvilIMiss:
What is N500k... Jesus Christ n die for you for Free

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER...
Biko just give her the money. issorite

nancyv:

I called his mom out because she is also a woman.You guys should stop with the generalisation.The fact that the women in your family are good for nothing does not mean that others are.

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

BIXYBABE:
May God help us all....... There is no big deal in giving her d money. I guess Maybe she want to use it for her wedding needs I. E wedding gown, traditional wears., bridal shower, jewelry e.t. c. And u also mention dat she know u ar capable of giving her and u love her. Why not give her den just dat its shouldn't be a MUST... she can't force u to give her. Or maybe u shld try nd confuse her dat u can only her some amount u can afford.

nancyv:

In your own part of the world,the women in your family are good for nothing.
in my own part of the world, the women in my family are useful. most of them are breadwinners in their families.

kimbraa:
Please give her the money. You said your budget was around 2M, you can give her and bring your budget down to 1.5m. Secondly, overlook those saying you shouldn't marry her 'cause the threat was to make you give the money, though it was wrong of her to place a condition to it but she may be one of those who don't know how to demand for things as others do. I believe a good wedding gown should cost close to that amount, she'll add make up, shoes, and whatnot. Abi, is there something else she needed the money for?

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. They're professionally trained, girl. But kuyafana because batyelwa benjalo. Nothing can stop a guy from sampling other goodies, so they can pull them until they're as long as the trail on a bridal dress, still they'll get played like the rest of us

icebird25:
My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. That say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are in your own

icebird25:
My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. Thay say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are on your own

Lionessza:




LMFAO, I've noticed that siyaboyikisa kodwa even without I professional classes . Soze bavale both eyes when sleeping si around . Something ebabandisayo in our presence, I felt it back when I used to live over there. But ke don't blame them , we know our sistas . They will nyonyobela your man and hypnotize him with sweet nothings angaphinde akujonge even with your "trail on a bridal dress ". .

Annibel:
Like you said... YOU LOVE HER... Biko just give her the money. issorite

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Franky826:


You people that go on Twitter and steal posts and yet fail to give credits to the original content producer are just pathetic.

Like why is this always happening on Nairaland.

Seun and lalasticlala what's all this na?

Prechbills:


sharapp..
all these girls in nairaland are hypocrites..
so he should give her 500k what nonsense
..this is one of the reasons why I date only girls that are from wealthy homes.

donstan18:
This one you are typing 500k and 2 million up and down, how are we sure you are not owning MTN and GLO!

Below is MY ADVICE

This woman you claimed to love and want to marry, have you asked and confirmed why she wants to marry you?

Is she really inlove with you?
Is she marrying you for love or for money?
Will a lady who loves you attempt such demand?
A lady threatening to call off your wedding if she doesn't get 500k from you should be a clear act to tell you what the future holds.
Be brave!
Think like a man!
Save the future!
Don't be blinded by boobs and ass!
Marriage should be a lifetime contract!

And if I ever hear I REALLY LOVE HER from your mouth again, eh!... If I hear it again!!, If i hear that nonsense again from your mouth!

XhosaNostra:


LMAO. It's true mos. We have laaaaanto! The charisma, the looks & the brain

Btw, have you seen this other video done by this other lady woMxhosa? She says sinalanto iqhafazisayo. Sinomgangatho! Kikikiki. Hey, some of us have huge egos it's actually funny when you're observing it from a distance. It's kind of OTT & overwhelming at times.

XhosaNostra:



LOL! Lobola? This is getting too exciting. Give me a minute to let it sink in 1st

elbulk:


And you know this because Keep your ignorance to yourself. You should spend more time working on your vocabulary and common sense

Lionessza:



Lol, why don't you request 500k before you can consider it ? . Just to make sure he can afford the lobola .


Howsit , babe ?

XhosaNostra:



Kikikiki. No rush. Until we get him home, sibethi'zinto nge-timing

Btw, the girl in the middle is the one AKA was rumoured to be cheating on "B" with. He could be dating her now, hence the comparison between the 3. It's interesting how he moves from one relationship to the next, without even breathing. As for B, what goes up must come down. He showed her that you cannot trust a guy who cheated on someone else to be with you. Now she can go find another guy to lockdown in that kiss kiss. Kuthiwa people with kiss madolo bamnandi, I guess because they're locking in all that heat, no escape

icebird25:
My advice to you bros, is to find one girl and make her ur baby mama.. Apart from children and sex woman have no other things to offer in marriage.. That say all men are born equal and free but if you decides to go and marry...you are in your own

bidv:
Nairalander I bring greetings from the other side,

I have this lady I'm currently in relationship with for 2 years now, early last year I proposed to her and she said "YES" following that I introduced her to my family and the both families got to know each other, December we Did a mini introduction (Knocking at the door), my plans is for us to get married this April. My overall budget is 2M for everything (I don't want to spend too much for wedding). Now the problem is, my fiancée is asking for 500K to buy her personal needs for the wedding that's excluding her family lists. She said without the 500K she's not interested in the wedding. I believe she's asking because she knows I have it. I really love her and I don't want to loose her, should I give her or I should let go? Please I need a good advice of what to do.

Lionessza:



LMFAO, uyazibon with that ego? . This is what has earned us ,all these decorations we are known for .

No , haven't seen it. Jesu! Lol. But akaxoki ke sithini . TBH, with the ego thing nabo they are to blame imo. Basiyeke sadakasa all over them to the point that we have it in our minds that it's our right to do so lol. Not to mention that even the quietest of us is naturally a bully inside , sokufaka under I programme quickly if awubhadlanga lol.

I remember a friend of mine back then, yho ! That chick was full of herself . She was an instigator , she knew asiviwa kula flat lol. So whenever we hung out together nabo, she would start her crap; " niyabona our numbers are increasing in this city and that means only one thing . Ibhedi zale city will be colonized by us , nina buy vibrators or go back kwi towns zenu to find new recruits which we will take too if you bring them this side and they are good enough ". Yho they hated her .

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO.

I'll catch up with you later, let me go beg, Dredd