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Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by MrCuteking(m): 12:15pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
I got a lucrative job last year and decided to go online to look for a female friend. We chatted on facebook and got to know each other better. When we had lunch together she ordered for fried rice and chicken but I didn't bother because she told me it was her best food. We continued and became used to each other. When push comes to shove, I made my intention known to her. We started dating and since then, I've been struggling to save money because its been based on satisfying her needs. We discuss daily on phone and we spend more than 2hrs with my airtime. She told me about her dark past and she even lost count of the number of guys she had slept with. Many atimes , she compares me with her ex, telling me that she doesn't like to ask for money but her ex will just send her money for her upkeep. Last month I bought her a dress of 4k but she rejected it and said "You don't know my taste". When ever she comes to my place I do give her atleast 5k but she never gets satisfied with the transport fare and yet we both stay in Lagos. Nothing is ever enough for her. She only got a new job this month but has not yet been paid. I've been thinking and looking at her pix, wondering what she has ever done to make me happy...Beyond sex, she hasn't offered me anything. I love her but I don't really know why. What should I do? 7 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Brooke60(f): 12:18pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Look for 'your helpmate, your friend, someone that will help you to grow in all aspects of your life' This is just FWB.....Let her know the status of the relationship though and stop inconveniencing yourself just for 5 mints sex (Unless you last more than 5mints ) 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by ikbnice(m): 12:18pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Fvck her and pay her well. She's not a wife material and I bet she ain't fvcking only you. Get a decent girl and convert her to sexmate jare. She's gonna be a good sidechick. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by chrispapi11(m): 12:20pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Run for your life bro. She got nothing to offer 3 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 12:23pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you? BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance! 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Kenog4real(m): 12:25pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
If care is not taken, all u will see is dt u will just keep spending on her till she leaves you for another will meet her higher demand. My gf looks perfect for me because when I dont have she understands and shes the type that loves to save. So if ur gf cannot cut cost for you and plan tomorrow with you den something is wrong some where. Pls call her and talk like bf to gf to her n dnt hide anything because its better to say the truth for tins to b better than keeping them and one is dying inside. Its ur future abeg 4 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:27pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
I always said...Any woman who can't afford to buy something for herself is a LIABILITY sha... If she's too dependent on you when it comes to money, then u better start packing ur stuffs coz even sanitary pads she will demand u to buy for her.. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 12:35pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
MrCuteking:You lay on your bed the way you dress it. Most of you brag about what you don't have while wooing a girl, and when they decide to follow you from the impression you gave, you start complaining. It's not like she coerce you to do these things so you have a choice to cut down on how you spend on her when you don't have. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 12:38pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Nothing. Enjoy ur money by urself. U dont need a girl. Trust me! I know u will feel lonely at times just get busy. Thank me later. All they will do is take and take from u and will never give. Even the sex that u think you'll get alot. See wud start denying you off it! Nigga just Fvuck & Run! I have never had a girl in my life and i wud never! 13 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Mandrake007(m): 12:45pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Nothing my guy...if you wanna find out,stop having sex and watch the relationship become pointless and boring. 11 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by MrCuteking(m): 1:07pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Please, how do I make her my helpmate? |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by MrCuteking(m): 1:08pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Brooke60:You are right but its not that easy to find in Nigeria. |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by MrCuteking(m): 1:11pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Mrbolt555: The way she normally use my pix on her wall and facebook, she once told me to promise not to break her heart. I did. Its still fresh, breaking her heart so early is a herculean task for me right now. |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by powerkey: 1:12pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Guy, see the trick here.. 1. Girls like clean guys. 2. they like good things. 3. They want to identify with a sweet guy. 4. Use that money clean yourself. 5. Dress well. 6. Eat well. 7. Scent well. Guy watch the ladies fly around you like house flies..... Sincerely, I advice all guys to purge out every liability in the name of a girl...pussy.... 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by IamAirforce1: 1:13pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
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Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 1:15pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
MrCuteking:Good question! Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship. Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is. You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by MrCuteking(m): 1:19pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: wow! Thanks so much. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Brooke60(f): 1:21pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
MrCuteking:That is your mentality and it is limiting you. All guys are the same, a Saturday won't go without roughly 100 wedding all over the country. Who are they marrying? Change our mentality 7 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 1:22pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: You are wise 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by DiabloGato: 2:08pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
op I was in your situation for good 42 days until I woke up to reality. this one was even demanding for iPhone x. nothing you fit do to satisfy her. word of advice run before she wreck you 3 Likes |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 4:09pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
She is my companion, my friend... I value that a whole lot. |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by heybel(m): 4:21pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
sex sex sex sex and sex |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by roarik(f): 4:35pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
she's just there for d money,believe me..u ain't d only one she's dating....look for ur help mate bro |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by MrCuteking(m): 4:41pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: I have started working on this. You are a genius. I just hope it works. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
MrCuteking:I'm glad I helped sir, good to know you are not giving up yet. My prayer is with you |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 4:45pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
roarik:hi, cn i get to talk to you, maybe tru ur fb page or any means, thx |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Maxi112: 4:49pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Bro isn't sex enough? Trust! |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by crismark(m): 4:54pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
some girls re so broke... dating dem is like dating their problems... any girl dat doesn't provide any reasonable idea on hw to succeed or invest is ntn but a fuckmate.. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by SmellingAnus(m): 5:12pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
More sex... Don't mind me... I felt like being naughty |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Destined2win: 5:13pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
I don't think it is difficult for a man to differentiate between a woman who is a liability and one who is not |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by walepackage(m): 5:20pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:you just said it all.You are the one to define your relationship by yourself.If its for kpanshy sake or serious matter and she will definately adjust her ways or you let go of her. |
Re: Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 5:23pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
walepackage:Exactly! |
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