So here's de question guys,,,is it wrong to date ur ex 's brother!??

Am currently in a bit of that situation here...broke up with my ex recently, buh lately I've been really close with his brother. The guy was depressed cos he recently broke up with his girlfriend ,he tried pushing everybody away from him but somehow i managed to get him to open up to me. We've really gotten alot closer than I expected nd he's no longer depressed.

Last week while we were talking, he was like 'can u date me'?? He said it jokingly, buh I felt he was been serious... He's a nice guy nd all that,buh I jus can't see myself dating him,its awkward!
So guys, I tried bringing it here to view y'all suggestions nd opinions about it.

Don't allow the both teams to score.

Your Ex has scored, don't allow his brother to score.

Use your head

the brother wants his own share. if u have to give, please give. we would appreciate. tnks

I would never date a sibling, relative or friend of an ex. I'd feel like they'd be comparing notes & talking about me when they're together.

Besides, you don't wanna be in a rebound relationship with someone that may still be going through his own hangups. He could be using you as an emotional crutch/bandaid, even if it's unintentional on his part.

RuthDaniels:
Dont try it!

Ruth tell us why.

Yes, it's awkward. You've said it yourself. Moreso, both of you are really just high on depression.

I can't even form intimate alliances with an ex' friend, let alone a brother. I've had a friend of an ex and also a brother of my friend ask me out, but I just couldn't do it, primarily because they were all connected to this ex somehow.

There'll be too many shades...too much unease when y'all are together. And somehow, just somehow, it makes a girl look cheap, like you're just being passed around.

agohmamuda:
the brother wants his own share. if u have to give, please give. we would appreciate. tnks

My man, your head is there....

Me have dated two sisters not once....

Most sisters especially the younger ones like crushing on their elder sister's boyfriend. And me can't let a Hot woman down, lai lai.
I've even done twins, that was last year. The twins told me they like sharing everything. I liked the one I'm with but since then, till this moment, I don't take her serious anymore. Just dey catch my fun dey go.

He might end up wanting you as a wife OP, so try your luck and give him your best.

youngbelieve:
So here's de question guys,,,is it wrong to date ur ex 's brother!??

Am currently in a bit of that situation here...broke up with my ex recently, buh lately I've been really close with his brother. The guy was depressed cos he recently broke up with his girlfriend ,he tried pushing everybody away from him but somehow i managed to get him to open up to me. We've really gotten alot closer than I expected nd he's no longer depressed.

Last week while we were talking, he was like 'can u date me'?? He said it jokingly, buh I felt he was been serious... He's a nice guy nd all that,buh I jus can't see myself dating him,its awkward!
So guys, I tried bringing it here to view y'all suggestions nd opinions about it.

Very, very,very wrong. We are on the soil of African and not American .

It so offensive to date one ex brother even if one is so sure that He is genuinely in love with the subject.

snake swallow 36m, monkey swallow 90m and OP is here think of how to swallow two brothers sperm.

donstan18:
Don't allow the both teams to score.

Your Ex has scored, don't allow his brother to score.

Use your head

Lols wasn't planning on it tho..

agohmamuda:
the brother wants his own share. if u have to give, please give. we would appreciate. tnks

Hahahahah... Longest tym hun!

Accept it and prove to us that your pucci is a public toilet

XhosaNostra:
I would never date a sibling, relative or friend of an ex. I'd feel like they'd be comparing notes & talking about me when they're together.

Besides, you don't wanna be in a rebound relationship with someone that may still be going through his own hangups. He could be using you as an emotional crutch/bandaid, even if it's unintentional on his part.

True!!
Buh I wasn't planning on dating him tho...jus felt sorry for him when he was depressed dassol!

correctguy101:


My man, your head is there....

Me have dated two sisters not once....

Most sisters especially the younger ones like crushing on their elder sister's boyfriend. And me can't let a Hot woman down, lai lai.
I've even done twins, that was last year. The twins told me they like sharing everythingț. I liked the one I'm with but since then, till this moment, I don't take her serious anymore. Just dey catch my fun dey go.

