As shared by Twitter user, Omo

"This marriage thing please, how does it pay women? You leave the comfort of your daddy's house to wake up to cook for someone. You both go to work, both come back and you (only you) are cooking again.
Then on Saturday. You cook, clean, laundry and he gets to choose if he's watching the game or hanging with his boys. If you have kids, you have to watch them and care for them. But both of you will go to work on Monday.
Sunday afternoon, he's watching Supersports or napping after Church. You're in the kitchen again. Only you. Tomorrow morning you (alone) will bathe the kids & make breakfast before you both go to work.

And this is a simple situation. It's more complicated when he's the type that won't eat frozen food, doesn't think you need a house help, and will never touch anything domestic. How does this marriage thing pay working women?

I'm not even try to start an argument but I just want to hear the opinion of men about this and if they think it's fair that both of us should work outside but only one of us should work inside the home.

Why would anyone want to be a Nigerian wife? It's fucking inconvenient! Imagine being so comfortable living with your parents, why would you leave that to take care of a grown man? Ew.

I'm actually so fucking perplexed because men call women the weaker sex but we do all the fucking housework. If you're so strong, why aren't you doing dishes, mopping, and pounding yam?"


https://twitter.com/lolaofthenorth/status/968931547742130183

Source: http://mandynews.com/2018/03/01/feminist-reveals-why-its-inconvenient-being-a-nigerian-wife/

Recycled old shii

I don't understand why some ladies keep repeating these old lines just to trend on the social media for a few hours, perhaps they believe they are the first set of people to give the issue of working/busy wives a serious thought in the Nigerian society.

Over the years, busy moms and dads all over Nigeria have always seek the assistance of a domestic worker or a house help to help with the work or activities that they can't perform around the house as a result of their busy lifestyles.

I don't really know what these social media ladies want to achieve now with their unsolicited and biased awareness besides attention

A marriage is an agreement between two people and it should be kept that way. There is no need to have a public debate about ones personal choices or what should be ones personal decisions. if any party in the agreement(marriage) is not happy, they can always break the union.

Everybody claiming to be a feminist without understanding the true meaning of feminism, smh

The world is not fair to women... it's very inconvenient and hard to live as a woman especially in Nigeria.
People expect so much from women/mothers, and they dare not complain.
They have to keep working and working and giving and giving (even during pregnancy) till they are exhausted.
Then when they reach ages between their late 40s and early 50s, they start to experience all kinds ill health, HBP, Arthritis, Hypertension, untimely death...and most men are not appreciative or sympathetic (the way they bash women these days ehn...especially on nairaland)
I feel so sorry for so many of them.
Appreciate Women!
Respect Women!!
Love Women!!!

That's what happens when your husband doesn't treat you like a WIFE. There's more to marriage then doing chores and she's not seeing that lol.

Lemme wait for the married aunties here to explain. To those calling her a feminist, I don't see where she mentioned she's one or is it just me? Someone cannot say what's on their minds before being tagged?

Cc Bibijay123, what's your take on this?

Fools everywhere!
Feminists wannabes everywhere!
Confused ladies everywhere!
Attention seeking mofos everywhere!
Frustrated ladies everywhere!

Hahahahaha

At the mention of SEX DOLL now, they'll start confessing how good they can cook, they'll start comparing themselves to SEX DOLL and start asking if "Sex doll" can cook, they'll start confessing that they can do chores very well ....Now look at them embarrassing their families on social media, they don't want to be like their mothers, they don't want to follow their mother's footsteps ..Are these people not confused?

Don't be surprised this very lady is praying and crying for a man in her life ... And one funny thing is that you can never see these feminist wannabes in real, na only social media



If you are a confused feminist wannabe like that lady.... Just do us a favour and get d'fvck out of here mehn, men aren't responsible for your frustration

MhisTahrah:

Abi

You don't see your female colleague, the lady is even sticking out her tongue in the picture out of ignorance, perhaps thinking she has written an essay that will change the world.

Old junk stories oshi

greiboy:
Recycled old shii

I don't understand why some ladies keep repeating this old lines just to trend on the social media for a few hours, perhaps they believe they are the first set of people to give the issue of a working/busy wives a serious though in the Nigerian society.

Over the years, busy moms and dads all over Nigeria have always seek the assistance of a domestic worker or an house help to help with the work or activities that they can't perform around the house as a result of their busy lifestyles.

I don't really know what these social media ladies want to achieve now with their unsolicited and biased awareness besides attention

A marriage is an agreement between two people and it should be kept that way. There is no need to have a public debate about ones personal choice or what should be ones personal decision. if any party in the agreement(marriage) is not happy, they can always break the union.

donstan18:
Fools everywhere!
Feminists wannabes everywhere!
Confused ladies everywhere!
Attention seeking mofos everywhere!
Frustrated ladies everywhere!

Hahahahaha

At the mention of SEX DOLL now, they'll start confessing how good they can cook, they'll start comparing themselves to SEX DOLL and start asking if "Sex doll" can cook, they'll start confessing that they can do chores very well ....Now look at them embarrassing their families on social media ..Are these people not confused?

If you are a confused feminist wannabe like that lady.... Just do us a favour and gerrarahia mehn!!!

