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Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Abbertee2: 12:04pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
this girl i swear she has nothing to offer in marriage 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:04pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by phranklyn92(m): 12:07pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Nymeria247:A GOT fan spotted ![]() 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by dukila: 12:10pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
PietraK: You dont have sense. 4 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:10pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
marvin906:Will you also contribute to the household and takecare of the kids? Realistically you men will come back home from work, sit down expect food on the table and go to bed. That’s where the problem is. The reason why women are complaining is because they give too much in marriages without receiving hardly anything. When you see a husband taking care of his family properly, giving his wife everything she wants and more, why would she complain about doing a little bit of house chores? But because men want to relax and have the wife literally do everything, it’s a problem. Women are also part of the problem because they want to claim miss independent/Wonder Woman, why won’t men take advantage? Let a man take care of you. Not saying you can’t have your own money or aspirations, that’s also important. But in a marriage let the man know you’re his wife not his mother/roommate. Jeez. 3 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by tosyne2much(m): 12:13pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
This one never ready to marry nah so she should better enjoy the comfort of her father's house If as a guy I can wake up earn in the morning to tidy the house and wash the dishes (much more of a lady). Ladies like this do not surprise me. Had a girl like that that I had to pester and keep reminding her of taking her bathe, tidy the house and wash her own dirty clothes 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:15pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Chari4: Archaic? Open your mind to the future. There will be a future where population grows and there won't be jobs for 90% of the population. God did not create men after women equal. Nature did not make men and women equal. We were built to work and provide for the home both physically and emotionally. Women were built physically and emotionally to take care of the children and home. If you can't live with it, kill yourself. Archaic or not, you can't cheat nature or rebuilt women. The ego, the strength and everything masculine makes men providers. Women should learn their place and joy in it. Consider the solution in my post (employment and salary percentage going to wives) In fact, what is the difference between "help meet" and house maid? Only sex. Whatever you want to call it... Women were created to help with taking care of the home and raising children. Simple. 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by erico2k2(m): 12:16pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:In Nigeria women pay 50/50 ? ? 4 real ? ? Man pays Rent Electric bill Gas bill School fees . Provide feeding money .the vast majority of Nigerian homes function like this. 5 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by LushGreenz: 12:17pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
dominique: Is marriage even worth all the trouble nowadays ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
dukila: Without sense I wrote a piece .. You that have sense have nothing or superior argument to offer than insult. You are an animal. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by spiritedtete: 12:20pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
dominique: No two rules in marriage... submission or get out...!! No competition no equality ...! It is always the man's home. Take it or pack out 3 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by dominique(f): 12:21pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Watermelonman: Yes, 8 years this year 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by ENG1110: 12:23pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
deesad2002: That is for those that married lazy men. I do most of the dish washing, while wife is cooking. I also help out with cleaning. She cooks because she is a better cook- I used to cook when i was a bachelor, and I still do occasional cooking. 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
erico2k2:But upon providing this you still complain and ask the women to assist you and help you to doyour job. You slightly manage to cover the needs financially but are you covering her wants? Do you make life comfortable for your wife financially without complaints? But in return you expect the house to be spotless,food always ready kids taken care of and still want her to contribute money to house. It’s too much pressure for wife, whilst you’re not even performing your job as the provider to your full capacity. I don’t believe in “ we’ll help each other out in everything” nonsense, because in the end, the woman always takes up more. Understand your role, everybody will be happy ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Wow, very touching. Firstly, Hire a domestic staff to do laundry and house chores and another professional cook to handle the kitchen. Una dey do 9-5 slave labor, no be so ? If the husband disagrees with the arrangement above, then drag the mother/fucker to the kitchen to help out with the chores almost always until he accepts the condition above. Life is not very fair to women in this generations, women used to be Goddesses and givers of life, now not only have we caged women and changed their names to tours as their personal property, they also do not offer them adequate tender and erotic/romantic massages. A woman who knows what it is to be human, will not tolerate any false imprisonment from any fellow human being simply because he is wired up with a dick. Most women will order male sex dolls soon and I support them. I just love women. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
