this girl i swear she has nothing to offer in marriage

Nymeria247:
I agree with you absolutely: Marriage is definitely not for everybody and certainly would not work for anyone with this kind of mindset.

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PietraK:
God did not create women to be providers or bread winners.

Women were made to support men by cooking their foods and taking care of the home.

The man is responsible for feeding his wife and children and as well provide shelter. His wife in turn rewards him with her duty in keeping the home homely and sex.

If women can identify themselves and appreciate their strength, they will have it easier.

Women get mad when men objectify them as sex beings. They are supposed to embrace their uniqueness and follow nature's plan but they want to be the same with men.

They want to work and be independent. Who will breast feed your infants and cook for your children when you are out doing the man's work of providing for the family.

In fact, I will outlaw female employment in Nigeria if I get to rule the country. Men would work, be forced to be responsible and provide for their family. Enact a law that ensures 70% of men's salaries go to home management which the wife will oversee.

I will make a law that will ensure men get married before being employed to avoid men avoiding marriages and leaving women stranded.

This will make the world a better place.

Women want to work, no wahala... If you can combine the work with your responsibilities at home no wahala.

You dont have sense.

marvin906:



my wife taking 50% of the family expenses..
no thanks..
she can contribute buh not that much

Will you also contribute to the household and takecare of the kids? Realistically you men will come back home from work, sit down expect food on the table and go to bed. That’s where the problem is. The reason why women are complaining is because they give too much in marriages without receiving hardly anything. When you see a husband taking care of his family properly, giving his wife everything she wants and more, why would she complain about doing a little bit of house chores? But because men want to relax and have the wife literally do everything, it’s a problem. Women are also part of the problem because they want to claim miss independent/Wonder Woman, why won’t men take advantage? Let a man take care of you. Not saying you can’t have your own money or aspirations, that’s also important. But in a marriage let the man know you’re his wife not his mother/roommate. Jeez.

Chari4:
This is the most archaic mentality. You want to outlaw female employment? Are you normal? After you ll come and be talking about racism when you cannot even treat your fellow human as equals. God created women as "help meet" get it right not your maid besides how many men can fully support their homes based on their salary, we work together to make the home work. If you need a slave master relationship get a maid.

Archaic?

Open your mind to the future. There will be a future where population grows and there won't be jobs for 90% of the population.

God did not create men after women equal. Nature did not make men and women equal. We were built to work and provide for the home both physically and emotionally.

Women were built physically and emotionally to take care of the children and home.

If you can't live with it, kill yourself. Archaic or not, you can't cheat nature or rebuilt women.

The ego, the strength and everything masculine makes men providers. Women should learn their place and joy in it.

Consider the solution in my post (employment and salary percentage going to wives)

In fact, what is the difference between "help meet" and house maid? Only sex.

Whatever you want to call it... Women were created to help with taking care of the home and raising children. Simple.

Safiaaa:
If he is asking for 50/50 when contributing to bills and rent, then it’s 50/50 in all aspects of the house, including house chores. Women should please smarten up and stop being so ridiculous.

You want to work, pay rent, cook food take care of kids, what is now his role? Understand your role in the house, you won’t have any problems. Stop trying to be wonder women, you will live a stress free life and benefit more.

In Nigeria women pay 50/50 ? ?
4 real ? ?
Man pays
Rent
Electric bill
Gas bill
School fees .
Provide feeding money
.the vast majority of Nigerian homes function like this.

dominique:
Not all marriages, some men are very hands on with house chores and child care. Besides, some women bring this upon themselves. You will go to a man's personal and family homes and turn yourself into their glorified maid just to prove you're 200 yards of wife material. How won't they take you as a glorified maid in marriage?

Some women will go ahead to marry a man that unapologetically told her that chores are solely a woman's duty because they're desperate to marry. Once married, they will see how draining all that housework but they won't be able to complain too much because that's what they signed up for.

Marriage shouldn't be as hard as our people are making it. All it involves are partnership, effective communication, mutual respect and understanding.

Is marriage even worth all the trouble nowadays

dukila:


You dont have sense.

Without sense I wrote a piece .. You that have sense have nothing or superior argument to offer than insult.

You are an animal.

dominique:
Not all marriages, some men are very hands on with house chores and child care. Besides, some women bring this upon themselves. You will go to a man's personal and family homes and turn yourself into their glorified maid just to prove you're 200 yards of wife material. How won't they take you as a glorified maid in marriage?