How does this post make her a feminist?
Na the question her brain tell her to ask...

Anyway, everyone should marry the kind of partner they desire. There are some women/men that would genuinely like that kinda arrangement. Some others would not.

Rather than go on with this same old debate, couples should place all cards on the table [before marriage]. That way there would be no surprises and everyone would know his/her expected contribution in marriage.

What were you doing in your father's house?

Her problem is cooking men work out their asses to find money for the food.

Seat down b!tch

greiboy:
Recycled old shii

I don't understand why some ladies keep repeating this old lines just to trend on the social media for a few hours, perhaps they believe they are the first set of people to give the issue of a working/busy wives a serious thought in the Nigerian society.

Over the years, busy moms and dads all over Nigeria have always seek the assistance of a domestic worker or an house help to help with the work or activities that they can't perform around the house as a result of their busy lifestyles.

I don't really know what these social media ladies want to achieve now with their unsolicited and biased awareness besides attention

A marriage is an agreement between two people and it should be kept that way. There is no need to have a public debate about ones personal choice or what should be ones personal decision. if any party in the agreement(marriage) is not happy, they can always break the union.

Some things need to be said...the struggle/hardship for Women is real but so many Men don't want to hear it
It's alarming at the rate which Mothers in their 50s are dying...of stroke, heart attack...

Don't women cook in their father's house ?

greiboy:

Abi

You don't see your female colleague, the lady is even sticking out her tongue in the picture out of ignorance, perhaps thinking she has written an essay that will change the world.

Old junk stories oshi

I thought nairaland left this behind in 2017.The gender wars have chilled tho...

Mariangeles:
Some things need to be said...the struggle/hardship for Women is real but so many Men don't want to hear it

Sister there are more important issues about women in our society that needs urgent attention than house chores or which partner should be cleaning the gutters.

Every lady must be aware of the characters of a man before marrying him. Therefore, the fact that he is not helping around the house shouldn't be our collective headache.

Mariangeles:
Some things need to be said...the struggle/hardship for Women is real but so many Men don't want to hear it
It's alarming at the rate which Mothers in their 50s are dying...of stroke, heart attack...

lol..where did you Get your statistics of mothers dying at alarming rate in their 50s cos of home Chores biko?

MhisTahrah:
I thought nairaland left this behind in 2017.The gender wars have chilled tho...

Hope you are good? Gender wars can never end, as long as there are new heart breaks and attention seekers

Mariangeles:
[s]The world is not fair to women... it's very inconvenient and hard to live as a woman especially in Nigeria.
People expect so much from women/mothers, and they dare not complain. They have to keep working and working and giving and giving (even during pregnancy) till they are exhausted, then when they reach ages between their late 40s and early 50s, they start to experience all kinds ill health, HBP, Arthritis, Hypertension, untimely death...and most men are not appreciative or sympathetic (the way they bash women these days ehn...especially on nairaland)
I feel so sorry for so many of them.
Appreciate Women!
Respect Women!!
Love Women!!! [/s]

Appreciate human beings, not women.

No gender is easy..... Ask you father for more explanations

Chikita66 I'm back

lool..as a lazy wife,,I don't mind buying food outside...if he's tired to cook his own food, he should join me too...



who marriage don epp.

QueenSekxy:
Chikita66 I'm back

Welcome back dear, I finished my exam since. Just chilling and writing my project jejely.

donblazer10:
lol..where did you Get your statistics of mothers dying at alarming rate in their 50s cos of home Chores biko?

Not just chores...the whole struggle in general

Chikita66:
Welcome back dear, I finished my exam since. Just chilling and writing my project jejely.

thanks..I thought you finished on Monday.

I deh back gate now sef...

I came to your side but wasn't having my phone with me,,would have called you...to come out,,maybe give you one of the sharwama I was with

greiboy:
Hope you are good? Gender wars can never end, as long as there are new heart breaks and attention seekers

I'm good, bro. And you?

If you don't like being married, then don't marry, leave it for us that love it, and who said you must be the only one doing the cooking, washing, cleaning etc?

My man do cook and wash plates, sweep when I don't feel like doing so and we are not even married. Its depends on the kind of man you are dating or married to.

MhisTahrah:

Dafvck can I do for you?

QueenSekxy:
lool..as a lazy wife,,I don't mind buying food outside...if he's tired to cook his own food, he should join me too...



who marriage don epp.

QueenSekxy:

thanks..I thought you finished on Monday.

I deh back gate now sef...

I came to your side but wasn't having my phone with me,,would have called you...to come out,,maybe give you one of the sharwama I was with

Did I hear you say shawama? Kai! I don miss o.

donblazer10:
lol..where did you Get your statistics of mothers dying at alarming rate in their 50s cos of home Chores biko?

I'm talking reality, you're talking statistics...

MhisTahrah:
I'm good, bro. And you?

good good
We thank God

MhisTahrah:

my baebi boo,, sweetness how you?

makydebbie:
That's what happens when your husband doesn't treat you like a WIFE.

Maky watchu sayin

I like doing my stuffs like the boss that I am...

Order my wife around... bark at her and sometimes, hit her real hard!

Now that's how we roll... cos I'm the boss!