HeWrites:she is a femi-NAZI |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by jennyolive: 12:28pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Really ![]() princefunmmy: 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by erico2k2(m): 12:30pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:Did you read what I wrote at all ? 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by pedrilo: 12:33pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
dominique:u hav notin sensible. Keep looking for a man that will share house work wit U. 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:35pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
erico2k2:All those things are necessities. They have to be paid. Are you providing in all aspects or just where it’s necessary. Are you providing to your full capacity, because women nurture to the heavens and back. Where it’s not a necessity to provide, are you asking for contributions from your wife? Just a question. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Xmen149(m): 12:43pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
bride price will then be 50/50,marriage expenses 50/50. HABA!!! Married women working to earn has been an age long tradition ![]() Growing up,my grandma has farm land (the produce of that farm was used to feed the family,some sold t raise money) given to her by granda,The man has his own lands where he cultivates too. The woman still raised all her kids and both contributing from what they make for their school and stuff back then. i can still remember the woman rarely buy stuff from market as she harvests them fresh from farm to cook. Same still applies,men have grown emotional and wants to engage in life of their kids and family from day one,.that should in no way mean 50/50 as the women should still know what beign a wife is. Go talk with elderly you have and get informed. Note i can enter my house and decide everywhere is dirty then mop and clean it up,.the womans big mistake will be telling me tomorrow that my work now is to mop the house while she cooks (na ur mama house u dey go be that),.she can still ask plitely and we make it fun with other things....but as human,that dznt mean we shldnt know when one is stressed to help out...but keep ur rules to ur self or go |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by kense88: 12:43pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Holamscoh:I dey feel you my nigga. Marriage is not a necessity, but our people see it differently. Am ready work my ass of to provide everything my wife and children would need(that is if i didn't change my mind on marriage), but would leave house chore, babysitting e.t.c for my wife( she can hire somebody to assist her with my money). In summary, I foot all the bills while she takes care of things at home. Honestly am not sure, am ready to wake up in the night to nurse any baby. OK may be once in a while. 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by arherfish(m): 12:43pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Only problem I saw here is that she hate cooking. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by dominique(f): 12:46pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
spiritedtete: Who is fighting with you now? That a wife is submissive doesn't mean you should not give her some form of respect. Submission to men like you means subservience and subjugation, in other worlds slavery. If I have to choose between being married to a boy-man like you and packing out, I will gladly pick the pack out option. Unlike the desperados that will prefer to suffer in the name of marriage, marriage will never be a do or die affair for me. I will gladly leave your house for you to eat it. A man that cannot accord his wife some level of respect and see her as a partner is not fit to be a man. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by sprints1: 12:46pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
all these lazy women that cant do anything but eat will always complain how can I be married as a nigerian man and still be cooking for myself what is the essence of a wife that cant cook for me i rather remain unmarried then..if ur wife cannot offer u good sex and better cooked food my brother u are in a wrong investment 4 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by lilyheaven: 12:49pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
All this Guy's in nairaland are all wicked . They want a woman to contribute financially in solving problems, but their wicked ego will not humble them to help with house choirs. 5 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 12:50pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
When do you see men proudly saying they can take care of the house, cook for themselves and take care of the kids by themselves. They don’t, because they don’t want to help you women with the job you’re supposed to do. Yet women talk about being financial independent, helping a man financially and boasting about it like it’s something you’re supposed to do. You’re helping a man do his job. Why won’t he take advantage of it? The burden then lies on your head and you start complaining that you’re not benefitting anything from marriage. Women be smart ahbeg. Use you’re head..Keep equality out of marriage, you will be much happier. Use your womanhood to your advantage. 4 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by spiritedtete: 12:54pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
dominique: Lol All these internet slay girls ... No word... it is well jare |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by KanwuliaExtra: 12:54pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
A MAJOR INCONVENIENCE! I PRAISE NIGERIAN WOMEN WEY DEY LIVE FOR NIGERIA!!! Una strong ooooooo! I cannot LIVE there!!!!! Lai lai!!!!! ![]() Women are like THE MAJOR SHYTE IN THAT HOLE OF A COUNTRY! ![]() Women have NO VALUE. Primitive society, primitive country. Twa!!!! ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by ziggylove01: 1:07pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
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Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 1:07pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
lilyheaven:that’s why you don’t contribute financially at all. Problem solved, happily ever after ![]() ![]() |
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