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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 8:37am On Feb 28, 2018
livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!! angry
Please mature comments only


You are a Diickhead for asking us this silly question, you know for a fact that your girl is getting Fvcked by other guys.. Be a man, grow up, and Fvck off your own way.

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by dheilaw1(m): 8:40am On Feb 28, 2018
this looks to me like a cooked up story to attract unnecessary likes

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by enonche85(m): 8:40am On Feb 28, 2018
Oga just know dat ur GF is being fvcked right even in ur house!...all this girls working in eateries can follow men because they meet different types and so many on a daily basis.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by enonche85(m): 8:42am On Feb 28, 2018
dheilaw1:
this looks to me like a cooked up story to attract unnecessary likes

As in he even stated all the obvious signs for everyone to know she's cheating.

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Martin0(m): 8:55am On Feb 28, 2018
kelvinklein219:

That part got me cracking, girls can lie ehn,its only d!kson that has the power to widen that place...
Bros your babe is just a stupid hoe sorry and you are a fool for love... Better break up, me i hate nonsense lies.. I don't want to hear her own part just break up cos this girl is a runs girl always putting you on high jump..
Them no dey put dog and bone together.. The dog must chop the bone...

so a girlfriend can't have sex with some random guy anymore
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by waynejesus: 8:57am On Feb 28, 2018
U a sensenles moooo f***ker
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Martin0(m): 8:58am On Feb 28, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



This is what we called LOVE IS BLIND indeed... grin


that girl had right to have sex with anybody, adont care, she's just in a mere relationship with a mere guy.

Rubbish.

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by enonche85(m): 8:59am On Feb 28, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



This is what we called LOVE IS BLIND indeed... grin



Mstcheeeeewwww!...if really this is a true story, then OP must be suffering from inferiority complex. Maybe the girl appears to be out of his league and he never thought he could ever land a babe like her which explains why he's overlooking the obvious signs of her fvcking around.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by mywells: 9:01am On Feb 28, 2018
all those guys called his school bla bla bla may visited her website,instead of you to pay a visit and go.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Kpartners: 9:27am On Feb 28, 2018
Wise up

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by mkpurumma090(f): 9:31am On Feb 28, 2018
What is the meaning of tomboy
Have been seeing the word

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by bamoski(m): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2018
livebynite:
Please I have seen alot of posts here abusing me why na?

Did I say she is cheating? Where is the evidence? I don't just jump into conclusion.
The issue is tinu wastage of food resources and I have wanted her in the past about this !
Now some of you here are insulting me ? Why? I know how long a paint of garri used to last us not with these random school son visits it doesn't last as long as it should angry

Please enough abuse if your girl friend sleeps.around my tinu doesn't angry

Donstan18 here is your response incase you missed it.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Rockyrascal(m): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2018
livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!! angry
Please mature comments only

grin cheesy
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by QueenSuccubus(f): 9:49am On Feb 28, 2018
Martin0:


that girl had right to have sex with anybody, adont care, she's just in a mere relationship with a mere guy.

Rubbish.


Chineke!

So, does it mean u allowed ur bf as well to fork around? lipsrsealed embarassed
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Mondagbe: 9:51am On Feb 28, 2018
Since!
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Oyiboman69: 9:53am On Feb 28, 2018
ayookunlee:
my guy is always conscious of his garri level. ;Dmy guy is always conscious of his garri level.

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by CHUKWUNOLOGICAL(m): 10:01am On Feb 28, 2018
livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!! angry
Please mature comments only


Garri here and there
u are too concious of ur garri jor grin
Are u sure u know what u want? Ayam nor understanding, u saw used condom, she is wasteful Mr. Man, ur girl is a wicked fu*ckernizer Chineke!!! She like hanging around boys abi U saw a used condom but she was smarter than you Guy! U nor get girlfriend If u make her ur wife, she will open a fu*ckernizing cool workshop in ur family house. She may infect u one day grin please used a condom whenever u wanna sex her grin

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by nwaonyeze001(m): 10:16am On Feb 28, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
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Jezzzzu!

This is a fuuccckkking LIE! When ur stressed isn't that ur muscles are getting stiff? angry The MUSCLES CONTRACTS & NOT WIDEN... angry angry

HABA! don't be a mumu guy ooo...maybe her manager or co-worker is consuming her...


Did you say .....Maybe My brother, that babe is extremely exposed more than the guy, take for instance, she went to Ikoyi to see the supposed uncle, allowed her guy be kept in a security post for more than 5hours, Haba!!!!!
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by nwaonyeze001(m): 10:18am On Feb 28, 2018
CHUKWUNOLOGICAL:


Garri here and there
u are too concious of ur garri jor grin
Are u sure u know what u want? Ayam nor understanding, u saw used condom, she is wasteful Mr. Man, ur girl is a wicked fu*ckernizer Chineke!!! She like hanging around boys abi U saw a used condom but she was smarter than you Guy! U nor get girlfriend If u make her ur wife, she will open a fu*ckernizing cool workshop in ur family house. She may infect u one day grin please used a condom whenever u wanna sex her grin

Exactly..,........

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 10:28am On Feb 28, 2018
Even if this story was cooked up, The guy should be awarded the greatest Mumu of all time. What Nonsense!!!!!!!
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by adelacuna(m): 10:31am On Feb 28, 2018
I want to believe that this is a joke and if not you are just being silly, broda you have been living with a corporate ashewo all the while.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Obason22(m): 10:34am On Feb 28, 2018
jospepper:
chai bloda! This na serious wa oh... sha lets wait for the elders.
it's only d stubborn fly that accompany corpse to a grave.

