hmbassey1960:
CIA,mhen that jab nah .....

you won't know she's CIA...

greiboy:
I already stated my opinion on the first page.

I date individual not just a professional. I will date a lady whose character is compatible with mine.

So what is your answer?

How did I miss it...
I don't think I can date a Pastor. Aside that, any man with a steady and legit source of income is good. Though I have the profession[s] I am attracted to, but it's not that serious.

BluntBoy:



You don't mean it You sound very educated. Perhaps what you meant was that you don't have a degree.

Well, that's my own interpretation of it. I have bigger goals & higher standards for myself.

XhosaNostra:


TBH, I think it has something to do with pride. I think I'd be ashamed of his job because security guards are often perceived as being uneducated etc. To an extent it's true lol. I've met quite a few & the mental connection is often lacking. I'm not saying I'm educated because I'm not, but I pride myself on being knowledgeable & having a thirst to learn. So if someone is not on the same level, it's not going to work for me.

ok I understand you now.

Still, some security guards are quite knowledgeable. A few of my African Diaspora bros in your country(zim, Malawian and co) may take a job as security guard because of lack of opportunities but maybe very educated, even a few South Africans still going back to school. I get your point though. And what is this about you not being educated or knowledgeable, you want to play with my head hun?

Lionessza:



I'm no chicken , just not interested in your offer . Thanks though .

I can get you the new iPhone X wrapped in your favorite selfie picture

AntiBrutus:


How did I miss it...
I don't think I can date a Pastor. Aside that, any man with a steady and legit source of income is good. Though I have the profession[s] I am attracted to, but it's not that serious.

Can you give the list of those professions you fancy ?

Here to read comnents

Lionessza:



Yes you must be confused. Where is the contradiction there ? Or you think the world is black and white ? . Nope! it ain't. I pick brown .

My Dear, I have never been this confused all my life, but, hey it's a girl thing I guess

Tracypacy:
y?

Cos they are all coded olosho.... Dont ask me more questions.. if you live in Lagos and a jolly person you would probably understand.

greiboy:
Can you give the list of those professions you fancy ?

LOL, wetin you wan use am do?

greiboy:
ok I understand you now.

Still, some security guards are quite knowledgeable. A few of my African Diaspora bros in your country(zim, Malawian and co) may take a job as security guard because of lack of opportunities but maybe very educated, even a few South Africans still going back to school. I get your point though. And what is this about you not being educated or knowledgeable, you want to play with my head hun?

My pride will still get in the way. Perhaps I even subconsciously block the connection because of the kind of job they do

XhosaNostra:


Well, that's my own interpretation of it. I have bigger goals & higher standards for myself.

Very, very noble. I wish you the very best.

Nairaland moderator

BluntBoy:


Very, very noble. I wish you the very best.

Thank you. One day at a time. Someday I'll rule the world. LMAO.

TonyeBarcanista:

My Dear, I have never been this confused all my life, but, hey it's a girl thing I guess

Lol, you are really confusing yourself here . One does not have to pick the the extremes. .

Why are guys avoiding nurses? I pray to marry a nurse though, a loyal one. I love nurses.

XhosaNostra:


My pride will still get in the way. Perhaps I even subconsciously block the connection because of the kind of job they do

Hahaha ok
it is not entirely bad though, we all have that little ego (pride) in us and we often set imaginary standards for ourselves.

So it's all good, you are cool though

AntiBrutus:

LOL, wetin you wan use am do?

I want to put it in my archive

XhosaNostra:
A security guard or a male nurse. There's something girly about the title "male nurse".

What if he's a Special Forces Bodyguard to the US President?

PotatoSalad:

I can get you the new iPhone X wrapped in your favorite selfie picture

*****

XhosaNostra:


Thank you. One day at a time. Someday I'll rule the world . LMAO.

I strongly believe you.

Lionessza:



*****

I wouldn't want to date a Detective/Investigator because they have a suspicious personality because of the everyday deception that they encounter through their jobs. It makes them distrusting of others.

greiboy:
Hahaha ok
it is not entirely bad though, we all have that little ego (pride) in us and we often set imaginary standards for ourselves.

So it all good, you are cool though

True on the standards thing. Self improvement is vital. If he's a dreamer like myself & actually has the drive to make his aspirations a reality, I'm all for it. I just wouldn't go for it while he's still carrying a torch & a baton though, sorry

Dating a mobile Nigerian police/corporal and Lastma official is a big NOO.

Lionessza:


Lol@ cottonwool balls.

Lol. when you say it , mean it and show me you mean it . Once in a while blast my ego and don't grovel after ...not having my way kinda gets me going . Perhaps I really have that condition I described yesterday which is heavily influenced by Leo traits lol.

mmmmmhhhhhhhh..... decisions.... decisions!!

Egein:


What if he's a Special Forces Bodyguard to the US President?

That's a different level of hotness
I meant the ordinary security guard that's armed with a stick. LOL!
A body guard etc is respectable.

judgedredd22:




mmmmmhhhhhhhh..... decisions.... decisions!!

Lol.

RexTramadol1:
Nairaland Hungry girls







Dey r d worst.

Fixed

Tracypacy:
I recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself. What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?

Bla..bla..bla. THE HUSBAND EVEN DEY TO MARRY UNA

tosyne2much:
No be today una don dey come Nairaland come form wetin una no be.

The funniest thing is that, at the end of the day, people like you end up embracing the street hustler you castigate

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Bloggers need her type to keep the headlines on Domestic Violence rolling.

She is glad to be walking into punches in near future.

Like I always say, feminists move one step forward; fellow ladies move them three steps backward.

biacan:
Military men,nurse bankers,teachers

Hey dear,

Why bankers? And by bankers, are investment bankers inclusive?

I wanna be sure about my chances with