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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 01, 2018
efesodje:
Everybody claiming to be a feminist without understanding the true meaning of feminism, smh undecided
feminist that collects monthly allowance from sugar daddy and depends on her sugar daddy for house rent is dat one feministcheesy?

Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by karli4nia(m): 8:27pm On Mar 01, 2018
Hmmmmm... Just negodu what this one is blabbing baloney!
Well, am glad most of our ladies are too intelligent and objective not to fall for this farfetched kinda talk.. Even thinking of this alone is to begin to incite the tots of swimming in an ocean of disillusionment.
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 8:36pm On Mar 01, 2018
lefulefu:
feminist that collects monthly allowance from sugar daddy and depends on her sugar daddy for house rent is dat one feministcheesy?

grin cheesy That's a hungry olosho-ic feminist cheesy
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 8:40pm On Mar 01, 2018
greiboy:
grin grin

Abi

Instead of all this junk, many busy families hire the services of domestic workers around Lagos because of their busy schedule. it all boils down to understanding

or better still, marry a white man. grin
very true most modern families these days with busy schedule hire house helps to look after their children . There are many modern equipments like the washing machine to make it easier washing ur clothes. She was mentioning about pounding for a mancheesy...who uses mortar and pestle these days?cheesy. There are yam pounder machines in place.things are so easier these days unlike in the past. Gone to some modern families and u will see that in most cases if d man is earning well and d major bread winner he will never stress d woman at all.such women will be in the sittingroom from morning till night watching zee world while d house maid is d one doing all d workcheesy.

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 01, 2018
efesodje:


grin cheesy That's a hungry oloshoic feminist cheesy

Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Adamummya(f): 8:46pm On Mar 01, 2018
i think she's right smhw,if i'm working and helping my man to pay the bills then he should assist in domestic chores .
the ones he can do o ,before the menist will attack me

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 01, 2018
Mariangeles:
Some things need to be said...the struggle/hardship for Women is real but so many Men don't want to hear it
It's alarming at the rate which Mothers in their 50s are dying...of stroke, heart attack...
it is the unhealthy lifestyle many ppl are living that are making them to suffer stroke,high bp and die early.it is not only nigerian women who get afflicted with these diseases...nigerian men also get afflicted with it.stop being sentimental bro.
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 01, 2018
Adamummya:
i think she's right smhw,if i'm working and helping my man to pay the bills then he should assist in domestic chores .
the ones he can do o ,before the menist will attack me
assisting is more appropriate than a lady sitting in d sittingroom watching telemondo while d man is in d kitchen cooking all by himself.
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 01, 2018
Mariangeles:
The world is not fair to women... it's very inconvenient and hard to live as a woman especially in Nigeria.
People expect so much from women/mothers, and they dare not complain. They have to keep working and working and giving and giving (even during pregnancy) till they are exhausted, then when they reach ages between their late 40s and early 50s, they start to experience all kinds ill health, HBP, Arthritis, Hypertension, untimely death...and most men are not appreciative or sympathetic (the way they bash women these days ehn...especially on nairaland)
I feel so sorry for so many of them.
Appreciate Women!
Respect Women!!
Love Women!!!
I don't think your father would be proud of you for this above statement. Maybe you never had a father while growing up and don't know what it means to be a father figure. Appreciate all human being and not just a gender, everyone has his own role to play in this cruel world
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Mariangeles(f): 9:10pm On Mar 01, 2018
desquad:
I don't think your father would be proud of you for this above statement. Maybe you never had a father while growing up and don't know what it means to be a father figure. Appreciate all human being and not just a gender, everyone has his own role to play in this cruel world
I do appreciate all human being and their struggle but I think the society needs to cut the women some slack...

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Mariangeles(f): 9:12pm On Mar 01, 2018
lefulefu:
it is the unhealthy lifestyle many ppl are living that are making them to suffer stroke,high bp and die early.it is not only nigerian women who get afflicted with these diseases...nigerian men also get afflicted with it.stop being sentimental bro.
Do you know will happen when you overwork the body over time...?
More women suffer arthritis and hbp than men...whenever you go to the market to buy things, try to observe those market women...in the sun, they're there... in the rain, they're there...in the cold harsh weather, they're there... No break, No leave ,year in year out
Those are the ones I'm talking about!

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 9:19pm On Mar 01, 2018
Mariangeles:
I do appreciate all human being and their struggle but I think the society needs to cut the women some slack...
ok, what happens in other people's home is not your business because their wifes didn't complain to you. Get married and cut your wife all the slack in the world undecided

You're just a boy who still needs some growing up to do
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Mariangeles(f): 9:23pm On Mar 01, 2018
desquad:
ok, what happens in other people's home is not your business because their didn't complain to you. Get married and cut your wife all the slack in the world undecided

You're just a boy who still needs some growing up to do
Grow up!
See how people are sharing their opinion in a civilized way, you had to start with the insults... smh

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Adamummya(f): 9:23pm On Mar 01, 2018
lefulefu:
assisting is more appropriate than a lady sitting in d sittingroom watching telemondo while d man is in d kitchen cooking all by himself.

yeah, but op never meant it that way tho

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Mariangeles(f): 9:25pm On Mar 01, 2018
desquad:
[s] I don't think your father would be proud of you for this above statement. Maybe you never had a father while growing up and don't know what it means to be a father figure. [/s]Appreciate all human being and not just a gender, everyone has his own role to play in this cruel world
Show some respect... don't bring my Father into this

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Jman06(m): 9:44pm On Mar 01, 2018
Mariangeles:
Some things need to be said...the struggle/hardship for Women is real but so many Men don't want to hear it
It's alarming at the rate which Mothers in their 50s are dying...of stroke, heart attack...
Is it anybody's fault that you chose to marry an uncaring man who doesn't help out in domestic chores

When you marry a bad spouse, you shouldn't expect him to turn an angel overnight.

