Is it when one is broke(struggling to stamp his feet) or when he has started seeing plenty or sufficient money?

Struggling times.

But then, when the money comes, your taste will most likely change, especially when the babe refuses to step up.

braine:
Struggling times.

But then, when the money comes, your taste will most likely change, especially when the babe refuses to step up.

But is not all men taste changes when d money start coming. However, u agreed is the struggling time of a man tht is when he should look for a wife. If I may ask, but y d struggling times?

TheHod:
Is it when one is broke(struggling to stamp his feet) or when he has started seeing plenty or sufficient money?

When the time is right you will know, trust me. I used to hate the word MARRIAGE and the thought of settling down with one woman, but there comes a time in life when you think you have everything a young man could have, but there is that constant feeling of emptiness.

Don't let anyone force you when you are not ready. When it's time you will know, trust me.

As for me I am tired of this single lifestyle and think it's time to start a family. Hopefully very soon Goodluck

TheHod:



But is not all men taste changes when d money start coming. However, u agreed is the struggling time of a man tht is when he should look for a wife. If I may ask, but y d struggling times?

Who ever stays with you when you have nothing much to offer is usually the realest.

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braine:


Who ever stays with you when you have nothing much to offer is usually the realest.

Haha. But remember, ladies have needs. However, she knw u dnt have so she dnt call u or ask you for money. Does tht mean she should not ask some of her male friends for support knowing fully well u dnt have at d moment.

efesodje:


When the time is right you will know, trust me. I used to hate the word MARRIAGE and the thought of settling down with one woman, but there comes a time in life when you think you have everything a young man could have, but there is that constant feeling of emptiness.

Don't let anyone force you when you are not ready. When it's time you will know, trust me.

As for me I am tired of this single lifestyle and think it's time to start a family. Hopefully very soon Goodluck

Even when u knw the times as come but no money to settle down what den one should do?

TheHod:




Even when u knw the times as come but no money to settle down what den one should do?

If there is no money don't marry. No need bringing kids into the world to suffer. Sorry I am a realist

efesodje:


If there is no money don't marry. No need bringing kids into the world to suffer. Sorry I am a realist

My bro, not bcus a man dnt have now tht he will not get tommorow. Not all ATM machine despenes cash and tht doest render them futile. Some r broke sometimes. Those one tht r broke today go n check it later or tommorow dey will despenes cash.

TheHod:

My bro, not bcus a man dnt have now tht he will not get tommorow. Not all ATM machine despenes cash and tht doest render them futile. Some r broke sometimes. Those one tht r broke today go n check it later or tommorow dey will despenes cash.

Bro when you say no money - do you mean both you and your wife to be don't have jobs/ steady source of income? If Yes, then HELL NO, don't get married

But if you have a job/source of income but you are just ok (not comfortable) you can go ahead and get married but plan ahead for when the kids start coming.

The problem with most nigerian marriages is that people just rush in because of family/societal pressures and also because they feel they have reached a marriageable age (e.g say 30-38 for men and 25-30 for women)

An example of extremely silly things people do when it comes to Nigerian marriages (show-off and suffer later) is seen in the thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/4368216/couple-spent-n3m-wedding-got

adam got Eve after he had everything else. get your money right first then go wife-hunting.especially when you are in your mid 30s and make sure you ONLY consider girls in their early 20s. thats how you get to enjoy life. you wont regret it.