Some women will go ahead to marry a man that unapologetically told her that chores are solely a woman's duty because they're desperate to marry. Once married, they will see how draining all that housework but they won't be able to complain too much because that's what they signed up for.

Marriage shouldn't be as hard as our people are making it. All it involves are partnership, effective communication, mutual respect and understanding.

No two rules in marriage... submission or get out...!!
No competition no equality ...!

It is always the man's home. Take it or pack out

Watermelonman:


Are you married?

Yes, 8 years this year

deesad2002:
I cannot agree less. Her points are valid if we think about it honestly.

That is for those that married lazy men. I do most of the dish washing, while wife is cooking. I also help out with cleaning. She cooks because she is a better cook- I used to cook when i was a bachelor, and I still do occasional cooking.

erico2k2:

In Nigeria women pay 50/50 ? ?
4 real ? ?
Man pays
Rent
Electric bill
Gas bill
School fees .
Provide feeding money
.the vast majority of Nigerian homes function like this.

But upon providing this you still complain and ask the women to assist you and help you to doyour job. You slightly manage to cover the needs financially but are you covering her wants? Do you make life comfortable for your wife financially without complaints? But in return you expect the house to be spotless,food always ready kids taken care of and still want her to contribute money to house. It’s too much pressure for wife, whilst you’re not even performing your job as the provider to your full capacity. I don’t believe in “ we’ll help each other out in everything” nonsense, because in the end, the woman always takes up more. Understand your role, everybody will be happy

Wow, very touching.

Firstly,
Hire a domestic staff to do laundry and house chores and another professional cook to handle the kitchen. Una dey do 9-5 slave labor, no be so ?

If the husband disagrees with the arrangement above, then drag the mother/fucker to the kitchen to help out with the chores almost always until he accepts the condition above.

Life is not very fair to women in this generations, women used to be Goddesses and givers of life, now not only have we caged women and changed their names to tours as their personal property, they also do not offer them adequate tender and erotic/romantic massages.

A woman who knows what it is to be human, will not tolerate any false imprisonment from any fellow human being simply because he is wired up with a dick.

Most women will order male sex dolls soon and I support them. I just love women.

HeWrites:
A lady on Twitter with the handle @lolaofthenorth took to her twitter TL to ask how marriage do pay women.

According to her, women will have to the comfort of her daddy's house to wake up to cook for some. You both go to work, come back and you (only you) are cooking again. She went further to explain that being married in Nigeria is very Inconveniencing.

Read her full tweets below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/marriage-pays-women-married-nigeria-inconveniencing-lady.html

she is a femi-NAZI

Really sò she will not give birth abi? it is 2 cups she will cook forever? u see that u don't have sense

princefunmmy:
I think she's a lazy and dirty girl. If she was alone, wont she eat? Abi how does cooking for two become so difficult? Before you do cook 1 cup of rice, now you're gonna be cooking 2 cups! What's the big deal when it is not like your cooking for like 5 Persons?

Safiaaa:
But upon providing this you still complain and ask the women to assist you and help you to doyour job. You slightly manage to cover the needs financially but are you covering her wants? Do you make life comfortable for your wife financially without complaints? But in return you expect the house to be spotless,food always ready kids taken care of and still want her to contribute money to house. It’s too much pressure for wife, whilst you’re not even performing your job as the provider to your full capacity. I don’t believe in “ we’ll help each other out in everything” nonsense, because in the end, the woman always takes up more. Understand your role, everybody will be happy

Did you read what I wrote at all ?

dominique:
Not all marriages, some men are very hands on with house chores and child care. Besides, some women bring this upon themselves. You will go to a man's personal and family homes and turn yourself into their glorified maid just to prove you're 200 yards of wife material. How won't they take you as a glorified maid in marriage?

Some women will go ahead to marry a man that unapologetically told her that chores are solely a woman's duty because they're desperate to marry. Once married, they will see how draining all that housework but they won't be able to complain too much because that's what they signed up for.

Marriage shouldn't be as hard as our people are making it. All it involves are partnership, effective communication, mutual respect and understanding.

u hav notin sensible. Keep looking for a man that will share house work wit U.

erico2k2:

Did you read what I wrote at all ?

All those things are necessities. They have to be paid. Are you providing in all aspects or just where it’s necessary. Are you providing to your full capacity, because women nurture to the heavens and back. Where it’s not a necessity to provide, are you asking for contributions from your wife? Just a question.

bride price will then be 50/50,marriage expenses 50/50.

