shallysgirl:
Yea,i understand but you know they say, hell has no fury like a woman scorned.
It only takes God's grace.
If any man has a woman like that, pray for her and keep talking to her. Violence should never be an option.

I do not support violence and you are biased in your submission.
Why shouldn't the man walk away from such abusive partner like the lady in the subject of discussion did.
You hailed the woman for walking away but advise that a man with an abusive woman should endure, talk to and pray for her..really?

shallysgirl:
Yea,i understand but you know they say, hell has no fury like a woman scorned.
It only takes God's grace.
If any man has a woman like that, pray for her and keep talking to her. Violence should never be an option.

This really isnt violence though, im also wondering what led up to the quarrel

I think if he begs her and means it in front of both families and promises never to abuse her during the marriage or she will leave with that understanding maybe she can forgive him

he should beg o since he has shown a very bad sign and he messed up

go n do Thanksgiving because God has answered ur prayers..... he is not ur husband

Eazi1:
hw cn u b embarrasin ur wife in public.....its nt good bt i really dn't support d divorce

Mr Eazi, how can there be divorce before marriage?

Eazi1:
am wit u bro

Are you related to mr. Eazi or is he ur role model

Stupid boy,he would stab her after marriage with such an obnoxious character flaws ..The girl has taken the right decision,love isn't blind ...Men & women should learn to love with their senses open ..

Bestchisom:
Are you related to mr. Eazi or is he ur role model

hs my mentor...

IamEmem:


And you think its not possible for the girl to insult him or his family?
May be you never jam and pray you never jam such women who at little issues will insult the hell out of you and make u look miserable with her wagging tongue.

insult ur family for una wedding plans?? den she z a witch...buh in dz case I don't think she did.. cos if she did den it wud b d families wanting to pacify each oda..dat guy z irresponsible..cos someone must hv warned him against dz attitude but he wudnt listen

boyjo:


According to someone, he was testing her.
she`s innocent.

That ain't a good way to test

Did you read that part that described what the babe did?? Read and get back to me

Litblogger:
This is what I'm talking about!

I'm proud of her and I pray she doesn't change her mind even if he comes begging with the entire world.

When a person is engaged, their prayer point should be "God, expose any hidden negative traits my fiancee has before we get married"

God just saved her life

aalangel:
Thank you for this comment.

Thank God

Very good decision.

boyjo:


Uncle, please kamdan

If he could do dat to her in public even when they are not yet married, imagine what he would do when dey eventually get married...she should not make that mistake by going ahead with that marriage.

Truckpusher:
Which 2-3 niggas ? dozens of niggas but don't bother ,she'll wash it well before giving it to you as brand new.

I'm a virgin

ObinnaVal93:


insult ur family for una wedding plans?? den she z a witch...buh in dz case I don't think she did.. cos if she did den it wud b d families wanting to pacify each oda..dat guy z irresponsible..cos someone must hv warned him against dz attitude but he wudnt listen

I never said she did...but with the kind of young ladies out there, any thing is possible.

Truckpusher:
Right decision - Anyone that can raise their voice over any issue in a public place is a ticking timed bomb.


Congratulations Dear
Potential bachelors are waiting to grease that thing until one unlucky nigga decides to take it all for himself.

my main man ...truck pusher ...how you been?long long time o, were u enter sef?

She rejects him and another guy comes pretends to be really nice, tests her well, open the car door for her,
And even carry her beg. They wed and then he starts showing his true colours. I don't think this incident is the cause. Possible the guy must have been violent during the relationship

Mynd44:

There is no reason for violence. Stop pushing this narrative of "she must have provoked him" as it is repulsive.

Men should do better, no matter the provocation, getting violent is not and will never be the answer. The only way violence is allowed is self-defence.

It is good that she has enough sense to pull away and I am glad her family supported her

gidjah:
my main man ...truck pusher ...how you been?long long time o, were u enter sef?

My paddy man. Na pushing things oh - Long time oh , I just dey like Dele Giwa.