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by donblazer10(m): 10:16pm On Mar 01, 2018
Mariangeles:
I'm talking reality, you're talking statistics...
lol..why do you think men die before women?....aunty until you show me where you got your information from then I'll take you seriously lol
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by ibietela2(m): 4:52am On Mar 02, 2018
makydebbie:
That's what happens when your husband doesn't treat you like a WIFE. There's more to marriage then doing chores and she's not seeing that lol.

Lemme wait for the married aunties here to explain. To those calling her a feminist, I don't see where she mentioned she's one or is it just me? Someone cannot say what's on their minds before being tagged?


Her twitter bio
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 5:47am On Mar 02, 2018
MhisTahrah:
Thanks ma'am. Lefulefu, come and give queen cake Abeg. cheesy cheesy kiss
wow wow wow wow shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
so it was ur birthday? shocked
so very sorry i brought d cake late wink
Queensekzy did u create a birthday thread 4 tahra?
happybirthday dear cheesy
ok lemme bring cake 4 u cheesy

Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 5:52am On Mar 02, 2018
Mariangeles:
Do you know will happen when you overwork the body over time...?
More women suffer arthritis and hbp than men e cold harsh weather, they're there... No break, No leave ,year in year out
Those are the ones I'm talking about!
u are talking about our mothers that slaved for us sending us to school.we all appreciate what they did and are doing for us.young indomie mothers of today dont go through half that stress.
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 6:01am On Mar 02, 2018
Adamummya:


yeah, but op never meant it that way tho
does ur boyfriend overwork u with home chorus? cheesy
a lady here said her own boyfriend helps her with the cleaning when she"s fagged out.so u see no big deal.some men sef dont even allow their wives to wash their clothes.they give it to dry cleaner and their underwears they wash themselves.me wey dey cook my own food and wash my clothes i never break down yet cheesy cheesy.

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 6:51am On Mar 02, 2018
Adamummya:
i think she's right smhw, if i'm working and helping my man to pay the bills then he should assist in domestic chores.
the ones he can do o ,before the menist will attack me


Does she has to be helping me in paying the bills before I do that? No!
I enjoy doing domestic chores while she relaxes on bed watching tele.

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by BossLaifay(f): 7:03am On Mar 02, 2018
makydebbie:
That's what happens when your husband doesn't treat you like a WIFE. There's more to marriage then doing chores and she's not seeing that lol
Exactly. Choose spouses wisely to avoid this kind of complaining. And she is not a feminist.
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by BossLaifay(f): 7:06am On Mar 02, 2018
Jman06:
Is it anybody's fault that you chose to marry an uncaring man who doesn't help out in domestic chores

When you marry a bad spouse, you shouldn't expect him to turn an angel overnight.
Gbam!!! 'Cause this isn't feminism

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 7:54am On Mar 02, 2018
Why has OP changed the title of the thread from girl to feminist?

On topic:
The girl complains about men and marriage and her solution is to remain in daddy's house? Like seriously? It's outrightly annoying, though she is right that many women work more than their husbands, many couples share the bills but not the domestic chores.

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 7:55am On Mar 02, 2018
lefulefu:

u are talking about our mothers that slaved for us sending us to school.we all appreciate what they did and are doing for us.young indomie mothers of today dont go through half that stress.

Why would they want to?
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 7:56am On Mar 02, 2018
donblazer10:
lol..why do you think men die before women?....aunty until you show me where you got your information from then I'll take you seriously lol

Maybe because they drink and smoke more? Maybe because they grow bellies the size of a pumpkin even though they did not carry one pregnancy?

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by donblazer10(m): 8:03am On Mar 02, 2018
Mindfulness:


Maybe because they drink and smoke more? Maybe because they grow bellies the size of a pumpkin even though they did not carry one pregnancy?
lol..I won't argue with you anymore..from this post of yours it's obvious you're not one to argue cos it's really pointless doing so...have a nice day
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Nobody: 8:07am On Mar 02, 2018
donblazer10:
lol..I won't argue with you anymore..from this post of yours it's obvious you're not one to argue cos it's really pointless doing so...have a nice day

grin

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Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by makydebbie(f): 8:15am On Mar 02, 2018
BossLaifay:
Exactly. Choose spouses wisely to avoid this kind of complaining. And she is not a feminist.
I agree. 100%
I don't know why she's called one.
Re: Feminist Reveals Why It's Inconvenient Being A Nigerian Wife by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:25am On Mar 02, 2018
donstan18:


Appreciate human beings, not women.

No gender is easy..... Ask you father for more explanations
The guy was right.

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