HABA!!!

Married women working to earn has been an age long tradition

Growing up,my grandma has farm land (the produce of that farm was used to feed the family,some sold t raise money) given to her by granda,The man has his own lands where he cultivates too. The woman still raised all her kids and both contributing from what they make for their school and stuff back then.

i can still remember the woman rarely buy stuff from market as she harvests them fresh from farm to cook.

Same still applies,men have grown emotional and wants to engage in life of their kids and family from day one,.that should in no way mean 50/50 as the women should still know what beign a wife is.

Go talk with elderly you have and get informed.

Note
i can enter my house and decide everywhere is dirty then mop and clean it up,.the womans big mistake will be telling me tomorrow that my work now is to mop the house while she cooks (na ur mama house u dey go be that),.she can still ask plitely and we make it fun with other things....but as human,that dznt mean we shldnt know when one is stressed to help out...but keep ur rules to ur self or go

Holamscoh:
People still dey marry, If anyone should be like me, I swear our population no go reach UK own. Useless Nigerians. All they know is to Bleep Bleep Bleep steal and drink. Overpopulated Fools.

I dey feel you my nigga. Marriage is not a necessity, but our people see it differently. Am ready work my ass of to provide everything my wife and children would need(that is if i didn't change my mind on marriage), but would leave house chore, babysitting e.t.c for my wife( she can hire somebody to assist her with my money). In summary, I foot all the bills while she takes care of things at home. Honestly am not sure, am ready to wake up in the night to nurse any baby. OK may be once in a while.

Only problem I saw here is that she hate cooking.

spiritedtete:


No two rules in marriage... submission or get out...!!
No competition no equality ...!

It is always the man's home. Take it or pack out

Who is fighting with you now? That a wife is submissive doesn't mean you should not give her some form of respect. Submission to men like you means subservience and subjugation, in other worlds slavery. If I have to choose between being married to a boy-man like you and packing out, I will gladly pick the pack out option. Unlike the desperados that will prefer to suffer in the name of marriage, marriage will never be a do or die affair for me. I will gladly leave your house for you to eat it. A man that cannot accord his wife some level of respect and see her as a partner is not fit to be a man.

all these lazy women that cant do anything but eat will always complain how can I be married as a nigerian man and still be cooking for myself what is the essence of a wife that cant cook for me i rather remain unmarried then..if ur wife cannot offer u good sex and better cooked food my brother u are in a wrong investment

All this Guy's in nairaland are all wicked .
They want a woman to contribute financially in solving problems, but their wicked ego will not humble them to help with house choirs.

When do you see men proudly saying they can take care of the house, cook for themselves and take care of the kids by themselves. They don’t, because they don’t want to help you women with the job you’re supposed to do. Yet women talk about being financial independent, helping a man financially and boasting about it like it’s something you’re supposed to do. You’re helping a man do his job. Why won’t he take advantage of it? The burden then lies on your head and you start complaining that you’re not benefitting anything from marriage. Women be smart ahbeg. Use you’re head..Keep equality out of marriage, you will be much happier. Use your womanhood to your advantage.

dominique:


Who is fighting with you now? That a wife is submissive doesn't mean you should not give her some form of respect. Submission to men like you means subservience and subjugation, in other worlds slavery. If I have to choose between being married to a boy-man like you and packing out, I will gladly pick the pack out option. Unlike the desperados that will prefer to suffer in the name of marriage, marriage will never be a do or die affair for me. I will gladly leave your house for you to eat it. A man that cannot accord his wife some level of respect and see her as a partner is not fit to be a man.

Lol All these internet slay girls ... No word... it is well jare

A MAJOR INCONVENIENCE!
I PRAISE NIGERIAN WOMEN WEY DEY LIVE FOR NIGERIA!!! Una strong ooooooo!
I cannot LIVE there!!!!! Lai lai!!!!!

Women are like THE MAJOR SHYTE IN THAT HOLE OF A COUNTRY!

Women have NO VALUE.

Primitive society, primitive country.

Twa!!!!

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lilyheaven:
All this Guy's in nairaland are all wicked .
They want a woman to contribute financially in solving problems, but their wicked ego will not humble them to help with house choirs.

that’s why you don’t contribute financially at all. Problem solved, happily ever after Your money is our money, my money is mine