Na wa ooo, are women to oppress men. Who knows if this gal insulted his mum, his family ppl and even plan to kill his younger bro. Anyway, Men are praying for temperament control to tolerate women because even woman don’t like woman because their nuisance character.

purem:
The person that's post this shiit on fb is madt, why because he didn't tell us what the lady did he just wants us to start bashing the guy.

Who knows maybe the lady must have slapped his mum

either way,, marriage should not hold. they will almost kill eachother

purem:
The person that's post this shiit on fb is madt, why because he didn't tell us what the lady did he just wants us to start bashing the guy.

Who knows maybe the lady must have slapped his mum

heeey!!!!

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Fit2Rule:
The dude is lucky that it's just the wedding being called off. Try that shyit wit my sister and you'll be behind bars for assault and battery and i'll make sure you get a real constant shower of unpleasant water while in detention.

can I please be your sister? �

very tough decision to take, but the man did very bad. that is the advantages of courtship. you have to look at it very carefully, marriage is for life. God used that to show you how bad tempered he can be when he is angry. the question is can you cope with his bad temper through out the rest of your life? if you know you can cope or manage go ahed with the wedding, but if you can't cope please I beg you back out of the wedding. Thank God you are not married yet. please my sister marriage is for life be wise. this is a sign of what my happened in the future. stand on your decision

Angelanest:
An intending bride has reportedly called of her wedding after she was allegedly humiliated and assaulted by her man in public. According to an online report, the lady was left embarrassed after her fiance poured water on her face and clothes in an eatery because he was angry.

Now, report has it that the lady has called off the wedding which is supposed to hold next month and is strongly standing by her decision.

Olajumoke Fayemi shared the story on Facebook. Read below;

She called off her wedding just few days to the date. She felt humiliated and assaulted. A man she thought she was going to spend the rest of her life with had the effrontery to pour water on her face and clothes because he was angry.

She knew he had a bit of anger problems . But it never occurred to her he could unleash the anger to her publicly. This happened in an eatery while they were having a meeting.

The introduction have been done few months back and invitation cards shared to family, friends ,colleagues and church members.

The wedding comes up ,first week of March. Besides, lot of money have been spent in preparation for the occasion.

Last week, dude invited the babe to meet him in one of the eateries so they could sort out some issues. She came as agreed not knowing that the meeting would be the last between both of them.

Somehow, their were argument between them and dude out of anger poured the water he was drinking on her . She stood speechless, dazed and confused. Somehow, she managed to pull herself together and walked out of the spot with her wet clothes.

She got home broken but made up her mind to discontinue with the marriage. Of course, she didn't waste time to let her mom and sisters know about the strange development. And her decision was to call off the wedding.

Sadly, her mom was not completely in support of her decision but with the backing of her siblings, they were able to convince her . The whole family are backing her. To them ,the marriage is over.

However, dude and family would not take any of that. They have been begging and sending emissaries to her and her family.

The pastor of her church is not left out . He has invited her but she is still holding her ground. No marriage. She is a bit lucky, because she and her family are together in this decision.

What do you make of this ?

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/02/lady-who-was-embarrassed-by-her-fiance-calls-off-the-wedding.html

DISCONTINUE OR SUSPEND IT INDEFINITELY. LET HIM GO FOR ANGER MANAGEMENT LESSONS OR WORST STILL LEAVE AND GO BACK TO D DRAWING BOARD. U WILL GET A BETTER HUMANE SUITOR.

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empressruky:
can I please be your sister? �

Yeah, you can.

Shineq:

yeah....u are just being rational though...in as much as i do not support violent against women ...we should also kn what's the offence of the lady in question....

You deduced that from just this my simple statement?

If he slapped her own mum, is she also allowed to beat him up? Or the monopoly of beating lies solely with the man?

Its better the marriage plans are are cut short
before we hear story that touches the heart when married.

Why will the guy embarrass his woman in public like that.
He should learn how to control his emotion next time.

Please stick to your decision not to go ahead with the wedding plan. God will bless you with a better man. That guy is going to do worst when you become his wife. Please don't give in to his plead.