He might end up wanting you as a wife OP, so try your luck and give him your best.

Please gimme their contact

PrimadonnaO:
Yes, it's awkward. You've said it yourself. Moreso, both of you are really just high on depression.

I can't even form intimate alliances with an ex' friend, let alone a brother. I've had a friend of an ex and also a brother of my friend ask me out, but I just couldn't do it, primarily because they were all connected to this ex somehow.

There'll be too many shades...too much unease when y'all are together. And somehow, just somehow, it makes a girl look cheap, like you're just being passed around.

He was the depressed one oo...was only trying to give a helping hand.
Wasn't planning on dating him tho..

the question is,do you feel anything for him? if yes then follow your heart.

Misscaring:






Very, very,very wrong. We are on the soil of African and not American .

It so offensive to date one ex brother even if one is so sure that He is genuinely in love with the subject.

*noted

youngbelieve:
So here's de question guys,,,is it wrong to date ur ex 's brother!??

Am currently in a bit of that situation here...broke up with my ex recently, buh lately I've been really close with his brother. The guy was depressed cos he recently broke up with his girlfriend ,he tried pushing everybody away from him but somehow i managed to get him to open up to me. We've really gotten alot closer than I expected nd he's no longer depressed.

Last week while we were talking, he was like 'can u date me'?? He said it jokingly, buh I felt he was been serious... He's a nice guy nd all that,buh I jus can't see myself dating him,its awkward!
So guys, I tried bringing it here to view y'all suggestions nd opinions about it.

BOTH OF YOU WILL JUST BE A REBOUND TO EACH OTHER

RuthDaniels:
Dont try it!

OK oo

Mandrake007:
the question is,do you feel anything for him? if yes then follow your heart.

Felt pity when he was depressed!! Other than that,nothing!

Pls go ahead, date their papa and cousin join am. Sebi u be friends of the family? Whether na that family remain for this world.

Splinz:


Ruth tell us why.

Sorry too lazy to type.. but It just doesn't make sense

youngbelieve:


Felt pity when he was depressed!! Other than that,nothing!

you don't like him then,tell him don't give him false hopes.

youngbelieve:

He was the depressed one oo...was only trying to give a helping hand.
Wasn't planning on dating him tho..

You said you recently broke up with your ex. Maybe you're unconscious of it, but at the time you were providing succor to the brother, you ought to have been on your own taking time to heal.

RuthDaniels:
Sorry too lazy to type.. but It just doesn't make sense

You've already said it: "...it just doesn't make sense".

Issorite.

youngbelieve:


Hahahahah... Longest tym hun!

sup with you. Seems u went AWOL

correctguy101:


My man, your head is there....

Me have dated two sisters not once....

Most sisters especially the younger ones like crushing on their elder sister's boyfriend. And me can't let a Hot woman down, lai lai.
I've even done twins, that was last year. The twins told me they like sharing everything. I liked the one I'm with but since then, till this moment, I don't take her serious anymore. Just dey catch my fun dey go.

He might end up wanting you as a wife OP, so try your luck and give him your best.

See chilling. Will love to run twin oh.

ranmoor:
Pls go ahead, date their papa and cousin join am. Sebi u be friends of the family? Whether na that family remain for this world.

Ha!! Baba is nor lai dat oo

agohmamuda:


See chilling. Will love to run twin oh.

Pray not to meet the ones I met o. They'll nearly kih u with 3sm...

And anything you buy, you must buy two ...

Although they don't ask for stuffs but me no fit dey with a lady make I no give her something, it massages my mad egoistic male self.

I sometimes don't know why I do what I do jor, I don't even understand myself. Too carefree.
or should I say careless?

But since a little talk with my daughter and her comments on my way of life, I just dey feel bad each time I do what I do cos I feel I'm hurting my princess..... $mh

I too spoil abeg, don't ever be like me....

PrimadonnaO:


You said you recently broke up with your ex. Maybe you're unconscious of it, but at the time you were providing succor to the brother, you ought to have been on your own taking time to heal.

Lols, am certain dah am not fa.