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Electronics: 10:48am On Feb 28, 2018
You just nailed it. Been waiting for this reply! Reading the trash this guy is spilling is really annoying! You are a confirmed mugu! Mr Man, Man up and take decisions like a man with balls! Rubbish!
Fweshspice:
Bros if wetin u write up there na true, then u be confam mumu if u no knw say the bae na somebody baby and not urs... Man up and use ur head!

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Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:21am On Feb 28, 2018
livebynite:
Should I Break Up With Her, Serious Advise Needed

I am in a bad situation and I need advice please
My gf Tinuke I call her tintin for short, has been the center of my world but for some time now certain things have me worried
We started dating 2 years ago then we moved in together after the sixth month, we do everything together at least whenever we can.
To be clear I am not a jealous person but somethings have really got me worried.
1. When we met she told me she has lots of guys as friends, and that she used to be a tomboy, even at work she has only guys as her friends, She works in KFC as a checkout girl.

2. We once went to her secondary school reunion and there where over 50 guys there and she was the only girl! I had to ask her if she went to an all guy’s school and she said these are the boy friends of her class mates that the girls will soon arrive. They never did she danced with every single guy there, but at least she introduced me to her 4 school sons and 3 school fathers who took care of her during her high school days. The only thing that bothered me about the night was she kept sitting on the laps of a particular guy who seemd way older than her to have been her school son back then and for some reason they were whispering stuff into each other’s ears all night.

3. I work with an importer as his wharehouse manager and sometimes I have to sleep there whenever we are doing stock taking and I have come home twice to find her with one of her school sons shirtless in my house and she says they are doing interview preparations (She has a big heart and loves helping people) so I can’t fault this I just always caution her to tell these guys to not take off their shirt in the house, yes granted the house I hot as we live in a self-contained. But they usually drink up all the garri in the house it’s so annoying!

4. We once went to see her uncle she grew up with somewhere in Ikoyi and when we got to bourdilion she had to call several times finally her uncles driver came to pick us, I had to wait in the security house while she went into see her uncle for over 5 hours and they didn’t even offer me ordinary water? I was so pissed.

5. KFC really stresses her out, she works even holidays, and every night around 10 her boss has to call and she has to give him reports sometimes he calls her to come back to the branch for random stock taking or reconciliation though he usually comes to pick her himself and is kind enough to send cool looking guys to drop her off the next day.

6. Another issue is that sex between us is so bad, as in every time we make love the song deep and wide constantly comes to mind, she says its the stress at work that makes her kitty so wide, I mean it is wide!! One can easily build a two wing duplex and still have space to park ten cars in there. We have had several talks about her quitting this job but not just because of how it affects her body but I have seen several nudes pictures of male organs to some rich customers sent to her, I was very angry but she explained that I shouldn’t that she always blocks the numbers.

7. Recently I came home and I found an empty condom wrap in the toilet seems it was flushed but didn’t go, she said she wanted to ask me who did that, and what really got me angry was I saw a plate in the sink with remnants of garri and milk, I was saving that remaining garri she said her school son dropped by for tutorials, I have wanted her in the past about using up the garri in the house for these guests, now I think this has gone far enough. AI am seriously thinking of breaking up with her. I need a woman who can manage our resources not waste! She is a truly wonderful person with a big heart but this wastage has got to stop. I love her but this thing is driving me nuts!! angry
Please mature comments only

She has a big heart, she has a wide kitty and it caused by stress of too much work, (hmmmn) , she does tutorials for her school son. and finally The garri and milk you are saving for your self, her school son left the remnants of it for you in the sink for you to scoop. And Yet you still don't get the message.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Pinklipz01: 11:26am On Feb 28, 2018
Very funny. U said she works at KFC and she close very late everyday. When does she have time to entertain her school sons an even have time for tutorials with her school sons? Bros I hope u no dey lie? Lol. I smell lies everywhere.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by oyinyemisi: 11:36am On Feb 28, 2018
the story is so made up
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Boyooosa(m): 11:58am On Feb 28, 2018
Brooke60:
your mother
Hahaha
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by cyr4me: 12:45pm On Feb 28, 2018
are u a monkey when u know the answer at d front of u, keep waiting on till she blow u off, and a again u r d course of ur down fall why should u give chance for her school son to come to ur house or u no dey 9ja. Bleep u
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Moinoni123(m): 12:51pm On Feb 28, 2018
I smell lies everywhere. You're a liar bruh. Your story don't even tally.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Feb 28, 2018
Mr. Writer,

I want to ask one important question

(1) Which is the really the main problem you are laying this complaint? (i) the guys she keeps or (ii) the garri and milk she last consumed?


....... I even doubt this story self...
From the party self, you don pull her go house within 30minutes....

not to talk of a shirtless guy in your bedroom with her
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by fredomale(m): 2:08pm On Feb 28, 2018
Chairman are both of you not Bleep mates?Why are you worried because other parties having come to collect their shares?Better wake up and let her know your position before she traps you pregnancy.
But remember,I don't think she is worthwhile being a wife material.
Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by sexaddict08(m): 3:04pm On Feb 28, 2018
Psoul:


Don't mind dem. If their brains are as block as this not to be able to sort themselves out of personal issues of the heart, I wonder how they can manage a family. So pathetic.

That's how one sexaddict08 was asking us wed to or not to marry her girlfriend that is not a graduate. Pple are so dependent on social media that their ability to think has deteriorates so much. See sexaddict08 post here.

https://www.nairaland.com/4369655/she-not-graduate-dont-know/7#65419821

you see...if you're not certain, to ask question is not a crime...social media is playing a good role if u don't know. Some people are definitely better than others in decision making, don't get it twisted. if u think u know it all and don't need advice, that is u. Some of us need it, especially from experienced people.
If u ask question u wont get lost!!!

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